Found out girl smokes weed; what to do?

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Re: A Street Pimp's Perspective :

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
If a man cannot afford to pay for his drug habit he steals

If a woman cannot afford to pay for her drug habit she PROSTITUTES HERSELF to her DEALER

drugs are a dangerous business. in real drug dealing people get hurt and even killed over drugs and money.

most drug dealers are men.

two reasons. 1 it can be a dangerous profession. 2. they get to f*ck drug addict b*tches like YOUR GIRLFRIEND for free. cheaper than a prostitute.

if i am a drug dealer i can BUY YOUR WOMAN

i bet she smokes pot alot more than she has told you

paymon
She says she likes the feeling of it

yeah and she will need more and more over time to get that feeling and as a chick i will give her some X to try or something else for her to get a buzz because she is looking to escape her reality

paymon
but she told me she doesnt think she'll be smoking again or atleast for a while.

she is a woman she has no f*cking clue from that above statement what she wants or what she will do. SHE IS A SHEEP and will follow her friends in whatever drugs they are doing while she hangs out with them. ignore her words and look at her actions.

will she keep her life under control ? will she spiral into the dark world of the drug game ? is it worth waiting around to find out ?

only you can answer this for yourself paymon

most people are f*cking weak when it comes to drugs once they start taking them. usually takes a few years for them to snap out of it. maybe some jail time. maybe losing their job. losing friends, family and relationships.

to all you pot smoking Don Juans that jumped on the thread defending THIS WOMAN i will help you understand. it's not pot that we are talking about. it's a WOMAN smoking pot and her lies and where this is possibly headed and what would be the WISE decision for our brother Don Juan to take to protect his life and his $$$.

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
... it's a WOMAN smoking pot and her lies ..
I knew the Street Pimp was going to break it down from this perspective! :)

For you knuckleheads that didn't get the message.....Pimp was focusing on her nature as a WOMAN - drugs are a MAN's realm and it is a very dangerous one. When a woman hangs around dudes that do drugs then this makes her dangerous in her thinking -- you can bet your last dollar that in her drug induced state her panties are coming off!! And her b/f won't be there!!

Woman come from a different perspective in why they do things! They should be in the kitchen baking you cookies and not on the street getting LIT!!!! (No pun DJ LIT) :)
 

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well.....good job on your djing skills, you seem to be doing a great job!

There are several reasons as to why people smoke and drink. Some include just wanting to feel good about themselves, some include a way of just dealing with stress, others include just fitting in and being cool.

I have no idea as to why she smokes....however, if her smoking is a distraction to your joy and peace, then you just might have to call off the relationship and you and her remain fvck partners if you wish.

Or, you could ignore her smoking, but of course, that would be difficult as well.

I totally understand where you are coming from, and I believe that you would choose the correct route. I never liked girls that smoked because it made them seem like they were unable to handle the stress in their lives without the assistance of a smoke or a drink.

But I trust...you will make the right decision, I am here if you need me bro.
 

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well.....good job on your djing skills, you seem to be doing a great job!

There are several reasons as to why people smoke and drink. Some include just wanting to feel good about themselves, some include a way of just dealing with stress, others include just fitting in and being cool.

I have no idea as to why she smokes....however, if her smoking is a distraction to your joy and peace, then you just might have to call off the relationship and you and her remain fvck partners if you wish.

Or, you could ignore her smoking, but of course, that would be difficult as well.

I totally understand where you are coming from, and I believe that you would choose the correct route. I never liked girls that smoked because it made them seem like they were unable to handle the stress in their lives without the assistance of a smoke or a drink.

But I trust...you will make the right decision, I am here if you need me bro.
 

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well.....good job on your djing skills, you seem to be doing a great job!

There are several reasons as to why people smoke and drink. Some include just wanting to feel good about themselves, some include a way of just dealing with stress, others include just fitting in and being cool.

I have no idea as to why she smokes....however, if her smoking is a distraction to your joy and peace, then you just might have to call off the relationship and you and her remain fvck partners if you wish.

Or, you could ignore her smoking, but of course, that would be difficult as well.

I totally understand where you are coming from, and I believe that you would choose the correct route. I never liked girls that smoked because it made them seem like they were unable to handle the stress in their lives without the assistance of a smoke or a drink.

