For those who said i didnt need the surgeries done

Clueless2k16

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this was me in my 20's. whaf would you have done if your were in my shoes? imagine being a teen looking like this, or being in your 20's or 30's. i never had a date, a g/f, im a ****in virgin at 40 y/o. all my life was wasted being bullied, rejected, being made fun of. i dont know how i havent commited suicide yet, must be that i still have hope in better days.


http://3.fotos.web.sapo.io/i/N9302c66f/3428839_pKzkA.jpeg

imagine how this ****ed my life 4ever. you dont understand never will

this is me now bald, older and still same ****
http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picollo30/library/?sort=3&page=1

BDD really?
 
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You gotta be fvcking kidding me. You think you look like sh!t because some idiots bullied, rejected and made fun of you. I can understand that, really I can. What I can't understand is why the fvck you accept it.

You look more masculine and good in those pictures than I do on a regular day, you don't see me whining and b!tching about looking ugly.

You've got nothing to validate your claims. Your evidence speaks against what you claim. You're not as physically ugly as you think you are.

Now get the fvck out of here. Nobody is interested in reading about your whining. You have already decided you're fvcked beyond hope, nothing we say apparently makes a difference anyways.

If I were in your shoes I would quit whining and go prove to myself I'm wrong, that I'm not as ugly as some poor losers say. I wouldn't just remain stuck in a loop concluding how fvcked I am, it doesn't improve sh!t. You're not improving sh!t the way you're doing it now, you just keep yourself fvcked.

You've been held down so much by others that you're used to it. They don't need to be present, because you're so used to it you continue to hold yourself down like they did. You're bullying yourself, only you can put an end to that. Fight back for fvcks sake.
 

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I'm watching the movie Red Dragon...

Starting to see some similarities.
 

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this was me in my 20's. whaf would you have done if your were in my shoes? imagine being a teen looking like this, or being in your 20's or 30's. i never had a date, a g/f, im a ****in virgin at 40 y/o. all my life was wasted being bullied, rejected, being made fun of. i dont know how i havent commited suicide yet, must be that i still have hope in better days.


http://3.fotos.web.sapo.io/i/N9302c66f/3428839_pKzkA.jpeg

imagine how this ****ed my life 4ever. you dont understand never will

this is me now bald, older and still same ****
http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picollo30/library/?sort=3&page=1

BDD really?
Same sh*t, different hour.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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so you guys are saying that i looked great with those big ****ing dumbo ears, jew hook nose, and droopy the dog eyes? tell that to the girls that treated me as freak
 

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Total BDD case... I have a associate who looks a bit like you and I think he pulls down more puss than I do. It is all about gaining confidence, learning how to create a good conversation, maintaining their interest, ect.

Dude, trust me... You should go get some help for this. Not for your actual appearance as that is actually fine, but about your delusional perception of it being far worse than reality.
 

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LOL.

Tx for the laugh once again. Now back to my regular scheduled drink.
 

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I believe this OP... He is not a troll, he does not have the hallmarks of a troll he is extremely consistent. I truly believe that he is psychologically ill.

Psychological illness is a difficult thing to manage... I understand this. Your perception of yourself is not based on reality but your own delisuon. I suggest you do not do the surgeries as they are not going to help you, they will not treat the underlying cause of your problem.
 

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
It puts the lotion on! It does this whenever it's told!
 

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I want you to read this... I doubt you are going to fully understand it, I know this because you are so consumed in your delusion that you cannot fully accept the reality... But just read this and see if it describes your thoughts. "The term Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) describes a disabling preoccupation with perceived defects or flaws in appearance. It can affect both men and women, and makes sufferers excessively self-conscious. They tend to check their appearance repeatedly and try to camouflage or alter the defects they see, often undergoing needless cosmetic treatments. Onlookers are frequently perplexed because they can see nothing out of the ordinary, but BDD causes devastating distress and interferes substantially with the ability to function socially."
 

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
You'll have a whole new list by then and will be moaning.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
Don't forget the FUT, chest and butt implants, cheekbone and jawline enhancement, juvaderm for undereye, Sculptra for temple enhancement, and fat injection into the top lip.

Then maybe, just maybe, you'll be just perfect!!
 

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I want you to read this... I doubt you are going to fully understand it, I know this because you are so consumed in your delusion that you cannot fully accept the reality... But just read this and see if it describes your thoughts. "The term Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) describes a disabling preoccupation with perceived defects or flaws in appearance. It can affect both men and women, and makes sufferers excessively self-conscious. They tend to check their appearance repeatedly and try to camouflage or alter the defects they see, often undergoing needless cosmetic treatments. Onlookers are frequently perplexed because they can see nothing out of the ordinary, but BDD causes devastating distress and interferes substantially with the ability to function socially."
He's been told this for MONTHS and is impervious to any outside information.
 

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the surgeries were all free through the NHS. i think the doctors saw trough my pain and helped me. i've only paid for the orthodontic treatment and the braces
 

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the surgeries were all free through the NHS. i think the doctors saw trough my pain and helped me. i've only paid for the orthodontic treatment and the braces
Gotcha. The unnecessary surgeries were free. Makes sense now.
 

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