Getting girls that are our of you league socially

[ChillDude01]

By getting i mean sex and dating (seperately) , i used to think iam high status and knowledge,personality and looks wise i do look like one indeed which is why girls do like me a lot and are not shy to admit it , my parents are smart as well, other than that were average , kinda poor, dont own a house, dad been a carpenter for years but now retired, mother never had an education and is a housewife ..... i used to think its all good and i still think its good , but compared to most people i meet i started realizing how inferior our life style is and how socially inferior we are , i never let this stop me from purusing women and they do like me physically and personality wise as i mentioned before, also ( if i dont f*ck it up) i should graduate from college with a good job in a year or so ... iam carving my own path into this mountain of life, one that i make sure to include the good qualities my parents passed down to me plus the things they lack that i believe will help me climb higher on the social ladder .

my problem is that i have tough competition, usually when i meet a hot girl who likes me and we go out or start getting to know each other ( btw i know all about the game, push, pull, how to be charming ...etc ) i usually find out she knows another dude who usually is not on par with me looks wise but is 10x better status wise , plus the girl herself sometimes is high status , especially if shes hot ( my theory is that rich men marry hot women and give birth to hot daughters as a result a lot of the hot chicks are already rich and high status ) ... i believe this has been affecting my dating life tremendously without always realizing, i always attract all kinds of girls, approach , get numbers, dates and all is good then suddenly she's gone and later i find out she has a rich bf or met some guy whose father is an important doctor and just ghosted me and moved on ... i understand that this is not something that always happens and sometimes you luck out and find a hot girl whose horny af or truly falls for you for one reason or another .... but even then her family is not gonna be so happy about that , and i have experienced it first hand (happened to my two cousins, very unfortunate when someone refuses to let you date their daughter cause youre a construction worker and not an engineer or doctor ) .

Keep in mind iam talking about my own personal situation therefore iam not expecting anyone to relate or understand what iam going through and i know that usually just being middle class is more than enough for most women and their familieis , but sometimes you get a gem like me who acts and looks high status but in is fact very low on the social ladder .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

By getting i mean sex and dating (seperately) , i used to think iam high status and knowledge,personality and looks wise i do look like one indeed which is why girls do like me a lot and are not shy to admit it , my parents are smart as well, other than that were average , kinda poor, dont own a house, dad been a carpenter for years but now retired, mother never had an education and is a housewife ..... i used to think its all good and i still think its good , but compared to most people i meet i started realizing how inferior our life style is and how socially inferior we are , i never let this stop me from purusing women and they do like me physically and personality wise as i mentioned before, also ( if i dont f*ck it up) i should graduate from college with a good job in a year or so ... iam carving my own path into this mountain of life, one that i make sure to include the good qualities my parents passed down to me plus the things they lack that i believe will help me climb higher on the social ladder .

my problem is that i have tough competition, usually when i meet a hot girl who likes me and we go out or start getting to know each other ( btw i know all about the game, push, pull, how to be charming ...etc ) i usually find out she knows another dude who usually is not on par with me looks wise but is 10x better status wise , plus the girl herself sometimes is high status , especially if shes hot ( my theory is that rich men marry hot women and give birth to hot daughters as a result a lot of the hot chicks are already rich and high status ) ... i believe this has been affecting my dating life tremendously without always realizing, i always attract all kinds of girls, approach , get numbers, dates and all is good then suddenly she's gone and later i find out she has a rich bf or met some guy whose father is an important doctor and just ghosted me and moved on ... i understand that this is not something that always happens and sometimes you luck out and find a hot girl whose horny af or truly falls for you for one reason or another .... but even then her family is not gonna be so happy about that , and i have experienced it first hand (happened to my two cousins, very unfortunate when someone refuses to let you date their daughter cause youre a construction worker and not an engineer or doctor ) .

Keep in mind iam talking about my own personal situation therefore iam not expecting anyone to relate or understand what iam going through and i know that usually just being middle class is more than enough for most women and their familieis , but sometimes you get a gem like me who acts and looks high status but in is fact very low on the social ladder .

Would they fvck a stripper or male fitness model? Doesn't have status in their world but body and looks game maxxed out.

 

[IKO69]

You are stuck in your head too much. You said you are meeting and getting dates with women but then in the course of knowing them you find out she knows some other guy who "appears" better and then it goes downhill.....so ****ing what if she knows other guys? If the woman is good looking she is gonna know ALL kinds of guys. Lol literally guy - your problem is that you are catching fish and then THROWING them back into the river. This is why guys like myself on here have continually stressed the need for all around improvement - there is a lot of competition out there and you have to stay ahead of the curve. You can't think you can just show up half assed and expect to get good results - this will take solve the external part that everyone can see - ie you will improve your appearance etc. Indirectly it will take care of the internal, which no one but you can see. As you work on yourself you'll begin to develop a healthier and better self esteem and you'll like at some of these guys and be like "who cares about these mother ****ers".

