ChillDude01
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 3, 2018
- Messages
- 16
- Reaction score
- 6
- Age
- 30
By getting i mean sex and dating (seperately) , i used to think iam high status and knowledge,personality and looks wise i do look like one indeed which is why girls do like me a lot and are not shy to admit it , my parents are smart as well, other than that were average , kinda poor, dont own a house, dad been a carpenter for years but now retired, mother never had an education and is a housewife ..... i used to think its all good and i still think its good , but compared to most people i meet i started realizing how inferior our life style is and how socially inferior we are , i never let this stop me from purusing women and they do like me physically and personality wise as i mentioned before, also ( if i dont f*ck it up) i should graduate from college with a good job in a year or so ... iam carving my own path into this mountain of life, one that i make sure to include the good qualities my parents passed down to me plus the things they lack that i believe will help me climb higher on the social ladder .
my problem is that i have tough competition, usually when i meet a hot girl who likes me and we go out or start getting to know each other ( btw i know all about the game, push, pull, how to be charming ...etc ) i usually find out she knows another dude who usually is not on par with me looks wise but is 10x better status wise , plus the girl herself sometimes is high status , especially if shes hot ( my theory is that rich men marry hot women and give birth to hot daughters as a result a lot of the hot chicks are already rich and high status ) ... i believe this has been affecting my dating life tremendously without always realizing, i always attract all kinds of girls, approach , get numbers, dates and all is good then suddenly she's gone and later i find out she has a rich bf or met some guy whose father is an important doctor and just ghosted me and moved on ... i understand that this is not something that always happens and sometimes you luck out and find a hot girl whose horny af or truly falls for you for one reason or another .... but even then her family is not gonna be so happy about that , and i have experienced it first hand (happened to my two cousins, very unfortunate when someone refuses to let you date their daughter cause youre a construction worker and not an engineer or doctor ) .
Keep in mind iam talking about my own personal situation therefore iam not expecting anyone to relate or understand what iam going through and i know that usually just being middle class is more than enough for most women and their familieis , but sometimes you get a gem like me who acts and looks high status but in is fact very low on the social ladder .
my problem is that i have tough competition, usually when i meet a hot girl who likes me and we go out or start getting to know each other ( btw i know all about the game, push, pull, how to be charming ...etc ) i usually find out she knows another dude who usually is not on par with me looks wise but is 10x better status wise , plus the girl herself sometimes is high status , especially if shes hot ( my theory is that rich men marry hot women and give birth to hot daughters as a result a lot of the hot chicks are already rich and high status ) ... i believe this has been affecting my dating life tremendously without always realizing, i always attract all kinds of girls, approach , get numbers, dates and all is good then suddenly she's gone and later i find out she has a rich bf or met some guy whose father is an important doctor and just ghosted me and moved on ... i understand that this is not something that always happens and sometimes you luck out and find a hot girl whose horny af or truly falls for you for one reason or another .... but even then her family is not gonna be so happy about that , and i have experienced it first hand (happened to my two cousins, very unfortunate when someone refuses to let you date their daughter cause youre a construction worker and not an engineer or doctor ) .
Keep in mind iam talking about my own personal situation therefore iam not expecting anyone to relate or understand what iam going through and i know that usually just being middle class is more than enough for most women and their familieis , but sometimes you get a gem like me who acts and looks high status but in is fact very low on the social ladder .