So I'm a senior and my friends sister is a 10th grader. In the summer she showed intrest. She is very touchy she flirts with alot of guys. She likes one guy but she talks to alot of guys at a time. She's immature when it comes to that. She gets dummped alot because she has never went past making out with a guy. Even her boy friend of a year that's why he dumped her. She was like that with me in the summer I felt like she did like me a bit but I got friend zoned. This Saturday over txt I told her I liked her more than a friend. She responded 6 hours latter " its okay ots not gonna be akward" She told both her brothers. One of them hates me and I'm the other ones best friend for like 10 months. She sits next to me in lunch so you know how akward this is now. Yesterday she was nice and gave me food. But would brush me off because her brother sits at the table behind us and so do my friends. They were cracking jokes because her brother that hates me told all of my friends. So she was uncomfortable. I think she knew I liked her but was being nice she talks to alot of guys. She likes this one kid for 2years who's buying her a jacket for Christmas but never asked her out. She made out with this one guy last month and liked him. She's like that if she gets with you she"ll like you. So since its akward now what should I do she's uncomfortable now. She didn't tell me but her friend told me that she only likes me as a friend. She hasn't texted me at all she usually texts me first once every week or 2. I think she knew I liked her but didn't say anything cause I didn't and she sees me as a wuss. I'm thinking if I freeze her out. I'm muscular but bulkly get abs. I'm learning how to dj in 2 months. Also and get other girls. Have no contact with her for 6 months to a year. Should I try? Cause I'm an afc now and I"ll work a ton on getting other girls in the mean time. Does this sound like a plan?
Friend zoned akward. Done being an AFC. What to do now?
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LearningSlowly
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When you learn to DJ, take it very seriously. I have a friend who's getting really successful with it but he works hard as hell. Try dancing or freestyle rapping in the meantime (or better, create music), they're rhythmic and musical skills that will help with the rhythm used in DJing.
This girl is unimportant. You made a mistake by announcing your feelings that way, and you'll probably never get her. How's that for advice?
Just forget about it man, the world is turning and there are more important things going on.
This girl is unimportant. You made a mistake by announcing your feelings that way, and you'll probably never get her. How's that for advice?
Just forget about it man, the world is turning and there are more important things going on.
I'm in the Mood
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High school girls ain't ****. figure out what you want to do with your life, and get ready to tackle some college girls once you graduate. most importantly, LOSE this girl. she's not interested, and she's causing you to become insecure, and you don't need that right now in your life.
Yea I hear ya I'm gonna see this girl often it's one my best friends sister. I'm gonna try to forget about her. I'm gonna frezze her out though. So if there is a chance I"ll get her. But Im gonna game other girls now and if she wants to I"ll give her a chance. I know what I'm going to do in college it will be good.I'm in the Mood said:
I got friend zoned with this girl for not making a move. I have a feeling when I start getting a lot of girls she"ll come back. Cause she though i was good with girls and got jealous but I never made a move. What ever time to go get some more girls.
Ignore anything her friend says, only listen to what comes out of HER mouth. Girls make **** up to their friends all the time for plenty of reasons, so just forget that. I was in a situation MANY years ago where a similar thing happened to me... The girl was in a relationship, she kept telling me she would go out with me, but telling her friend she finds me unattractive etc... It caused me a lot of problems because I didn't know who to believe, she would constantly tell me she's being truthful about how she feels about me whilst her friend would say she's lying and I'm naive... Turns out she really did like me and was making **** up to her friend. Why? Not sure, probably to not seem like a slut, but either way that was that.Djroids said:
What actually has the girl said to you? Forget what her ****ing FRIENDS say, or what anyone else says. YOU listen to what she says, and you will have the best idea of what's going on and how she feels about you. You know whether you're being rational and not just trying to deceive yourself into thinking she wants you.
Either way, it's best you follow it up and get her to give you an answer. Don't get too much hope though, because I'm pretty sure she WILL say you're "just a friend" (*sadface*) but she's obviously really into this other guy, so chances are even if she KINDA likes you she wouldn't wanna be with you. But for sure ask her right now. If you post what she says, then I'll give you some better advice.
Her brother called me to talk to me actually. I went to the doctor today and people though that I was crying cause she said no. I don't give a ****. Her brother put her on the phone. She said hi and what's up. I said nothing and told her to just put this thing past us and she said aswome. I friend zoned myself instead of making it akward cause I sit with her at lunch. I'm gonna be normal for a while. Then freeze her out. This guy she likes is gonna use her for sex. She likes him they hooked up and he's not asking her out but is buying her a $200 jacket for Christmas. I'm going to get more girls focus on djing. Then I will make an attempt on her in 6 months to a year.Mr. Suave said:
DanZy
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Leave her dude. Move on and forget. There's so many other girls to have
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Go no contact and start hitting up some other chicks.
How long no contact? I also know what I did wrong even though she talks to alot of other guys I was different I had pua knowledge. She liked me and I did not make a move at all so I got friend zoned. I understand completely now. I am going to get her in the future. For now how long no contact? I will also go after other girls. Don't shoot me down anyone. Just show me how.SharinganUser said:
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Leave your house.
