I was just curious to see what you guys thought about playing along with women's "games". I mean should I just totally absolutely not participate in these tests?
Like an example: I have been kinda dating this girl for about three weeks now. I mean I would not see her everyday, maybe three days during the week and some on the weekends. And I never got anywhere other than a kiss. No big deal to me.
Well Sunday she called one of my friends (who is dating my girls best friend) and tells him that she don't think things are working out between us and that she thinks that I am too "clingy". And honestly I think I was kinda being a little to pushy. So my friend tells her that she should call me and try to work it out.
So she does call me about 30 minutes later. But she says absolutely nothing about me being to clingy or anything negative at all. She just wants to know what I am doing. So I figured I wasn't gonna take anything off of her and I call her back and tell that I think that me and her should be friends and no more. And she says that thats fine because she hasn't really gotten over her past relationship with this guy that treats her like hell.
But today, she calls me and asks me to call her back about 10:30 and act like I want to meet her so she can avoid this situation with someone else. Like using me as an excuse to leave. Should I do it? I think I'm gonna try see how she reacts to me ignoring her and not giving into her.
A part of me wants to kinda play along for while and act like I still kinda care about her some so I can get my sticks in, but also a part of me wants to just not fool with her at all.
??
Like an example: I have been kinda dating this girl for about three weeks now. I mean I would not see her everyday, maybe three days during the week and some on the weekends. And I never got anywhere other than a kiss. No big deal to me.
Well Sunday she called one of my friends (who is dating my girls best friend) and tells him that she don't think things are working out between us and that she thinks that I am too "clingy". And honestly I think I was kinda being a little to pushy. So my friend tells her that she should call me and try to work it out.
So she does call me about 30 minutes later. But she says absolutely nothing about me being to clingy or anything negative at all. She just wants to know what I am doing. So I figured I wasn't gonna take anything off of her and I call her back and tell that I think that me and her should be friends and no more. And she says that thats fine because she hasn't really gotten over her past relationship with this guy that treats her like hell.
But today, she calls me and asks me to call her back about 10:30 and act like I want to meet her so she can avoid this situation with someone else. Like using me as an excuse to leave. Should I do it? I think I'm gonna try see how she reacts to me ignoring her and not giving into her.
A part of me wants to kinda play along for while and act like I still kinda care about her some so I can get my sticks in, but also a part of me wants to just not fool with her at all.
??