For those who said i didnt need the surgeries done

[Tictac]

Gotcha. The unnecessary surgeries were free. Makes sense now.

Your tax dollars at work.

 

[Asmodeus]

Yep @Tictac ... I realize that there is no cure for insanity... In fact, he is just doing this to make himself feel better. What little shreds of self-esteem he actually has. All our telling him he looks good is not going to help him. All the surgeries in the world would not help him. Even if he looked like Brad Pitt he would not realize the truth.
In fact, like many who are ill like this I doubt he will ever actually see the truth and see past the delusion. Rarely are these people ever able to break free of it as the delusion is their reality. I understand this... I really do...

Truth is @Clueless2k16 we cannot help you here, no psychologist will be able to help you either... The only thing that will help you is yourself if you can someday hopefully see past the delusions your mind has conjured up. You are here to try to shed the pain of what you feel, to try to scrape at any semblance of hope... But you will not find it. I rarely understand people, mostly I fake it because I do not... But you I understand... Hang in there.

 

[Tictac]

Yep @Tictac ... I realize that there is no cure for insanity... In fact, he is just doing this to make himself feel better. What little shreds of self-esteem he actually has. All our telling him he looks good is not going to help him. All the surgeries in the world would not help him. Even if he looked like Brad Pitt he would not realize the truth.
In fact, like many who are ill like this I doubt he will ever actually see the truth and see past the delusion. Rarely are these people ever able to break free of it as the delusion is their reality. I understand this... I really do...

Truth is @Clueless2k16 we cannot help you here, no psychologist will be able to help you either... The only thing that will help you is yourself if you can someday hopefully see past the delusions your mind has conjured up. You are here to try to shed the pain of what you feel, to try to scrape at any semblance of hope... But you will not find it. I rarely understand people, mostly I fake it because I do not... But you I understand... Hang in there.

Good thing he can deprive others of needed health care through the NHS so he can tend to his narcissism. Completely selfish assh*le.

 

[Clueless2k16]

Good thing he can deprive others of needed health care through the NHS so he can tend to his narcissism. Completely selfish assh*le.

the plastic surgeons wouldnt do the surgeries if they thought i wasnt a candidate.

 

[Asmodeus]

Moderators... I will never tell you how to do your job, this board is managed wonderfully. However, I ask for your attention to this case. I know @Clueless2k16 here is not being directly disruptive, nor is he actually trolling as he truly believes this madness. But I know that he will continue this on an on. Inundating the board with threads about his delusion to help hold whatever he has of his fragile self-esteem to get whatever shreds of gratification, which will never be enough to feed that bottomless hole of a self-esteem he has. We cannot help him here... In fact, the likelihood is that all of this will do more harm to him than good. I think that having him here and him being here is detrimental to both himself and this forum...

Take that into consideration... I do this because it is right.
@Espi @bradd80

 

[Tictac]

the plastic surgeons wouldnt do the surgeries if they thought i wasnt a candidate.

You are a self-centered, wholly narcissistic sad sack.

Others could not get care because of you.

 

[Clueless2k16]

Once i find a nice woman that will give my self esteem back.

 

[Tictac]

Once i find a nice woman that will give my self esteem back.

Sure. If you believe that, you have no chance.

If you're not enough without a woman, you will never be enough with one.

 

[Clueless2k16]

You are a self-centered, wholly narcissistic sad sack.

Others could not get care because of you.

Jaw surgery (Maxilo Mandibular Advancement) -- was for treatment of severe sleep apnea.

Rhino/Septoplasty -- crooked nose / breathing problems

Strabismus surgery - self explaining

only the otoplasty and canthopexies for the lifting of the eyes were cosmetic

 

[Tictac]

Jaw surgery (Maxilo Mandibular Advancement) -- was for treatment of severe sleep apnea.

Rhino/Septoplasty -- crooked nose / breathing problems

Strabismus surgery - self explaining

only the otoplasty and canthopexies for the lifting of the eyes were cosmetic

Tap dance all you like. You are addicted to cosmetic surgery for no reason other than you hate yourself. This deprives others of necessary medical care.

 

[marmel75]

Once i find a nice woman that will give my self esteem back.

Should we start calling you the "Tooth Fairy"?

 

[guru1000]

Once i find a nice woman that will give my self esteem back.

LOL. Well regardless if you are nuts, I have to give it to you: You are one funny guy.

 

[Clueless2k16]

Should we start calling you the "Tooth Fairy"?

i'm no loony. I have a degree in Journalism and a job in IT (Networking). I dont understand the hate really

 

[guru1000]

Jaw surgery (Maxilo Mandibular Advancement) -- was for treatment of severe sleep apnea.

Rhino/Septoplasty -- crooked nose / breathing problems

Strabismus surgery - self explaining

only the otoplasty and canthopexies for the lifting of the eyes were cosmetic

Admit it, you are addicted to the anesthesia, aren't you?

 

[Asmodeus]

I have met every kind of case... But never a real BDD case... How I would love to pick your thoughts to analyze how you think. But this is not the place for it.

 

[marmel75]

i'm no loony. I have a degree in Journalism and a job in IT (Networking). I dont understand the hate really

No hate...I find it pretty crazy to be honest...like sociopathic almost.

You obviously hate yourself more than all of us combined could anyway, so I'm not sure what the point of that was...

 

[Tictac]

i'm no loony.

Sure you are.

Read your own posts.

 

[Clueless2k16]

Sure you are.

Read your own posts.

venting and sharing my frustrations = crazy that's a new

 

[marmel75]

Sure you are.

Read your own posts.

Dr. Lecter: "How did you catch me Will? How did you do it?"

Will: "You had....disadvantages"

Dr. Lecter: "Disadvantages? What disadvantages?"

Will: "You're insane."

 

[Asmodeus]

@marmel75 BDD is not associated with destructive tendencies other than self-destructive (high suicide rate and high degree of self harm not even counting the surgeries and such they do to themselves). I met so many cases in the behavioral hospital... But never one of these. It is not like it is a rare condition... But it must not be something they do not feel warrants admittance into a behavioral hospital. I am sure his time in this forum will be limited, and that he will either leave once we stop giving him scraps to feed his empty self-esteem or banned. But I will be sad to see it go... Come to PsychCentral if you want Clueless... People there would at least be better equipped to handle you. And there I will be sure to pick your thoughts more.

This is not the place for it however...