Getting back with Ex-Girlfriend.

[In2theGame]

what was funny about my old oneitis is ......when I thought about it.......


I REALLY DIDN'T LIKE HER!!!!

I wanted her becuase i couldn't HAVE HER.. and she was good looking, but as time went on, I really she didn't have one quality, not ONE that I look for in a woman (of course besides being hot). it's true you want what you can't have.

what I am getting at is, so what if she breaks up with him... that doesn't necessary mean you have to step in. move on and move her out

Ive learned,.. and learned the hard way, But There is ALWAYS! a hotter chick you will come across...

 

[In2theGame]

Originally Posted by thekcguyme
Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her. She TELLS me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she still has feels for me and there are lots of great things about me.

Oh GOD, that sounds just like me when i was 17 with my EX. i cringe!! at the thought..... Ugh... Ima go vomit now!

 

[backbreaker]

Originally Posted by thekcguyme
Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her. She TELLS me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she still has feels for me and there are lots of great things about me.

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Oh you don't understand ********, I can see why you are so confused..

let me translate this for you.


"oh, my boyfriend has such a nice cvck. it's so hard and strong and i espically like it when he puts it in the brown.. i can feel the taco sauce in my mouth now. But when he is busy not ramming himself inside me, i can talk to you. See, he is a man, but because he is a man, I don't have anyone to blrut all my womanly crap to, so I'll just use you, and pretend I still like you, throw false hits of future hope and say point things like " i wish I were still dating you" becuase I know you jack off to me every night, while he is jacking off IN me..wait..got a little in my eye.. just a sec....


Okay I 'm back. If I combined him and you I get the perfect boyfriend. with you I get to take up all your time, and not be expected to return anything! Thanks.. I might give you a peck on the check"

there.. that's better

 

[In2theGame]

Originally Posted by thekcguyme
Everytime I talk to her or see her it seems she brings up that she doesnt know if he is right for her because he is very independant and doesnt want to spend too much time with her. She TELLS me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she still has feels for me and there are lots of great things about me.

QUOTE]


Oh you don't understand ********, I can see why you are so confused..

let me translate this for you.


"oh, my boyfriend has such a nice cvck. it's so hard and strong and i espically like it when he puts it in the brown.. i can feel the taco sauce in my mouth now. But when he is busy not ramming himself inside me, i can talk to you. See, he is a man, but because he is a man, I don't have anyone to blrut all my womanly crap to, so I'll just use you, and pretend I still like you, throw false hits of future hope and say point things like " i wish I were still dating you" becuase I know you jack off to me every night, while he is jacking off IN me..wait..got a little in my eye.. just a sec....


Okay I 'm back. If I combined him and you I get the perfect boyfriend. with you I get to take up all your time, and not be expected to return anything! Thanks.. I might give you a peck on the check"

there.. that's better

Dammit backbreaker... I woke everyone up because of you!! :crackup: !!

 

[mrRuckus]

I REALLY DIDN'T LIKE HER!!!!

I wanted her becuase i couldn't HAVE HER.. and she was good looking, but as time went on, I really she didn't have one quality, not ONE that I look for in a woman (of course besides being hot). it's true you want what you can't have.

Yeah it's good to be aware of this sort of thing. I had an ex i sometimes thought about breaking up with but then she'd break up with me and i'd be thinking "how can i get her back?!" Then we'd get back together then a while later i'd start to thinking "should i dump her?" Then things would repeat again. Happened 3-4 times.

Then i grew up.

 

[Nightwing]

Yeah it's good to be aware of this sort of thing. I had an ex i sometimes thought about breaking up with but then she'd break up with me and i'd be thinking "how can i get her back?!" Then we'd get back together then a while later i'd start to thinking "should i dump her?" Then things would repeat again. Happened 3-4 times.

Then i grew up.

Been there, done that!

 

[Juan_Man]

To the original poster, the only time a guy has a chance of getting back with his EX is if he is having sex with her at the moment. If you are not currently sleeping with her, then you must move on, my friend.

 

[thekcguyme]

Well I've barely talk to her now for the past few days and she is totally bumming out about it and whining. She broke up with her boyfriend and wants to know if i'll take her back. What the heck am i suppose to do?

