Embers,
This is the problem with these discussions, we can't have an honest discussion about differences within our culture. Just because we share the same "skin color" does NOT mean we share the same values.
It comes down to personal choices and the choices you make in life DETERMINE what type of life you will have, and if you will be a "Black Person" or "Black Trash".
For example, "Black People" have the following issues:
- Paying back student loan debt
- Keeping their credit clean
- Keeping their debts down
- Making sure they keep getting promotions at work
- Making sure they save for retirement
- Making sure they participate in their local community and work to build it
- Making sure they make smart investments for their children and legacy
- Making sure they workout and eat right
- Managing healthcare costs
- Making sure they stay OUT of trouble
"Black Trash" have the following issues:
- Having to deal with the Cops constantly, because they are consistently doing DUMB SHYT
- Having to deal with Judges in Court constantly, because they are consistently in front of them for doing DUMB SHYT
- Having to deal with raising 5 kids alone on welfare, because they are consistently doing DUMB SHYT like having kids by Tyrone and Bo Bo
- Having to deal with bill collectors calling their house every hour of the day from strange 800 numbers because they NEVER pay their bills
- Having to deal with eviction notices from their Landlords in PROJECT HOUSING UNITS because despite getting a subsidy they STILL can't afford the $200 monthly rent payment
- Having to stand in the long welfare line to get more welfare
- Having to wait until "the first of the month" to get their EBT deposits, which means if they run out of food on the 28th then they will have to STARVE for the next two or three days.
- Signing up for "free college" just to get the Stafford Student Loan Check, then dropping out of College and using the loan money to buy drugs and drinks.
- Having to go to funeral after funeral after funeral of a friend or family member who got "shot down out hur in dem streets son"
- Living generation after generation after generation in the FVCKING ghetto because getting a higher education and making a career plan is "acting white".
In Conclusion
Embers, let me break this down to you. I'm NOT Freddie Gray, we don't have SHYT in common other than our skin color and that is a stretch because I'm actually brown skinned.
You keep mentioning the fact that I'm black, thus, I'm subject to the same potential police treatment as Freddie Gray? Sir, Freddie Gray was caught in the act of selling drugs and had a long list of prior arrests, police aren't going to be "nice nor kind" with a convicted drug dealer (which makes him a criminal, also makes him a thug).
Tenacity doesn't sell drugs and the worse thing that I do is speed. When I'm pulled over I'm very professional with the Cop and after they run my license, I'm usually told to just "slow down" and no ticket is written.
Tenacity and Freddie Gray are BOTH black, but Freddie Gray gets fvcked up by the Cop and Tenacity doesn't, why is this? It's because Freddie Gray was BLACK TRASH and Tenacity isn't.
And that's the reality you guys don't want to discuss, you are disingenuous as hell with your "we are all black and all in this together" bullshyt. I'm not in SHYT with Freddie Gray, or Mike Brown, or Eric Garner, or Troy Davis, or any of these other CRIMINALS you guys want to march for.
I'm my own man, with my own independent mind. I'm an American. I have American goals. I don't see myself as a minority, or oppressed by White Supremacy, or any of that other bullshyt. I see myself like everybody else, that there's a ladder of opportunity standing in front of me and either I'm going to make the right choices in life to climb it...or I will make the wrong choices and fvck up my future.
If that makes me racist, or a sell out, then so be it.