Getting back with Ex-Girlfriend.

[thekcguyme]

Ok here is the situation. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and we are still good friend. We talk every day and she won't let me go a day without talking to her. I have so many feeling for this girl, but she has a boyfriend. Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her. She tells me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she still has feels for me and there are lots of great things about me. She is always hitting me and tickling me and stuff like that which is probably her being playful. What should I do to get her to take me back?

 

[DoubleC]

Stop talking to her. The only reason she still talks to you after she broke up with you is in case her new BF doesn't work out.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Behold, The Dog Returns To His Vomit!!!!!

This chick left you and has a "b/f" (pimp) a few days later and is most likely getting screwed by him and now you want her back???

Have some dignity - don't do it!!!

 

[thekcguyme]

If i stop talking to her my phone keeps on ringing till i pick up prett much, but I know what your saying. Plus if she has some feelings deep inside and I leave for awhile she may miss me and realieze what she is missing.

 

[ducaro]

Read this site well and you will get your answer!

 

[MacDiddy]

Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her.

She's playing you dude.... This guy is the guy she can't have and must have.... He is right for her... He is the better man..

You are just her killtime or emotional tampon...etc... while he is more indepandant and successful, while you spend your time keeping her company.

 

[DJStrawberry]

If i were you, I would wipe the sand out of my vagina and fart on the b!tch the next time i saw her.

 

[Monkey]

Shes having her cake and eating it and/or smoothing the transition between you and this other guy while boosting her ego.

Have some respect for yourself and cut off ALL contact starting NOW!

 

[Charm]

Do what you want. Youre a man. You know what youre getting yourself into. Just act like a man and remember you can walk away at any time DJ.

 

[thekcguyme]

Today she sent me a message saying she really wishes she wasnt dating this guy sometimes. I haven't replied to anything she has sad recently and I guess i will just come up with excuses like I'm busy doing stuff. She is quite amazing so she cant be hard to resist at times, but I must go on right.

 

[In2theGame]

Ok here is the situation. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and we are still good friend. We talk every day and she won't let me go a day without talking to her. I have so many feeling for this girl, but she has a boyfriend. Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her. She tells me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she still has feels for me and there are lots of great things about me. She is always hitting me and tickling me and stuff like that which is probably her being playful. What should I do to get her to take me back?

UM... from experience, I'll give you a quick but useful answer to your question. DONT DO IT.

 

[In2theGame]

If i stop talking to her my phone keeps on ringing till i pick up prett much, but I know what your saying. Plus if she has some feelings deep inside and I leave for awhile she may miss me and realieze what she is missing.

Assuming from your post count, your new and your just looking for some advice. dude, ive been in your shoes.. in fact ive been put through the depths of hell because of my Ex. If your ex dumped you for another guy, she basically told you to "F" off so she can have his penis in her wet spot. Sounds harsh but its the TRUTH. Cant get any more reality from the truth. Trust me, there are TONS! of hot cutties out there waiting to get picked up by you. Look at me, i have a great G/F, but came back from the store earlier and DAMN! i wish i didnt have one lol.

 

[In2theGame]

Today she sent me a message saying she really wishes she wasnt dating this guy sometimes. QUOTE]

:crackup: That was great! I love when girls say such silly things.

 

[backbreaker]

you have to understand man, it's not you, it's not him, it's the game.

while we grew up playing basketball and baseball and watching X-men, women sat outside playing hop scotch and talking about cute boys and which ones have cooties


you are dealing with an assisan. she is not doing anything she wasn't trained to do. she has her new boyfriend, whoose **** is probalby in her mouth as we speak, and if all else fails, or if he pisses her off or even if he is not available for a night, she has ole betsy (you) to fall back on. What better position could a slut be in?

we've been there man. don't give her that level of comfort. LEAVE.

A man is only as desperate as his options. if you had other options, do you think you would be longing for this chick? F her and move on



and a month from now when she comes back trying to make it up, fvck her then to...literarly, then send her back to her guy

 

[backbreaker]

Today she sent me a message saying she really wishes she wasnt dating this guy sometimes. QUOTE]

:crackup: That was great! I love when girls say such silly things.

no ****, one day my old oneitis came over my house one day, told me how she was tired of her c urrent BF and said she was ready for a chnge, had sex with me, spent the night, and then a week later said she "had no idea what i was talking about"


women are to be treated as 5 year old kids

 

[In2theGame]

no ****, one day my old oneitis came over my house one day, told me how she was tired of her c urrent BF and said she was ready for a chnge, had sex with me, spent the night, and then a week later said she "had no idea what i was talking about"


women are to be treated as 5 year old kids

Thats... just terrible lol. But backbreaker,... that experience helped you learn what these women try to pull of, matter face we all learn from these little game. Oh but the world is gonna end!! when a guy plays games with a girl and she claims "He's such a jerk" Booo F---Kn Hoo. Cry me a F--kn typhoon.

 

[justsomeguy1984]

Dude, if she really wanted to break up with this guy she would!!

She is just using you as an emotional tampon when this guy is too busy for her. When she is not talking to you, it is because she is getting banged by him.

I'm not saying you should cut off all contact with her, but don't be so available to her. Stay busy. Live your life man. Good luck.

 

[backbreaker]

what was funny about my old oneitis is ......when I thought about it.......


I REALLY DIDN'T LIKE HER!!!!

I wanted her becuase i couldn't HAVE HER.. and she was good looking, but as time went on, I really she didn't have one quality, not ONE that I look for in a woman (of course besides being hot). it's true you want what you can't have.

what I am getting at is, so what if she breaks up with him... that doesn't necessary mean you have to step in. move on and move her out

 

[Nightwing]

Stop It!

Ok here is the situation. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and we are still good friend. We talk every day and she won't let me go a day without talking to her. I have so many feeling for this girl, but she has a boyfriend. Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her. She tells me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she still has feels for me and there are lots of great things about me. She is always hitting me and tickling me and stuff like that which is probably her being playful. What should I do to get her to take me back?

STOP IT! You sound desparate. What do you mean what should you do to get her to take you back??

The answer is this, do NOTHING! Hook up with other chicks. This girl sounds like an attention ***** who's just jerking you around emotionally. If the guy she's with by any chance started giving her the attention that you're giving her, I guarantee you, she won't even remember your name. There's a reason why she's not your GF and she has an emotionally distant guy for a BF. To her, you're just a "gay friend" and he's the "exciting one" who always keeps things exciting for her and by having both of you, she's getting the best of both worlds-the attention and excitement.

Do more reading on this site then read the following quote that you posted. Think about it and pay attention to the bold print in your post below.

Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her. She TELLS me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she still has feels for me and there are lots of great things about me.

It explains a lot as to why she is his GF and not yours. And as far as what she says to you, take it worth a grain of salt. WHAT WOMEN SAY AND WHAT THEY DO ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS!!!!!

The solution is for you to cut your losses, you're in the friend zone with this chick and she's just using you for whatever attention she can milk out of you. Hook up with other chicks or better yet, devote more time with your MALE FRIENDS and get you mind off her.

 

[In2theGame]

When she is not talking to you, it is because she is getting banged by him. QUOTE]

Ouch. why did you have to say such a harsh thing?

But hey, When your right, .. your right.