But I trust...you will make the right decision, I am here if you need me bro.
 

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The individuals on this board who think women are inferior, untrustworthy hors that need to be controlled are not surprisingly blowing this way out of proportion. Getting on someones case for occasionally smoking weed!!! WTF?

Of course some of the people on here have extrapolated that into statements like:

if i am a drug dealer i can BUY YOUR WOMAN
yeah and she will need more and more over time to get that feeling
drugs are a MAN's realm and it is a very dangerous one. When a woman hangs around dudes that do drugs then this makes her dangerous in her thinking -- you can bet your last dollar that in her drug induced state her panties are coming off!!
Aside from what you see on the DEA sponsored ads on TV, pot is not a harmful drug, especially in moderation. If a girl occasionally smokes pot, it does not for a second mean that she is smoking pole to get it! It does not mean that she will slide down the slippery slope and try harder drugs!

Anyone here that drinks recreationally and ridicules a girl for smoking pot is a total hippocrite.

If a girl I'm dating likes to smoke pot, I smoke with her and have an awesome time. Breaking things off because she has an open mind and isn't afraid of smoking here and there... stupid!
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
I never liked girls that smoked because it made them seem like they were unable to handle the stress in their lives without the assistance of a smoke or a drink.
Are you also wary of dating girls who take cough medicine because they are unable to handle the stress of a cold without the assistance of foreign chemicals?

Just a question.
 

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Oh no Interpol, I didnt mean to make you upset....haha..

What I meant was, that some women I talk to that drink a lot or smoke a lot, have some type of addiction problem and could at times be in denial of that...and refuse to seek professional advice...

I dont disqualify them though, because I drink some and smoke very occasionally, so I can totally understand that doing these things helps to liven up your little mood a bit when in a party! Like me last night! Haha!
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER

What I meant was, that some women I talk to that drink a lot or smoke a lot, have some type of addiction problem and could at times be in denial of that...and refuse to seek professional advice...
This is true...It just seems like most people here (not you) need to understand that the vast majority of people who use drugs DO NOT become addicted. I think Lost in Translation has seen "Requiem For A Dream" a few too many times.

By modern definitions, Winston Churchill would be considered an alcoholic. By modern definitions, Sigmund Freud would be considered a cokehead. These two people had more productive lives than 99.99999% of people ever will. Our society is especially hypocritical when it comes to dependence on prescription drugs vs. even recreational use of so-called "hard" drugs. Don't trust everything you see on TV, educate yourself and draw your own conclusions.
 

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Don't relate the professional success of figures like Winston Churchhill and Sigmund Freud with their personal propensities (which were severely lacking).

That said, all this rhetoric about marijuana being the devil is crap. I smoke weed every once in awhile (used to do it everyday back in the day) and I can confidently say that I am not a street degenerate. I've also tried an assortment of other drugs -some of which many of you puritans would deem as hard drugs , and I am alive and well- no addictions that I am aware of. In fact, I have never again done those hard drugs and don't plan on. Drugs aren't the problem per say, it's the users who determine whether the drugs will live up to the negative image society and our hypocritical gov depict of them. Drugs can offer a enjoyable and safe experince in the hands of a responsible person while they can be agents of suicide in the hands of stupid people who lack self control.

To the dude whose b1tcing about his girl smoking weed. Stop being a b1tch. You should be happy. You know how many of my girlfriends-who were hot- I wished would smoke up with me. Do you know how easy it is to get laid by a stoned chick!?
 

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I'm going to try to not pass judgement on your girlfriend or what she says, but (of course!) I'll give you my opinion...

I used to run with a crowd that essentially lived for whatever drug they could get their hands on. More often than not, that was pot. Generally speaking, the crowd I hung with was not a clean cut prep-school bunch by a long shot, and along with that came girls who were of the same ilk. All of them put out. Maybe not to who whoever provided the high of the day, but it was plain to me that this was those girls' way of getting laid. I didn't trust them, but had no trouble getting in their pants by getting them high.

Now most of these folks didn't go on to become curbside waste, it was just a phase. They grew up, got a clue and realized getting high was not everything there was in life.

