Gentlemen, ever noticed women giving you a 2nd glance?

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Like they saw you and then they shortly turn to look at you a 2nd time?

Any cases where a woman was outstanded by your looks, like you were the hottest guy they seen in their life?

Will this detour women from going wherever they were going? Maybe they'll detour...
 

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When they give you a passing glance, then turn to look again you know they’re attracted. Yes it occurs, when a woman that is “available”, meaning she’s interested, she will show you that she is. Her availability is demonstrated by her moist crotch, not the guy she might be holding hands with, is sleeping with or is married to.
 

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Yea happens every now and then , although sometimes so quickly its hard to act on it

The smile / half smile is the real golden ticket

You get eye contact and the smile you can only fvck it up for yourself from that point
 

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Like they saw you and then they shortly turn to look at you a 2nd time?

Any cases where a woman was outstanded by your looks, like you were the hottest guy they seen in their life?

Will this detour women from going wherever they were going? Maybe they'll detour...
Yep
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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But I'm talking about cases where you don't make eye contact with them. Then do these women make a U-turn.
 

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Women often do a double take and often come over to talk with me. Even before I walked around with my shoulder cat.

One woman even saw me walking around Amsterdam but she was on her way to the airport and just drew what she'd seen and sent it to me later through FB...

Martyn Klook drawing by Anitta Martin.jpg
 

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Women often do a double take and often come over to talk with me. Even before I walked around with my shoulder cat.

One woman even saw me walking around Amsterdam but she was on her way to the airport and just drew what she'd seen and sent it to me later through FB...

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So you're the scary ass dude with a litter box on his head...

I take it you never saw my posts on craigslist

I kid. Digging the vibe, though. You probably listen to Burzum
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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It happens, but most men don't get a lot of IOIs. I've spent 20+ years of my adult life as a better than average looking man. I'm not 'Chad' tier but I am respectable looking. The majority of women don't make strong eye contact with me and I don't get a lot of smiles returned. I rarely catch 2nd glances.
 

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It happens, but most men don't get a lot of IOIs. I've spent 20+ years of my adult life as a better than average looking man. I'm not 'Chad' tier but I am respectable looking. The majority of women don't make strong eye contact with me and I don't get a lot of smiles returned. I rarely catch 2nd glances.
No offense, but no woman dreams of fvcking a "respectable looking man."

"If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Maybe try being unrespectable
 

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no woman dreams of fvcking a "respectable looking man."
By respectable looking man, I meant that I'm not ugly. I'm not obese, I don't dress sloppy, etc. Perhaps there was a better phrasing for that.

I have had my photos rated online in the past and my ratings typically came out around a 7. That's above average but not 'Chad' tier.
 

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I have had my photos rated online in the past and my ratings typically came out around a 7. That's above average but not 'Chad' tier.
I've seen this posted on sosuave more times than i could count.

It isn't your looks, it's your confidence.

Our confidence can be broken, but it can also be repaired.

You're around my age, and i personally have to deal with my own negativity, that's only gotten worse with age.

Try to take pride in your wisdom, and realize that it's never too late to become a better man.

I love lifting weights and i recommend that to everyone. Working on things around the house; gardening (believe it or not), hitting a punching bag is pretty great. Anything that makes you feel productive is good.

Action leads to more action; sitting about and doing nothing leads to nowhere
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Smile at her and ask her if you can have your face back. Raise your voice just a notch
 

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Could be she’s interested. Or. You look like someone she knows. You look striking (good or bad). You are wearing something interesting… This is too subtle for me.
 

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By respectable looking man, I meant that I'm not ugly. I'm not obese, I don't dress sloppy, etc. Perhaps there was a better phrasing for that.

I have had my photos rated online in the past and my ratings typically came out around a 7. That's above average but not 'Chad' tier.
Everyone is a 7.
If one is handsome. One will know it. People will literally tell you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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