For the guys doing online dating

[frivolousz21]

I realize some people have busy schedules, work alot, alot of school.

but why meet online?

if you arent so busy you cant walk outside for a few min a day you have no reason to meet online.

if you cant meet a girl in person you are not a DJ

if you are not a DJ...and you are still here learning the knowledge to become a DJ and you have decided to do the online dating..you are selling yourself short.

and you will not become a dj meeting women online.

99.9999999 percent of humanity wasnt online dating.

ive done it..does it work? yes
is it likely to work? possible

does it compare to the THRILL OF MEETING A GIRL IN PERSON?

NO CHANCE IN HELL!

you can go out and meet women at walmart, gas stations, school, malls, clubs, bars, grocery stores, anywhere!

so please stop the online dating unless you have a valid reason. I used to say well its better.I get to know them..thats BULL****..I was too ***** to meet them in person

good luck fellas

 

[cannibustacap]

I agree. Nothing beats the thrill of actually going out there and fùcking up a few times then getting the big pay off.

As Napoleon Hill said (I think it was him) the path of every great man is filled with suffering and pain before success. (something like that).

You need to go out there and suffer and learn and feel and then you will become. Going online is cool for some ONS's but its nothing compared to meeting a great girl, building up the attraction, and having incredible sex all in that one night like it was meant to be. Ok its not always like that, but at least the thrill is higher.

Do the Boot camp (personally I didn't follow the exact boot camp, but I still go out there on my own and do my own thing).

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on a side note. I Remember David De Angelo saying something like:
Online chatting is like a women simulator. Use it to test out and refine your conversation skills. Try to get the women on the phone as fast as possible.

So... i guess it can go both ways. But the OP is right. Real life beats online for the true attraction and seduction.

 

[MRomeo99]

I'm not going to brag about women I've done this or that with. But, suffice it to say I've met many women online, and have had all kinds of experiences with them. But, have met many more offline.

Do you think that I go through this trouble online just to live a fantasy life?
Do you think that I do this and don't get laid as much as I choose to?

I'm just curious why you think that meeting women online is such a lowly act?

Let me ask you. If you meet a HB9 online and tomorrow you wake up next to her. How is that any different than meeting her at Walmart? You're telling me that the sex is somehow different because you met her at Walmart?

Give me a break. Get off your high horse pal.
Times they are a changing, and if you think that online game isn't game. You have another thing coming.

Meanwhile I'm going out with the HB8.5 that I met last week online. When I'm kissing her I'll try not to enjoy it as much.

Later,

MR

 

[MRomeo99]

Whoops repost

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Romeo don't even bother. One guess is that these guys had tried placing a free ad on some weird site like AdultFriendFinder and either got no replies at all or got stood up by the one person they met.

They made up assumptions about who they think meets women on-line (where's PlayerSupreme when you need him). They're not experienced enough to realize that talented DJs can sarge where ever and do!

They probably couldn't fathom the possibility of checking your email during lunch and having a couple of new replies from women wanting to meet you from your ad. I mean meeting women on the street is great but some people have jobs and we can't walk the streets as easily as some young bucks that only have part time jobs.

If women choose to contact you without any direct effort on your part other than writing a simple ad, why not meet up with them? But that's probably unbelievable to some guys. All I can say is that less competition makes it easier to sarge on-line.

It kinda makes you wonder just how successful they are in real life if they can't even use the Net to meet women. I hadn't mentioned anything about their age but you can't help but wonder if that has anything to do with their level of uhhh, "success."

 

[Jariel]

I know a lot of people who are in successful relationships that begun online, yet I barely know of any successful relationships that started in a bar or club.

Personally, I will never cold approach women. I've met too many b1tches and slvts via cold approaches so I always prefer to screen a woman's personality and character beforehand.

I haven't tried online dating myself, mainly because all the women who contact me live too far away for it to work, but I leave my profile on a few sites just in case some local and suitable candidate should contact me.

 

[bobbob]

"if you arent so busy you cant walk outside for a few min a day you have no reason to meet online."

A LOT of people (especially in the u.s.) live in areas where you can't simply just go walk around and see people. Simply because everyone is in their CARS. So they have to go drive somewhere, go out of their way to a bookstore or coffeeshop on the weekdays or bars/clubs on the weekends, and depending where you live, those places might be dry as far as opps are concerned.

So there's your answer. Ideally, we could all just take a walk up and down our street outside our apartment and run into all sorts of beautiful women, but that ain't how the world works in many cities.

Peace

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

Originally posted by frivolousz21


you can go out and meet women at walmart, gas stations, school, malls, clubs, bars, grocery stores, anywhere!

I don't shop at Walmart. Who picks up women at the gas station? I don't attend school. I don't go to clubs (only 20 years old). I don't drink (so bars are pointless). I tried picking up women in grocery stores but that didn't work out too well.

I like picking up women in the "real world" just as much online dating. If you're currently doing the online thing, don't let anyone discourage you.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: For the guys doing online dating

Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
I don't shop at Walmart. Who picks up women at the gas station? I don't attend school. I don't go to clubs (only 20 years old). I don't drink (so bars are pointless). I tried picking up women in grocery stores but that didn't work out too well.

Oh we get it now, you're just an angry bitter young man. Maybe if you open up your mind your opportunities may open up too.

