For those who said i didnt need the surgeries done

[Ratiocinative]

You have serious issue OP. I used to have BDD just like you. I'd get women hitting on me all the time. I had this married masseuse trying to give me free massages in the backroom. I had another single MILF that worked under the same manager whistle at me when I walked by and tell me that I need to take her out for drinks and **** her (her words). I had another MILF tell me she was going to join my gym to see me workout... and she did (she was married). Yet somehow I'd convince myself they weren't really hitting on me.

**** like that would happen to me often and I would still call myself fat and sit at home by myself every evening fighting the urge not to eat because I though I was too fat to get a girlfriend.

It's taken years and I'm still not completely over it, but enough that it doesn't affect my life too much. I stll feel a compulsion to look like a male model, but I enjoy exercising so it works out I guess.

Point is, looks only help you if they are consistent with your behavior. You can look like a male model but if you act like a ***** you'll never get a woman to feel sexual attraction for you. A woman needs to feel your strength, masculinity, independence, and desire for success. Looks can often get you a first date to give a woman a chance to feel your strength, but if you **** it up then your looks don't mean ****.

 

[Serenity]

I'm not convinced that OP is serious.

A super persistant and consistent troll? Had this been some guy popping up out of nowhere I would be more inclined to agree. He's been going on and on across several forums, google the username picollo30. That's the username he used to upload the pictures, he's got forum profiles under the same username with the same story. There's also a twitter account with that username, which shows what probably is his real name.

 

[Asmodeus]

A super persistant and consistent troll? Had this been some guy popping up out of nowhere I would be more inclined to agree. He's been going on and on across several forums, google the username picollo30. That's the username he used to upload the pictures, he's got forum profiles under the same username with the same story. There's also a twitter account with that username, which shows what probably is his real name.

I believe he is real and serious... Mental illness like this exists. He shows all the hallmarks of his condition. Even his constant posting is part of the condition as he would try to either seek whatever positive validation he can (which is never enough), or even if people insult his looks it confirms the delusion. It sounds absurd but people in a delusion do not want to believe it is just a delusion, they believe in the delusion as their reality. I have seen more ridiculous things than this...

I offered him a place to go where they would offer him better psychological support. But I doubt he will take it because he is not looking for that, and he likely has either given up or has become entrenched in the delusion. He likely is also in therapy, but judging by him going for cosmetic surgery and his posts I doubt the therapist was successful at all... Which is typical because there is no real cure for insanity.

But either way, he should not be here... These kinds of threads he makes are not going to help him and will only drag him down deeper into his delusion. Not to mention that this kind of stuff is not suitable for SoSuave.

 

[Tictac]

I believe he is real and serious... Mental illness like this exists. He shows all the hallmarks of his condition. Even his constant posting is part of the condition as he would try to either seek whatever positive validation he can (which is never enough), or even if people insult his looks it confirms the delusion. It sounds absurd but people in a delusion do not want to believe it is just a delusion, they believe in the delusion as their reality. I have seen more ridiculous things than this...

I offered him a place to go where they would offer him better psychological support. But I doubt he will take it because he is not looking for that, and he likely has either given up or has become entrenched in the delusion. He likely is also in therapy, but judging by him going for cosmetic surgery and his posts I doubt the therapist was successful at all... Which is typical because there is no real cure for insanity.

But either way, he should not be here... These kinds of threads he makes are not going to help him and will only drag him down deeper into his delusion. Not to mention that this kind of stuff is not suitable for SoSuave.

That he virtully solicits derision, then gripes about it is the only 'sign' I need.

He want to hear what he wants to hear.

 

[guru1000]

In any obsession, an underlying motive rests dormant.

OP, what is your motive? Surely, it's not your looks, as if you had a string of 8s or 9s at your beck and call, you could give a fvck about your appearance, right? Or?

Are you just looking to get laid, a relationship, or children by any girl? Or must the girl meet a baseline threshhold (e.g. an 8, good values, etc.)?

