I have been dating this girl for the last four months. She is 34, attractive and fun with a good career. She also has this unnerving habit of fishing for compliments. If I haven't seen her for a couple of days, she will say something like "tell me you missed me" or "tell me you have been thinking of me". This past weekend she called and asked if I wanted her to come over Saturday night. I had a lot of business to attend to on the computer so I told her I was going to be really busy and that it was up to her whether or not she came over. I never once said or even implied she wasn't welcome. Well, now she says her feelings were hurt because she felt like she wasn't wanted. According to her, I didn't specifically tell her that I wanted her with me so therefore, she felt neglected. I think she is being childish, not to mention ridiculous. I should mention that everytime we go out, which is most weekends, I always tell her how nice she looks and I often tell her how much I enjoy her company. All this without any encouragement from her, so why does she feel it necessary to put me into a position where I have to compliment her or risk hurting her feelings?