Stop blaming where you "don't shop," and hating on guys who have enough DJ skills to pick up women at gas stations (women can drive cars nowadays y'know). So you aren't in school, maybe taking a class or two may allow you to meet some women.

Who ever said that you have to drink alcohol to get into a bar? Oh yeah, you're only 20. You tried a pickup at a store and it didn't go your way so you denounce it. You say that you like picking up women in the "real world," however from your own examples (excuses) it doesn't seem that you actually do.

Just my observation...

 

[NatureGuy]

Alot of people try online introductions, a few people do pretty well with it, but I would say for most people (95%) it's either a waste of time or that time would be better spent meeting people in other ways.

 

[thebsharp]

why the bashing of online dating? who said the people that do online dating dont also approuch girls offline too? quit jumping to conclusion, it makes you look ignorant.

IMO if you know what your doing, you can get dates easy online. You can use the girls you date online to work on your social skill, they are great in your in a slump, always a confidence booster and many more.

 

[frivolousz21]

the entire point of my origional post.

and sorry if it wasnt worded well.

was to motivate the guys who FALL back on to online dating when they cant meet a women in person. If you can go out and meet women..it will make it even more likely you will get someone online.

but if you cant go out and meet them..then you should try to break the barriers in person not on a machine

 

[Dukester]

also....
if you have all this time on your hands, use it productively. why spend you pitiful like looking for love on the internet, when you could go out in person and get the thrill.

most people who do it online are just to pvssy to do it in real life.

*notice i said most, cuz i've dated an internet chick b4 too. had great sex once, and that was it.

but if you have time to be online, then you have time to be out in the field. choose one, and i recommend the latter.

 

[DonJuanQuixote]

Hello...you're taking this out of prespective. Online dating is cool, only if you use it as another tool in your arsenal. If you're relying on friendfinders to hook up entirely, then you dont have a life.

Think of it this way. Your goal is to meet as many women as possible. You're doing well on approaches. Why disregard something else that may work as well!??

 

[MRomeo99]

Yeah Francisco, I suspect it's an age thing as well. No offense to my younger DJ's but there is quite a big difference between 16-25 and low 30's(where I am). So Francisco I would agree that it is probably an age thing.

I think those of you who are so obviously negative about the online thing just don't get it.

A woman is a woman, online or offline.
A woman is a woman, online or offline.
A woman is a woman, online or offline.

If I meet a woman IRL, or online, and I get what I want there is no difference. It's just a different type of game. One that with a little bit of work you can be way above the standard moron who sends them an email like "Wanna cyber?"

If I have as many dates as I want.
If I get laid as much as I want.
If I date the quality of women that I want.

Then how does it matter how I meet them?

I used to be a bartender. I never approached anyone, yet I was very rarely alone. Does that make me not a "real man" in your eyes?

So, what's the difference?

It's ridiculous how resistant you boys are about online services.

Are we now in a pissing contest? If you can't pee 4 yards you're not a man? As long as you're actively trying to pursue women in any way shape or form. If you're getting better. Then it doesn't matter how you do it.

I see no problem with anyone who chooses to focus solely on their online game. If they even meet one girl who meets their needs, that's better than sitting at home feeling miserable. Who gives a **** if it takes less nerve than cold approaching a 2 set. Just go out there and get what you want using any means necessary(well almost).

Just my thoughts,

M

 

[Dukester]

it's not that I'm resistant. I've done online dating. Age is a factor- I would have to agree. My point was more towards my aged guys.

The fact that they go to the internet for love is pitiful, when they could be doing the same thing at school, or whereever.

It is a lil diff. for older people- my moms friend met a chick online when he was 32, and they got married, and that was 6 years ago- they are still together.

so that's my point- i'm not knocking it completely!

 

[frivolousz21]

I agree with the age thing.

this thread is for the afc's I guess 18 to 24. who go online to meet women. because they are afraid to in person..but then make themselves content with it.

believe me fellas Ive dont it way to much because I was afraid to meet in person.

Ive also have meet women off the internet and the feeling or attraction for her changed when I saw her.

so why not know ur attracted from the get go?

 

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[RedKnight04]

I do it.

But not because I can't meet chicks in person...

I actually am moving in a month so I've just been chatting up online to get some girls to drive me around, show me the area.

As a response to your post I think MRomeo was right, a woman is a woman. You have to look at the big picture. If you just got laid and the chick was so-so and you found her online, you still got laid. If you just got a relationship going and the chick is gourgeous and you found her online, you still got a girl.

Me personally, I like meeting chicks in person because I feel my image is good. I'm 6'4 so as a tall person I allready appear dominate.

In whatever way you do it, your point is to either get laid or get a girl right?

 

[DJ_Dork]

There is nothing wrong about online/newspaper/etc version of dating.

As long as you're not chit chatting and you like how she looks/sounds. The thing is, the person doesn't see you, so it is only her mind and your mind deciphering what this person is really like. If you're going to do non-face dating, you have to hit fast within a month of meeting the person.

I did online dating once, met a girl.. no chemistry. Met another girl... no chemistry. On paper she sounds fun and interesting, in person.. it just did not cut it.

This is why the NAYSAYERS prefer real in person dating and this is a better and faster way of meeting women.