OP, I would be interested (if this thread is not closed before then) in hearing what your guised motive is behind your looks obsession. Be specific in describing your goal.

 

[LiveYourDream]

In any obsession, an underlying motive rests dormant.

OP, what is your motive? Surely, it's not your looks, as if you had a string of 8s or 9s at your beck and call, you could give a fvck about your appearance, right? Or?

Are you just looking to get laid, a relationship, or children by any girl? Or must the girl meet a baseline threshhold (e.g. an 8, good values, etc.)?

OP, I would be interested (if this thread is not closed before then) in hearing what your guised motive is behind your looks obsession. Be specific in describing your goal.

Perhaps underneath it all, part of him believes that if he takes himself out of the game, by disqualifying himself from even playing, he gets to reject himself first, and thus he never has to risk the rejection of a woman. One pain (his own) on his own terms is perhaps perceived as more bearable and controllable than the other (the uncontrollable potential rejection of a woman). I suspect OP is not yet that self aware, considering he still currently denies he has BDD.

 

[Clueless2k16]

can someone gime an example of a guy that looks like me?

is this it? please google stevi ritchie minus the hair

 

[Serenity]

can someone gime an example of a guy that looks like me?

is this it? please google stevi ritchie minus the hair

Your excessive focus on looks is the problem, stop comparing your looks to others. Seriously, stop that sh!t. It's pure poison to your self-esteem.

I've seen the pictures of your eyes, yes they're droopy or whatever it's called. But it's not as ugly and repulsive as you think it is.

 

[TheProspect]

Act like a victim and you'll be treated like one.

 

[Clueless2k16]

being repulsive is not that bad, less money spent, more time for me and more money spent on me, i can always pay a hooker for sex, plus you can see whos really honestly interested in getting to know me or not. being repulsive is not bad at all.

 

[Clueless2k16]

Your excessive focus on looks is the problem, stop comparing your looks to others. Seriously, stop that sh!t. It's pure poison to your self-esteem.

I've seen the pictures of your eyes, yes they're droopy or whatever it's called. But it's not as ugly and repulsive as you think it is.

i knew it truth is starting to come to light

 

[Serenity]

i knew it truth is starting to come to light

What truth? You look like you do, but none of us thinks you look ugly. Stevi Richie looks good, he's easily distinguishable because of the eyes of course, but not in a negative way. You don't look bad with those eyes either.

I'm pretty sure I speak for most of the forum when I again say you don't look as bad as you think.

It's all of us against you. You act like a crazy person who says "I'm not crazy, everyone else is". Do you see my point?

 

[Clueless2k16]

What truth? You look like you do, but none of us thinks you look ugly. Stevi Richie looks good, he's easily distinguishable because of the eyes of course, but not in a negative way. You don't look bad with those eyes either.

I'm pretty sure I speak for most of the forum when I again say you don't look as bad as you think.

It's all of us against you. You act like a crazy person who says "I'm not crazy, everyone else is". Do you see my point?

no worries i always have hookers like i said. or do you think they will reject my money if they see my face?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Just do it already. Speed up evolutuon and just fvcking do it. Or fix your fvcking mindset and adapt along with the rest of the world. Toughen up already, you fail because you let others affect you. You still take other people's sh!t, no one respects you. Have you ever stood up for yourself? When someone starts talking crap to you, have you ever just told them off? Have you ever threatened to kick the **** out of them? Have you ever actually pushed someone or fought back against them? Grow a pair of balls!

 

[Clueless2k16]

oh ill do it you can be sure of that

 

[Serenity]

no worries i always have hookers like i said. or do you think they will reject my money if they see my face?

*sigh*
You can do a lot better than hookers, a whole lot better.

Your face will not be a problem, but your mindset and false beliefs about your face will.

 

[ZTIME]

Keep posting the pictures of the Bassett hound with your profile pics!! I'll grab the popcorn, this should be interesting!