It sounds like you know what you are doing and got the school/job situation worked out. You just have to stop worrying about other guys and what they have/don't have and you'll be fine. The large part of humanity has this problem - they have to continuously park their nose in other people's asses and can't just worry about themselves.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

For the most part, they won't take you seriously for a relationship until you make it. Just have fun with them until then. As a general rule women like to marry up in social status, hence male doctors with female nurses while female doctors want to be with other professionals per that one study.

You're not in a bad situation by the way, I am sort of in the opposite situation and it's a real pain in the ass to have every woman see you as the beta provider lol

Have body game and you can be the dildo.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You are stuck in your head too much. You said you are meeting and getting dates with women but then in the course of knowing them you find out she knows some other guy who "appears" better and then it goes downhill.....so ****ing what if she knows other guys? If the woman is good looking she is gonna know ALL kinds of guys. Lol literally guy - your problem is that you are catching fish and then THROWING them back into the river. This is why guys like myself on here have continually stressed the need for all around improvement - there is a lot of competition out there and you have to stay ahead of the curve. You can't think you can just show up half assed and expect to get good results - this will take solve the external part that everyone can see - ie you will improve your appearance etc. Indirectly it will take care of the internal, which no one but you can see. As you work on yourself you'll begin to develop a healthier and better self esteem and you'll like at some of these guys and be like "who cares about these mother ****ers".

It sounds like you know what you are doing and got the school/job situation worked out. You just have to stop worrying about other guys and what they have/don't have and you'll be fine. The large part of humanity has this problem - they have to continuously park their nose in other people's asses and can't just worry about themselves.

He's putting the other men on a pedestal. Your right.

 

[IKO69]

He's putting the other men on a pedestal. Your right.

I'm absolutely right. This is a very common problem i've observed in this community - and if the person has this problem they are always going to get tripped up because the focus isn't on the person that matters. We can be talking about a person with a legit 145 IQ who has like a PHD in Civil Engineering and their day will be ruined because they an saw ex con with a hot girlfriend. I don't want to stereotype but we know there are plenty of geeks with great jobs who struggle getting girlfriends - it's not always down to the job (although it's great to have a good job of course) ---- it's the prestige that is associated with the job. Now the focus is misplaced - the man is perceived to be special because he is an MD but it's really the man who makes the profession special. A guy can be the ****tiest doctor in the world and his profession isn't really going to mean **** - you think people find Dr Kevorkian attractive because he is a doctor? lol. IT's hard to really explain and people simply chalk it up to charisma, but you have to behave as though you are a big deal and "special" if that makes sense. Guys that have that quality can be ****ing accountants and it doesn't matter.

 

[ChillDude01]

Would they fvck a stripper or male fitness model? Doesn't have status in their world but body and looks game maxxed out.

the girls i've met wouldnt do that no

 

[Red Legg]

( if i dont f*ck it up)

You have a demented mentality is part of the problem.You are the prize not her.She should be the one saying "Geez I sure hope I don't fvck it up"

 

[ChillDude01]

- the man is perceived to be special because he is an MD but it's really the man who makes the profession special. A guy can be the ****tiest doctor in the

I'm absolutely right. This is a very common problem i've observed in this community - and if the person has this problem they are always going to get tripped up because the focus isn't on the person that matters. We can be talking about a person with a legit 145 IQ who has like a PHD in Civil Engineering and their day will be ruined because they an saw ex con with a hot girlfriend. I don't want to stereotype but we know there are plenty of geeks with great jobs who struggle getting girlfriends - it's not always down to the job (although it's great to have a good job of course) ---- it's the prestige that is associated with the job. Now the focus is misplaced - the man is perceived to be special because he is an MD but it's really the man who makes the profession special. A guy can be the ****tiest doctor in the world and his profession isn't really going to mean **** - you think people find Dr Kevorkian attractive because he is a doctor? lol. IT's hard to really explain and people simply chalk it up to charisma, but you have to behave as though you are a big deal and "special" if that makes sense. Guys that have that quality can be ****ing accountants and it doesn't matter.

actually being an accountant is great they make pretty good money and people know accoutants are good at math, youre focusing too much on this doctor thing .

as for not caring about other men, its simply not possible, i dont catch fish and throw back, the girls themselves start becoming distant and then i find out another guy is involved, its kinda pointless explaining it to you iam a colleg student and youre probably way past college and face a deifferent scenario, at 35 most women your age or a little younger want any guy they can get cause their clock is ticking and are ready to settle for less, the women i have to do deal with though ( you probably know this) , are young and hot and have their dady paying for everything and pressuring them to be a certain way which is not bad per se but when it comes to dating men like me are preseneted with a disadvantage .... is she going to choose the poor dude with the average life style whose fun and 8/10 or the 6.5/10 who comes from a family of engineers, has a degree in mechanical engineering, a nice house and new car that his dad just got him ? usually its the second one even if its just for a fling .


dont get me wrong iam not saying i dont get women, i do and they are usually interested in my looks and personality but that interest is gone fast when they realize they can score a higher status guy, at this point i cant do much but work to improve my situation which iam doing ( most rich people werent born rich ) but ignoring this fact and acting like a high status guy when i cant back it up is not gonna work , i will look so fake doing it ... i mean sure i can act charming and like a winner but if at some point i have to prove it to the chick that iam who i claim to be then i wont be able to do it and she will know that its all fake and not the real me .

