FR: 300 approaches and running- SELF-MASTERY & The_Shezzler

[Fitch]

It seems like she is using you. When she asked you about going out to the club, it seemed that she didn't want you to go with her in the first place. She was testing the water first, by asking for permission bit by bit - testing your reaction.

It doesn't feel right man.

I mean, after all, she didn't even try to push the guys who were hitting on her away. Does she really care about you?

 

[xmlenigma]

Herbal shop clerk:

Attractive HB-8.3 same body shape as the first target, great devilish smile.. rejected me.

I fluff about herbal cures and sleep aides, she suggests a variety of sh&t. Her telephone rings and she tells the call in a seductive voice, "sorry I'll have to call you later." I asked if that was her man?, she says, "no", I reply, you were using your girlfriend voice. HB, says that, "I'm just really kind and nice to everyone."
I told her, you look like you could be sneaky, you have such a devilish smile, she smiles, and says no Im a good girl. I go straight for her number: Hey, why don't you give me your number we can hangout....... she, says that she can't.......... I reply, "No you don't want to........Have a great day."

----- I need to stick to the original plan.

When she said she put out a GOOD QUALIFIER.

Is that so? What was the nicest / non selfish thing you've done.. AND.. how did it make you feel?

BLAH BLAH..

PUA: You know.. I thought you were just another good looking female.. but I see that you are a genuinely XYZ person inside. I find that quality in a woman.. a big turn on. I want to see you again and know more about that spirit inside of you.

(That is direct.. when you need it to be).

 

[xmlenigma]

I love using my personality and creativity in my dealings with women. I'm thankful that I have social skills that allow me to live in the moment; I never have to memorize material or do a magic trick. DJ or PUA? I would rather be me.

That is the real game. It is YOU.. no crutches or wheels.

 

[xmlenigma]

fluff fluff fluff fluff-- means that I'm continuing the conversation. I dont understand how anyone could think that I go for numbers to quickly. I normally transition into asking for the number quite fluidly. I don't do a nerd science routine or anything, but I usually try to build some rapport. I'm not worried about comming off needy or desperate, No one has or ever will label me in such away.

Still learning everyday........

I agree. It has to be well calibrated and sub communicated. Its where you are "the process" and you believe that she will give it to you.. but even if she doesnt you are not affected.

Bottomline.. sub communication. Not what you or she says.. but what you do.. and she does.

 

[xmlenigma]

It seems if you don't have a deep connection with them they are always testing you b/c they think they are such hot sh1t and aren't afraid of leaving you b/c they get dudes hitting on them all the dam time.

If you connect with them.. at a deeper level.. and make them related great feilings with your presence then they wont leave. PERIOD.

 

[xmlenigma]

Her going out with frineds and asking you to come along means.. she wants to show her friends what a great guy she is "clicking" with. Wouldnt you want to know what kind of friends she has? If you GEL WELL with her friends.. they will always PULL her away from another possible PUA. Think of it as re-inforcing yourself into her mind, body and her SOCIAL CIRCLE/ PEER GROUP.

Simple. We read too much into things. Ofcourse, you need to connect with her deeper.. and find give her SOIs on things that are unique qualities about her.. e.g. "its not your lovely long legs, ur great body.. but this little XYZ that you do.. and PQR how u think.. that is sexy.. it makes u super sexy.. and i wonder how the world passes by but I KNOW THAT INNER YOU.. and no one else does.. that is special.." etc.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

GUYS I BROKE UP WITH THAT CHICK 6 WEEKS AGO... She cried, I'm mean, but we're still friends.

Why? It was time to move on and I was just fking tired of dealing with her.

Guys flirting with her was never a problem or anything like that... We actually had a decent relationship, but she was whiney. I have mixed feelings about her..........