Fit guys with fat women

[The Duke]

I have some buff/ripped friends that only date women like this

These women were considered fat 20 years ago, now they are considered thick, depending on whom you ask. But yeah I noticed buff/jack guys date these girls

I know a guy I use to lift with this guy was buff/ripped and he would date flat out landwhales he even said that was his preference I think honestly he was lying to himself and was insecure and had some confident issues with women I mean he appeared confident when talking about lifting and life things. Seemed like a good guy but something always was off about him. Just could never place my finger on it (no diddy) I know some buff/ripped guys that will smash anything, they might smash a fattie but in public you will see them with a dime etc.

Those are still fat in my eyes. And insecurity issues run pretty deep in buff/ripped guys.

 

[Chow Mein]

Having a curvy chick in the rotation has been working well for me

 

[BeExcellent]

As a woman it's been an interesting experience. I'm 5'6". I've weighed as little as 110lbs and as much as 140lbs (max 153lbs while pregnant). I've had men come onto me at every weight and condition (including VERY pregnant). I am a classic hourglass figure and have attractive hair & face.

Different men prefer different things physically. I have had more attention at 130-135 than I did at 110, I think its kind of interesting. There are men who have told me quite honestly to gain some weight because my face gets a slightly gaunt look at that weight (I feel best and look best in clothes at 115ish) but it always surprised me that men were not always all about being too trim. And this is on an athletic built woman.

Some men love the big booty girls, some like thick, some like rail thin. Personally I think many of the young fashion models look sickly thin, gaunt and with no boobs, like boy bodies. Not surprising as the fashion world is run largely by gay males who like feminized men. But there are straight men who like that look too.

As a chick I learned a long time ago that you cannot ever be everyone's ideal. So you've got to choose (if you are a smart girl) from amongst the men who you appeal to rather than chase whatever your ideal is. That way you avoid to a great degree your man developing a wandering eye. It also helps if you provide other value beyond looks, of course, but thats not for this thread.

 

[anonymous12345]

And insecurity issues run pretty deep in buff/ripped guys.

People say I have a "nice body" etc due to my regular workout, but I confirm this dilemma. However, think of this progression:

1. An insecure dude in a crappy body
2. An insecure dude in a great body
3. ...and later on a confident dude in a great body

That's the theory at least. You mention the guys that aren't born naturals but have to construct themselves into great men. Some have a longer path.

 

[Solomon]

Those are still fat in my eyes. And insecurity issues run pretty deep in buff/ripped guys.

Hey I'm not mad at your opinon I'm just stating what i'm observing lot of these women are out here with men that are far above their own looksmatch I'm not mad at it, it is what it is, Heck you see a lot of these psudo "Redpill" podcasts now interviewing women of this aesthetic or fatter.

Never understood the point of men interveiwing landwhales 20 years ago no one gave a **** about their opinon a landwhale was happy to land a guy now even landwhales have standards of a woman who is a10. This is how effed up the game has become and in some sense it is men's fault for dropping the bar

 

[GoodMan32]

Hey I'm not mad at your opinon I'm just stating what i'm observing lot of these women are out here with men that are far above their own looksmatch I'm not mad at it, it is what it is, Heck you see a lot of these psudo "Redpill" podcasts now interviewing women of this aesthetic or fatter.

Never understood the point of men interveiwing landwhales 20 years ago no one gave a **** about their opinon a landwhale was happy to land a guy now even landwhales have standards of a woman who is a10. This is how effed up the game has become and in some sense it is men's fault for dropping the bar

It's a catch 22. A lot of men dropped the bar in order to get laid.

Yet as a result of many men dropping the bar, it's become hard to bag a fattie.