I'm going to keep this short and resist using the forum to vent, and get straight to the matter and the question.
I dated a girl for three years. She cheated on me. She got caught. Both her and her bit of the side became a couple. Should be end of.
Turns out to make themselves look better, they made out that she left me for him because I used to beat her. Her family live in a different country so it was an easier line for them to swallow than if they'd been in our relationships backyard. That's hurtful but malign. However in the town in which I live it spread like psychosis as plague.
Girls started cancelling dates. People defriended me in bars and online. I got into a few fights for being a woman beater but put it down to mistaken identity or people gone loco on coco (coke). Then it found its way into my work place and jeopardised my job and the lid was blown right off the thing. It ended with me suing the company and several staff and getting people sacked. I let my ex and her promoted bit on the side walk, I dropped the suit against them, because I found out they were having a baby.
Maybe I should have followed through and crucified the cancerous couple, but if something had happened during the pregnancy I would have been blamed, maybe actually been to blame, stress can literally be a killer. Then I would be the villain of this story.
Problem is, in the town in which I live, I am the villain. The woman beater tar has stuck, and been that way for some time now. Women are afraid of me. Men disrespect me. I've become "that guy in the corner" and am feeling, frankly, slayed.
What is the Don Juan thing to do? How does one get out of such a dark corner, and deal with the ultimate ****block scenario?
I dated a girl for three years. She cheated on me. She got caught. Both her and her bit of the side became a couple. Should be end of.
Turns out to make themselves look better, they made out that she left me for him because I used to beat her. Her family live in a different country so it was an easier line for them to swallow than if they'd been in our relationships backyard. That's hurtful but malign. However in the town in which I live it spread like psychosis as plague.
Girls started cancelling dates. People defriended me in bars and online. I got into a few fights for being a woman beater but put it down to mistaken identity or people gone loco on coco (coke). Then it found its way into my work place and jeopardised my job and the lid was blown right off the thing. It ended with me suing the company and several staff and getting people sacked. I let my ex and her promoted bit on the side walk, I dropped the suit against them, because I found out they were having a baby.
Maybe I should have followed through and crucified the cancerous couple, but if something had happened during the pregnancy I would have been blamed, maybe actually been to blame, stress can literally be a killer. Then I would be the villain of this story.
Problem is, in the town in which I live, I am the villain. The woman beater tar has stuck, and been that way for some time now. Women are afraid of me. Men disrespect me. I've become "that guy in the corner" and am feeling, frankly, slayed.
What is the Don Juan thing to do? How does one get out of such a dark corner, and deal with the ultimate ****block scenario?