There's a gal I know who's mentioned to me that she'd like to try smoking pot. I told this HB10 on the spot that she'd be much better off not to even think about it, and relayed to her essentially what I said above, minus the part about most of these folks eventually turning out OK. I dislike smokers of any sort, being a former smoker who quit 10 years ago. Her opinion of me is high, so hopefully this will influence her...we'll see....

From what you have said, I'll bet she's doing someone else, and as was previously mentioned, keep an eye on her friends. Judge for yourself if you think she's boning someone else or not, or is likely to.
 

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For the record, this is coming from somone that used to smoke the green stuff... a lot.

I have heard one side saying to kick the girl to the curb, and another to chill out and smoke one with her. Personally, I do not think there is anything wrong with smoking a joint once in a while. To me smoking and drinking are a lot more dangerous and meeting a girl with a compulsive habit in either would be a dealbreaker for me (especially smoking).

Rather than looking at wether or not she does it, maybe you should look at wether or not she is honest with you. From what you are saying she is being up front about it, and her saying that she only does it with her friends shows she is not addicted . If she said she wouldnt smoke weed anymore and then goes and does it behind your back, then I would kick her to the curb. Of course if she does any other drugs then I would do it regardless.

Of course this is just my opinion. You have to decide wether or not smoking the occasional joint is a big enough issue to be a dealbreaker. If it is, then maybe it would be better to get rid of her because she isnt going to change for you.
 

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Originally posted by Trippsta
Haven't ever met a girl that smokes weed and isn't a sl*t at heart. NEXT
HES RIGHT....i know a BUNCH of chicks that smoke weed, and at heart they are all sluts.
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
HES RIGHT....i know a BUNCH of chicks that smoke weed, and at heart they are all sluts.
you guys are the most ridiculous people i have ever met.

its like you have never been to college or something.

Smoking weed isn't bad for you first of all, other than tarring up your lungs. Research shows that there is no long term damage to memory or anything.

Obviously if this girl is constantly stoned then it might be a problem if you don't fly that way. If you really feel that way about weed maybe you should next a girl for getting wasted too...

in terms of health and well being weed is only about 1000000x better than alcohol.
Alcohol is so much more dangerous im not even going to get into this arguement.

and i know a ton of girls that smoke and none of them are sluts. and they don't prostitute themselves to people and always pay for their share. maybe its becuase i goto school at a top university that we only have preppy smokers here lol.
 

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Originally posted by PYROTAK
you guys are the most ridiculous people i have ever met.

its like you have never been to college or something.

Smoking weed isn't bad for you first of all, other than tarring up your lungs. Research shows that there is no long term damage to memory or anything.

Obviously if this girl is constantly stoned then it might be a problem if you don't fly that way. If you really feel that way about weed maybe you should next a girl for getting wasted too...

in terms of health and well being weed is only about 1000000x better than alcohol.
Alcohol is so much more dangerous im not even going to get into this arguement.

and i know a ton of girls that smoke and none of them are sluts. and they don't prostitute themselves to people and always pay for their share. maybe its becuase i goto school at a top university that we only have preppy smokers here lol.
AMEN!!!
 

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I second the two people in front of me. Has anyone here smoked weed? OR know people that do? Weed isn't a drug and anyone who thinks so should widen their perspective to see that there are other habits that are way more dangerous.

Girls that smoke weed are sluts?!? Where are these women? If every that smoked pot was a slut, I would've never came to this site.

If you don't like smoking weed then don't do it otherwise shut the fvck up. Their nothing more annoying to a girl (or anyone) than someone who tries to push their values of life on to you.

I surprised that you are thinking of dumping her for smoking weed but I'm even more surprised that she didn't dump you for being mad about something as rediculous as that.
 

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Originally posted by Trippsta
Haven't ever met a girl that smokes weed and isn't a sl*t at heart. NEXT
Doesn't everyone here love to say that EVERY girl is a sl*t at heart and it just takes a DJ to bring it out?

Amen to Pyrotak, Qualtran, and FunnyCide. Half the people here seem to think anyone who smokes weed ends up in a gutter. Go to an Ivy League college and check out how much drug use (weed and harder drugs) there is. From reading the comments on here I bet you guys would be SHOCKED.
 

