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Don Juan
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- Jan 22, 2011
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I've ****ed this girl a few times. Both times she was drunk, the first time was the night we met. We've hung out since then, kissed, etc. We had sex again 2-3 weeks after that, she was drunk/high again. Other than that she's been acting like she didn't like me (she'd sometimes talk about other guys, she'd tell me to go pick up a girl, etc).
Two weeks ago she comes over to chill. We're watching a movie and she starts texting me (why I'm not sure since I was sitting beside her). Sends me messages like "I really like you. But I'm shy and can't say it. I'm not used to nice guys but I really like it", and "Would you ever date me?". My response to the first one was to kiss her (we make out). To the second message I said maybe. She got cold after that, asking what's wrong with her. Anyway, that night ended ****ty with her going back to her place after the club.
Last week she again comes over to my place. She's acting kind of weird. I'd try to kiss her and get little response (she wouldn't reject it but wouldn't really kiss me back). She's cuddle with me, let me rub her leg, and she'd be rubbing me. Try to escalate and she tells me to stop. Eventually she calls some guy she met recently to pick her up. Before he got there we were playing around, I pin her down on my bed, start kissing her chest, she starts moaning but quickly tells me to stop. The guy gets there at that point so she leaves.
Since then we've talked over fb a few times (she lost her phone a couple of weeks ago). Basically she said she wants to be friends. I agreed to it at the time. But today I realized that's not what I want, so sent her a message saying that I didn't want to be just friends with her and it's my bad that I wasn't straight with her the first time (delete her from fb for good measure). She sends me back a message asking why I'm acting this way (and tries to add me back to fb). We send a bunch of messages back and forth, with the gist of it being that she just wants to be friends and if I don't like it then too bad. Then she asks me to be friends again. I said no, she says I'm ****ed.
I'm so pissed at this girl. I'm not even sure what the cause of this is either. I know I like her but this is ridiculous. I know I'm in the right for not wanting to be her friend too. Still I want to make sure I'm right here.
Two weeks ago she comes over to chill. We're watching a movie and she starts texting me (why I'm not sure since I was sitting beside her). Sends me messages like "I really like you. But I'm shy and can't say it. I'm not used to nice guys but I really like it", and "Would you ever date me?". My response to the first one was to kiss her (we make out). To the second message I said maybe. She got cold after that, asking what's wrong with her. Anyway, that night ended ****ty with her going back to her place after the club.
Last week she again comes over to my place. She's acting kind of weird. I'd try to kiss her and get little response (she wouldn't reject it but wouldn't really kiss me back). She's cuddle with me, let me rub her leg, and she'd be rubbing me. Try to escalate and she tells me to stop. Eventually she calls some guy she met recently to pick her up. Before he got there we were playing around, I pin her down on my bed, start kissing her chest, she starts moaning but quickly tells me to stop. The guy gets there at that point so she leaves.
Since then we've talked over fb a few times (she lost her phone a couple of weeks ago). Basically she said she wants to be friends. I agreed to it at the time. But today I realized that's not what I want, so sent her a message saying that I didn't want to be just friends with her and it's my bad that I wasn't straight with her the first time (delete her from fb for good measure). She sends me back a message asking why I'm acting this way (and tries to add me back to fb). We send a bunch of messages back and forth, with the gist of it being that she just wants to be friends and if I don't like it then too bad. Then she asks me to be friends again. I said no, she says I'm ****ed.
I'm so pissed at this girl. I'm not even sure what the cause of this is either. I know I like her but this is ridiculous. I know I'm in the right for not wanting to be her friend too. Still I want to make sure I'm right here.