For the college guys who want to meet women

[StoneColdFox]

I LOVE COLLEGE.

Approaching is stupid easy because everyone is looking to meet new people, 95 percent of the time a hi whats your name works..

lol

Last night I was at a frat party, a little intoxicated, didnt want to be because it messes up my game but..it happens lol.

Turns out I did well because this morning 5 or 6 cute girls approached me saying they remember me from the party.

Alot of girls dont get my sense of humor, the younger ones atleast, but at times i have them eating out the palm of my hand..

 

[DJMaC23]

So I'm going to be transferring to a new University this fall as a junior....there are dorms and such on campus however I will be a commuter student; anyone have any advice for a student like me who doesn't live on campus in regards to meeting people (guys and girls)?

 

[Kev07]

Well I havent been in your situation but I guess buds with someone that dorms and kick it there, meet other people etc etc.

or

Get a social group of hot girls and kick it with them.

and a lot of people would probably recommend joining a frat, though I have NO experience with this.

 

[Slick101]

I got 7 numbers allready a fvcked 2 girls in 3 days...

damn these freshmans Want it...

it all started with, "Hi, Im meeting new people today... whats your name"

Gets em everytime

 

[MagnuM]

Slick. Either you are a liar or you are actually telling the truth. Two very obvious conclusions that one can come to.

Please expand and fill our minds with more of your macking details.

That is the best approach by far.

Simple, honest, and none of that ****y/Not-funny routine. Grade A in my opinion.

 

[Aspiring_DJ]

How is College going for everyone so far? I just finished my first week and managed to meet a few girls but didn't talk to them long enough to build the rapport for a #close. And my campus is so big that you hardly see the same person more than once, except for classes of course. As far as classes go I have been getting alot of smiles but have just been smiling back or saying hi. I plan to step it up this week.

 

[eko]

Oh my god....

College

This is a brag post... but I hooked up with a girl on the second night of orientation. On day 13 I lost my virginity. I can't say I'm too proud of that though. It's stupidly easy. I just enjoy being myself and being nice to everyone and being friendly. The bulk I put on over the past 8 months or so helped a lot too. Especially at the beginning everyone is really accepting and it's

TOO
EASY
TO
GET
NUMBERS

 

[ChrizZ]

It's not that easy at Community Colleges though.

 

[eko]

Oh... one more point. Don't just go after girls and make friends with them. Make a lot of guy friends as well.

 

[Kev07]

college doesn't start for me for another 2 weeks -_-

 

[Aspiring_DJ]

Ok today was my first try putting these techniques into play. I went to the Learning commons and sat 3 tables away from an hb7. After the first few minutes we made eye contact and she looked down. Then made eye contact again and i smiled and she looked down again. Made eye contact again, same thing. Now I know tweeder said this is a go signal and you need to approach. Well i couldn't do it. I felt like she could have felt like i was creeping her out by having kept looking at her. If they don't smile back (at the library), do you still approach? Also, what do i say? I really don't know what to say to her and nor do i know how to tell if she wants me to approach.

 

[Mad Manic]

All excuses. You need no signals, nothing, to approach. You either approach and get her number or you don't, anything you say regarding it is irrelevant BS. What ifs, buts and maybes dont exist this is just a product of your thoughts.

What to say? Walk up to her confidently with a smile and say, "Hey, you caught my eye and I wanted to come and meet you. I'm *AJ* " and offer your handshake before she has a chance to think about what happened. Then chat for a bit, get her warmed to you and close. That's it, run the same thing over and over with around 20 girls or so and then when you have enough numbers, cool it down so you don't get a bad rep.

MM

 

[DJ1234]

It's not that easy at Community Colleges though.

yeah unfortunately it isnt....sucks.. ..can't wait to transfer...

 

[Maxtro]

How the heck do you go from, "Hi, how was your weekend/what did you do" to "careful with your teeth"?

I small talk with a few girls at the beginning of class 3 times a week and I don't know how to go any farther.

The only thing I can think of and maybe pull off is suggesting that we go to the math lab (class requirement certain # of hours) together and do our homework. And maybe suggest lunch after that. But even then I'd probably be too nervous to even bring it up...

 

[EdHunter]

If I could kick my two cents in here...join clubs/sports.
Student organizations are gold, because if you meet an HB there, you already have a shared interest (ie; what ever the club is), and it allows you to create value by excelling at stuff.

Sports aren't so great to meet girls, but in terms of feeling more manly, it's great. I'm an unathletic guy, and I decided to change that by joining the Ultimate team. Not only am I getting in shape, but I now have a group of guy friends, including "cool" upperclassmen, to provide me with social proof/party invites/good old male bonding.

Plus, this all looks good on your resume, and it's fun, and it can take your mind off of all the AFC obsessions you need to fight.

 

[Kev07]

I signed up for rugby at my school, this is intimidating, all the upperclass dudes are pretty huge.

 

[Black Casanova]

once you meet a girl, what is a good way to move the relationship along

coffee, etc

ideas?

 

[moto]

once you meet a girl, what is a good way to move the relationship along

coffee, etc

ideas?

As your walking out of class together just tell her you are going for some coffee at the moment and ask her if she wants to tag along if she does not have class. After the coffee you can ask her for her number. If you are trying to have coffee some other time outside of school hours then you need to get her number first.

 

[MagnuM]

Yes coffee. If your lucky "hot coffee."

 

[snowdog]

sweet. Next year finally normal college for me!!! no more home studying. Psycology baby, 70% chicks.