I had a really long post and it got lost somehow after I post it (I'm kinda pissed...) so I'll keep this one as a short summary.
Me and my friend went sarging last night at a bunch of bars and clubs, heres what we experienced:
First bar we went to, got there early and the male:female ratio was like 90/10. There were pratically no single women in there other than a random group of fatties. We left.
Next bar, the ratio was more like 60/40, pretty good compared to the last bar. We walk in all pimped out and fitted up seeing if we can get some girls checking us out as we strolled in. Didn't work we were pratically invisble. We noticed a big group of (what appeared to be) single women we we casually walk up to a empty spot between them but made sure we ignored them completely and flagged down the bartender. The group of girls got up and left as soon as we sat down. I don't know what the fvck was up with that. Anyway there was still a group of 2 girls to our right so we grabbed a drink, made sure they were there by themselves and approached them. We introduce ourselves and they turned into bytch mode. Kinda trying to ignore us and not look at us, then her friend said something along the lines of "we are lesbian, leave us alone" (which was not true, they were looking at guys and hitting on the bartender earlier). We tried to neg them in a funny way to stay in the conversation but they weren't having it and basically told us to get the fvck away from them. Then some random captian save-a-ho guy out of no where grab me and told me the ladies arent interested and to go away. I almost knocked him out right there but I wasn't trying to start shyt and end up in jail. The only way not to look like a ***** in that situation was to push him off of me so we just bailed on that set completely.
That was just one particular example but we basically crashed and burned all night with girls acting like stuck up bytches not wanting to even let us say hello and introduce ourselves. I didn't really see anybody else apporaching these girls like me and my friend did so I don't know what the deal was. We are very new to sarging and we are trying to get in the game but obviously we don't know what the fvck we are doing if we can't get past introducing ourselves. I know women have bytch shields that need to be brought down but shyt do we need to get into fights trying to bring that shyt down (like in the captian save-a-ho example)? How do you bring down bytch shields when women aren't even giving you the time of day?
BTW, both me and my friend are average to maybe a little above average looking. We both dress really nice and wear expensive clothes. We are both also in excellent shape.
Me and my friend went sarging last night at a bunch of bars and clubs, heres what we experienced:
First bar we went to, got there early and the male:female ratio was like 90/10. There were pratically no single women in there other than a random group of fatties. We left.
Next bar, the ratio was more like 60/40, pretty good compared to the last bar. We walk in all pimped out and fitted up seeing if we can get some girls checking us out as we strolled in. Didn't work we were pratically invisble. We noticed a big group of (what appeared to be) single women we we casually walk up to a empty spot between them but made sure we ignored them completely and flagged down the bartender. The group of girls got up and left as soon as we sat down. I don't know what the fvck was up with that. Anyway there was still a group of 2 girls to our right so we grabbed a drink, made sure they were there by themselves and approached them. We introduce ourselves and they turned into bytch mode. Kinda trying to ignore us and not look at us, then her friend said something along the lines of "we are lesbian, leave us alone" (which was not true, they were looking at guys and hitting on the bartender earlier). We tried to neg them in a funny way to stay in the conversation but they weren't having it and basically told us to get the fvck away from them. Then some random captian save-a-ho guy out of no where grab me and told me the ladies arent interested and to go away. I almost knocked him out right there but I wasn't trying to start shyt and end up in jail. The only way not to look like a ***** in that situation was to push him off of me so we just bailed on that set completely.
That was just one particular example but we basically crashed and burned all night with girls acting like stuck up bytches not wanting to even let us say hello and introduce ourselves. I didn't really see anybody else apporaching these girls like me and my friend did so I don't know what the deal was. We are very new to sarging and we are trying to get in the game but obviously we don't know what the fvck we are doing if we can't get past introducing ourselves. I know women have bytch shields that need to be brought down but shyt do we need to get into fights trying to bring that shyt down (like in the captian save-a-ho example)? How do you bring down bytch shields when women aren't even giving you the time of day?
BTW, both me and my friend are average to maybe a little above average looking. We both dress really nice and wear expensive clothes. We are both also in excellent shape.