If she originally liked you, you aren't "friend zoned" because it doesn't exist in the real world. She's either into you or she's not and being friends doesn't make any difference. No guys have had close female friends fancy them? Because I certainly have, many times. Regardless of how I acted to them, one in particular I used to share all my problems with, and when I was feeling low I'd go off on one about how useless I am... I even went shopping with her (lol!) and yet she still really really liked me. If she says you're "just a friend" it's simply another way of saying "I'm not into you"... In the same way you'd tell your ugly female friend the exact same line.Djroids said:
If you're not bothered about her, that's good because you can just forget her... But if you're really emotionally invested in her, then that's not so great. The trick is to be 100% emotionally detatched from a girl until you know she wants you. Never ever allow yourself to fall "in love" before you know she's interested or you're going to cause yourself a lot of pain.
In terms of this girl try again after this guy uses her and she has nobody else.
Thats what I"ll do she moves on quickly though. She was into me for a month maybe to 2 weeks. Then this guy that's gonna use her talked to her again so she really liked him for 2 years. The friends things is cause I have a feeling that she thinks this other kid is going to ask her out. Cause in the summer if I'd talk to her shed want to hang out with me. But now she wants to hang out with this other kid. So I think I got friend zoned. Honestly I'm a little chuncky but if I got abs increased my social value. Dont talk to her for a while let this guy **** her over. I can try again right? Also I"ll be meeting new girls.Mr. Suave said:
You're not "friend zoned", seriously, there's no so such thing!!! Sounds like she just wants this other guy and is turning you down because she wants to be with him. Either that or you displayed a side of yourself which turned her off? Who knows... But it's probably because of this other guy.Djroids said:
Try again after it all blows up with them. Is she willing to hang out with you alone? If so just get her alone and make a move on her. She might be up for some casual ****, who knows...
Thinking back to it in the summer she had to have liked me a little. She used to ask me to take her to haunted places. She grabbed my hand at one point and asked what i would do to her if She was a hooters girl then asked for my number. She screamed outside of her bedroom window for me to hang out with her late at night. She pulled me aside in the hallway to flirt with me before. She would wait outside with her brother when I Would come pick him up. Then after the 3rd of school she acted different to me. She wouldn't hug me. Im so dumb for not reacting She gave me All the signs. I never ask to hang out before alone now she flakes if I ask her cause she picked this other guy. I probley did display something she didn't like I used to smoke and she got sad. Now though I guess the best thing to do is to basically freeze her out let this thing blow over with the guy. Focus on getting better with game, get ripped, get alot of girls. Then try again once her perception of me has changed and this guy blows her over. Cause I"ll know her for a long time I'm very good friends with her brother. Everyone knows I got denied but I"ll be in college next year obviously getting more girls. I'm saying though once this blows over I should try again? With a lot more experience. I heard that if u let a girl forget about you and change and comeback aswome her perception of you can change? Thanks I'm not going to take it's not worth it as an answer. ( I'm doing this cause I like her and prove to myself). I'm also taking up djing which will massively increase my social value. So how's this for a shot? No one hate pleaseMr. Suave said:
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DanZy
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You really don't understand what moving on means don't you. You're wasting your time and effort here dude
Okay cleary I'm going to be gaming other girls. I only asked how can I get out of the friend zone. There HAS to be a way. IF THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY. And if I try again in a year I will have a ton more experience I'm turning 18 in less than 2 months. I'm gonna go clubbing whenever I can. Atleast 2 times a week. I'm going to work on my djing skills when. Get my stuff for my birthday. I'm going to freeze her out. I"ll still talk to her brother and he would let mr get with her. In a year I will be massively chained more muscle, djing, more confident and a ton better with girls. If all that is down this girl can't say no in the future cause by then I"ll be out of the friend zone. Don't shoot me down help and support me. Clearly I'm going to go after alot of other girls.DanZy said:
I've already said you're not "friend zoned"... Mate you didn't even hear what she had to say to you what the hell? What actually did this girl say to you? No way did the conversation go:Djroids said:
You: I like you
Her: It won't be awkward
What did she actually say to you when you stated interest in her... Tell us.
I said over txt like you more than a friend didn't mean to make this akward. She said Hey it wont be akward. I didn't txt her back but on school on Monday she was so uncomfortable around me. Cause some of my friends were asking her about it cause her brother told them. She didn't say no to me. She didn't talked to me about it. She was so akward around me. Her friend told me she said she only wants to be friends. I was talking to her brother on the phone yesterday and he put her on the phone. She said hi what's up. I told her to put this thing past her and to just be normal. She said great. I knew they this would be a better option. So I can have time to improve myself frezze her out. Then come back amazing right?Mr. Suave said:
That was a terrible way to tell her. And no there's no "freezing her out" etc... It does nothing. Sorry! Perhaps when she got to know you better she realized she's not that attracted to you, but either way that's the worst thing you could've said. You basically said this:Djroids said:
"Hey, I know you're going to reject me, but I fancy you, hope it's not awkward!!!"
Anyway, I reckon she was just flirting with you like she does to everyone without any real interest. But what you should do is just make a move on her when you're alone. Seriously... You pretty much have to just go for it. A lot of the time, girls like that will just let a guy take them.
