OK guys I've lost her before. but got her back. Lost her again, a few weeks has gone by. I'm thinking a few weeks from now might be time to start getting her back. Am I in the right forum to begin discussing this? I've been in ones were people swear up and down it can't be done. but i did it. Anybody think they can help me out? Its one thing to get her back. I'm wondering if its another thing to get her back again.
Getting her back
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Bible_Belt
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I've been there, done that. I've gotten her back, lost her, now she wants me back again, but I have had a lot of other girls since then, and now I'm not that interested in taking her back. Go have a lot of other girls.
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I have un finished business with this one. In the bedroom. We've had sex and I've given her orgasms. the sex gets better every time. the more she feels comfortable with me. but she has the ability to squirt and I haven't seen that yet. Ofcourse there is more to then that. I care about her and all that. But I'm not afraid to admit the alterior motive. Don't worry I'm not counting other women out. So We dated over the summer. She hated me after that. over the holidays we started dating again for two months. now she hates me again. doesn't this sound like a great challenge to get her bzk and make her squirt?
I have un finished business with this one. In the bedroom. We've had sex and I've given her orgasms. the sex gets better every time. the more she feels comfortable with me. but she has the ability to squirt and I haven't seen that yet. Ofcourse there is more to then that. I care about her and all that. But I'm not afraid to admit the alterior motive. Don't worry I'm not counting other women out. So We dated over the summer. She hated me after that. over the holidays we started dating again for two months. now she hates me again. doesn't this sound like a great challenge to get her bzk and make her squirt?
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MacAvoy
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Its been talked about a million times on the site, its the most common theme.
SharinganUser
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Why don't you just repeat what you did before to get her back?
Also it isn't a matter of can you get her back, its a matter of should you get her back. Short answer: NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!
Also it isn't a matter of can you get her back, its a matter of should you get her back. Short answer: NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!
Agreed. If you are chasing her for the challenge... well, there are thousands of women willing to give you a challenge (and sex).SharinganUser said:
Yet, I think you are chasing her because she validates your worth. You are being manipulated by her. You think "I got her back!", when in reality, she came back to you on her own terms. She will play you to the end... only you can decide when that end is. Now? or when she has another man that holds her attention more?
This is the only thing that will save you from the hellstorm you are about to experience.
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Actually when we got back to gether I wasn't even interested at the time. she persued me for a bout two weeks. i now what your gonna say. then just create that atmosphere again. I guess I was just wondering if the same thing would work a second time around. Or if i needed to go from a differnt angle this time. don't worry i'm keeping myself occupied while shes not around. anyays any other coments?
Actually when we got back to gether I wasn't even interested at the time. she persued me for a bout two weeks. i now what your gonna say. then just create that atmosphere again. I guess I was just wondering if the same thing would work a second time around. Or if i needed to go from a differnt angle this time. don't worry i'm keeping myself occupied while shes not around. anyays any other coments?
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MacAvoy
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If it works, don't fix it.sosilky said:
sosilky said:
This is what sounds concerning to me. I think deep down, you've got more feelings for her and you really want to let her know how you feel now. However she pulled the classic, I want you back so I can have the last word and leave you thinking about me so I can string you along as an orbiter from now on move.
Scroll through 5-10 pages and look at all the threads asking about getting ex's back or do a search.
DonGorgon
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sosilky said:
Get a new woman and use this one for sex only.. only then she will start wanting you back too..
MacAvoy
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I'd say consciously even though its probably partially subconsciously. They don't start out that way, when they get dumped, they are genuinely hurt. So they do whats natural, suck the guy back in, however in reality, the relationship was sh1t because she didn't like him that much anymore. So then she goes into move forward mode and then dumps him, thus thereby ridding herself of her hurt feelings.
Its actually a good defensive mechanism for women.
Its actually a good defensive mechanism for women.
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Frankly I would just like to get her back again so i can nail her again and see her squirt. Maybe its time I gave you guys some background so we can figure what the best bate would be to get the ball rolling on her pursuing me?
Frankly I would just like to get her back again so i can nail her again and see her squirt. Maybe its time I gave you guys some background so we can figure what the best bate would be to get the ball rolling on her pursuing me?
MacAvoy
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Yea without the full story, we don't really know what to recommend.
Faded Image
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The class of 2008 is starting to look like the class of 2006.
MacAvoy
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and 2005, 2004 etc.....Faded Image said:
You can get her back once you GAL. Get a life. Once you're happy with yourself and don't need her for happiness, you will become interesting and a challenge. Attracting does much more than chasing will ever do.
You're not really giving much to go on, but that's my take on it.
You're not really giving much to go on, but that's my take on it.