 

[ChillDude01]

You have a demented mentality is part of the problem.You are the prize not her.She should be the one saying "Geez I sure hope I don't fvck it up"

1- that part was about my education not girls
2- cant be the prize when her brother a doctor, sisters husband a doctor and father owns a business and makes 200k-300k$ a year and you barely make 10k$ a year yourself , it just not possible i tried being the prize it works as long as you dont get close to women, when you do the show is over

 

[mrgoodstuff]

1- that part was about my education not girls
2- cant be the prize when her brother a doctor, sisters husband a doctor and father owns a business and makes 200k-300k$ a year and you barely make 10k$ a year yourself , it just not possible i tried being the prize it works as long as you dont get close to women, when you do the show is over

Be a man

 

[ChillDude01]

Be a man

not a good enough solution to my problem, lots of men out there who cant get what they want despite trying hard, i live in the real world, now the question i have is , do you ?

 

[sosousage]

if you had full stack no bich would say no

 

[mrgoodstuff]

not a good enough solution to my problem, lots of men out there who cant get what they want despite trying hard, i live in the real world, now the question i have is , do you ?

I have money. Don't TRY HARD with women. Self improvement is your full time occupation. I was able to have women before that by being a man. Often many of the money men were vain and jealous like bytches, insecure or just a bytch. If you have good looks, secure in yourself and confident they will be jealous.

You can only be a man and she has to like that In you and choose you. If she doesn't choose you good riddance. Work on getting financially solid but for now all you can do is be a man and be attractive.

Every man here is worrying about what the next man got. It's not an attractive look. Be confident in who you are as a person.

 

[ChillDude01]

I have money. Don't TRY HARD with women. Self improvement is your full time occupation. I was able to have women before that by being a man. Often many of the money men were vain and jealous like bytches, insecure or just a bytch. If you have good looks, secure in yourself and confident they will be jealous.

You can only be a man and she has to like that In you and choose you. If she doesn't choose you good riddance. Work on getting financially solid but for now all you can do is be a man and be attractive.

Every man here is worrying about what the next man got. It's not an attractive look. Be confident in who you are as a person.

alright lets say i agree with being a man and looking as attractive and great as possible ( i do agree ) but you still are not getting results and losing women to men that have status and money what do you do next

 

[mrgoodstuff]

alright lets say i agree with being a man and looking as attractive and great as possible ( i do agree ) but you still are not getting results and losing women to men that have status and money what do you do next

Choose different females. Get one In school like you that'll grow with you.

Alot of the females that latch onto those guys don't appreciate them anyway. You don't need that bullshyt.

 

[devilkingx2]

the girls i've met wouldnt do that no

Don't put them on a pedestal, any girl that isn't interested in banging hot guys is either frigid and boring or looking for beta bux

The other 95% of women, the normal ones, would bang a male model same night lol.

 

[ChillDude01]

Don't put them on a pedestal, any girl that isn't interested in banging hot guys is either frigid and boring or looking for beta bux

The other 95% of women, the normal ones, would bang a male model same night lol.

not putting them on anything, the hot girls i usually meet are legit not like that , not saying they are decent or so great but they are wont let a guy bang them cause he's hot, usually they are attracted to hot guys but latch onto the rich ones, i dont need that kind of bs so i avoid such girls anyways but it goes to show how much does status affects men and their dating life .

p.s : i am the last dude to put women on a pedestal iam more likely to call her a ho rather than good when i meet a girl for the first time, and iam usually good at judging women,it pisses my less experienced buddies off, but hey we all have our own secret talents, mine happnes to be understand women, which is why iam so pissed at a lot of them cause i truly understand them and know where their logic comes from .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Don't put them on a pedestal, any girl that isn't interested in banging hot guys is either frigid and boring or looking for beta bux

The other 95% of women, the normal ones, would bang a male model same night lol.

What so focusing ourselves on a low interest babes can mess our game up with other women?

 

[Red Legg]

1- that part was about my education not girls
2- cant be the prize when her brother a doctor, sisters husband a doctor and father owns a business and makes 200k-300k$ a year and you barely make 10k$ a year yourself , it just not possible i tried being the prize it works as long as you dont get close to women, when you do the show is over

I don't care if you have 50 cents in your pocket..YOU are the prize....she should be tickled to death just to be able to bask in your presence.