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WEED RULES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

are you guys awake ? snap the f*ck out of this

SOMEONE IS DISSING POT so lets defend pot

pot is not the issue here

if this makes your day POT RULES !!!

now back to what we should be discussing

WOMEN and how drug rules differs for WOMEN in the drug game

the rules are different in the drug game for women just like the rules are different when it comes to relationships

we read the DJ Bible. we learn that men are supposed to be MEN

well there is a dark book about the drug game. and the role of women in this is ..... wait for it.... DIFFERENT FROM MEN

you mean women are not the same as men ?

you don't think the laws of nature and attaction and addiction apply differently to the drug game ?

women are equal in drugs ? special rules ?

you f*cking AFC retards !!!

read it again :

If a man cannot afford to pay for his drug habit he steals

If a woman cannot afford to pay for her drug habit she
PROSTITUTES HERSELF to her DEALER

why do women become prostitutes on the streets ? for fun ?

99% to support their drug habits

so according to you college kids the men should be standing on the corner as well prostituting themselves

but they aren't ?

where are all the men who are hooked on drugs ?

STEALING / JAIL / ROB / KILL / JAIL / DEALING

ok i can see some of you are not smart enough to read between the lines and need me to spoon feed you little babies

i have no problem with peoples choices to use drugs

do what you want

pot is very popular in Australia

95% of people i know smoke pot or deal pot

BUT IT'S ABOUT A WOMAN AND WOMEN DON'T PLAY BY THE SAME RULES IN THE DRUG GAME !!!

Quote - PYROTAK
its like you have never been to college or something

this is where half of the problem is.

my advice is coming from the streets of Australia where the pot is f*cking hydro sh*t that is injected with every chemical you can think of to f*ck you up

and when they young chicks or chicks with no jobs like the buzz but can't pay. they get a boyfriend who is a drug dealer to support their taste in drugs. yes they wh0re themselves.

in my city you can get chicks just by saying you are a drug dealer as your profession. yes i know that is messed up but you need to understand chicks thinking alot more.

she would be smoking this at her dealers house in my world not a dorm

can the thread starter please specify if this is a teeny bopper chick experimenting with pot in her friends dorm or up in a drug dealers house ? is one of her friends a dealer ? where are her drugs coming from and how close is she to that drug dealer ?

there are different strains of plants with different potency and other factors that affect people

ALOT OF WOMEN SUFFER FROM MENTAL ILLNESS

you give these b*tches the chronic 24/7 and see what their mild bi-polar develop into LOL

Quote - PYROTAK
maybe its becuase i goto school at a top university that we only have preppy smokers here lol

yes we are offering advice from opposite sides of the world and economic ladder

dear fellow Don Juans i am just offering an opinion about women using drugs on the streets of my city that is over run with drugs of all sorts

Quote - Prophett
To the dude whose b1tcing about his girl smoking weed. Stop being a b1tch. You should be happy. You know how many of my girlfriends-who were hot- I wished would smoke up with me. Do you know how easy it is to get laid by a stoned chick!?

think about what you wrote there Prophett

do you know how easy it is to get laid by a stoned chick ?

could that apply to other men that are not her boyfriend ?

the thread starter is not around when she is stoned ... what now smarty ?

Quote - Interpol
think Lost in Translation has seen "Requiem For A Dream" a few too many times.

i did a search on google. i will have to see if i can hire this movie out and watch it. but it sounds depressing. i like movies that are comedy or action. i see enough f*cked up $hit in real life to bother watching people get hurt.

Quote - PR_L
Woman come from a different perspective in why they do things!

yes that is what i am trying to say. women are a different creature to man. it's all different.


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“ WH0RES on the other hand do not respect their bodies one bit. They indiscriminantly have sex so long as you meet some basic, superficial requirements that are much less demanding than that of a WOMAN. They have few if any redeeming qualities. They have very little to offer besides sex. They USE sex as a controlling mechanism to get what they want out of a man, or for just pure pleasure.

You fuvk WH0RES.

You have relationships with WOMAN “
 

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Lost in translation, fvck dude, by 14 year old brother has a better grip on reality than you, loosen up. 80% of people try illicit drugs at some stage and up to 40% use it regularly at some point in their life. What you're talking about is the 0.005%
 

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hahaha, I see again LIT, you deal with some fvcked up hors! You gotta find a better scene with some decent girls. Where I go to college, just about every cool chick smokes weed without any of the horrors you mention.
 
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