 

[Nightwing]

Well I've barely talk to her now for the past few days and she is totally bumming out about it and whining. She broke up with her boyfriend and wants to know if i'll take her back. What the heck am i suppose to do?

Ask youself this question, if she really liked you, would she have broken up with you in the first place??

You have to understand, a chick will be in a relationship with you, EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T REALLY LIKE YOU, and if you take her back, in her eyes, you're just there for convenience and she'll drop you again when someone comes into her life that she really has feelings for.

So continue to minimize your contact with her. Better yet, don't call her at all, IT'S OVER. If you get back with her, then she would only be using you--for her, you're one of these guys that I like to call a TIME FILLER--that is, someone to be in a relationship with until "Mr. Right" comes around. Don't let her play you like that.

For the time being, enjoy life, hook up with your friends and date and fvck other chicks. But leave this chick alone.

 

[KillerCharm]

Take it from experience DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!
I was in this Exact situation jsut overa year ago. It literally led to a nervous breakdown.
You'll likely get attached and then hurt.
I wihs i would of had soemone tell me this. yur lucky you have these forums.

 

[sav]

good advice given all round...

i think all of us have went through an experience like that where an EX keeps you hanging... it makes us stronger knowing that its them that ****ed up and you have to MAKE it so that she regrets her mistake for the rest of her life.. become UNATTAINABLE.. its her turn to suffer... make her cry at night thinking about what was and what will never be.. just dont go crying yourself you manlady...

 

[Nightwing]

good advice given all round...

i think all of us have went through an experience like that where an EX keeps you hanging... it makes us stronger knowing that its them that ****ed up and you have to MAKE it so that she regrets her mistake for the rest of her life.. become UNATTAINABLE.. its her turn to suffer... make her cry at night thinking about what was and what will never be.. just dont go crying yourself you manlady...

I'll say it like this, move on with your life and be glad that she's out of yours.

 

[In2theGame]

I wish i found this site a LONG! time ago. it would have saved me devistating heartache with my ex. Dont take an EX back, It spells trouble all around. Take it from all of us that have been through the fire. The younger guys that dont have experience in this area should really be grateful for the advice that they recieve because we have been there and by giving you this advice, We're trying to steer you away from the pain and hurt that we had to go through for stupid mistakes like.... TAKE AN EX BACK.

 

[belividere]

You've gotten some great advice here, glad to see your ignoring her. Backbreaker, In2theGame, and the others here are not trying to be negative (in case you were taking it that way) they are smart guys who want you to do the best for yourself.

Keep ignoring her no matter what. Go out with your friends, pick up a new hobby, start working out more, find something to productively occupy your time. Whatever her problems are now are exactly that - her problems. They are not yours and it is her fault for walking away from you - not yours.

I'm curious as to the background of the story. How long were you guys together, how old are you guys, why did you break up, how many girls have you dated, how did you find this site, how do you picture yourself with women?

 

[MacDiddy]

Well I've barely talk to her now for the past few days and she is totally bumming out about it and whining. She broke up with her boyfriend and wants to know if i'll take her back. What the heck am i suppose to do?

You've just proven yourself to be the better man... Find something better... you deserve better.. She's acting just as every DJ here has expected. Seriously, do you have time for her still? The answer should be no.

 

[thegenerousjew]

Sleep with her if you want to. [Coz you know some girls are REALLY good at sex]

But don't take her back.

 

[BlackJackal]

Well I've barely talk to her now for the past few days and she is totally bumming out about it and whining. She broke up with her boyfriend and wants to know if i'll take her back. What the heck am i suppose to do?

Dont make her wonder anymore. The answer is no. I repeat NO! Do not pity this woman. Dont you dare pity her. Women cry about sh!t all the time. It's there thing, no big deal. Her happiness is not your responsibility. Your happiness is. You deserve better. Let the bridge burn man, and let her choke from the smoke.

 

[Nightwing]

Sleep with her if you want to. [Coz you know some girls are REALLY good at sex]

But don't take her back.

I wouldn't do that. Don't give her NO window of opportunity to postition her back into your life.

There's plenty of chicks out there to fvck. There's no need for him to go back to this chick for that!