X-Man
Don Juan
Well I love reading the articles on DJing here but never post my own queries, usually because they're seemingly miniscule in comparison to other's. This is different.
The problem I have now is going to be HUGELY important to my future happiness I feel. Let me explain.
One of my best friends from university is an amazingly sexy girl and we hit it off when we met 3 years ago. I didn't ask her out for some crazy reason, probably because she was (is) a serial dater. She's looking for Mr Right and maybe at that time I didnt have the confidence to say 'Its Me'.
She eventually found a guy she loved and I too found girls to occupy myself. Until September I was in a 9 month relationship which ended suddenly. Her boyfriend broke up with her in July. We're both single again - How Fortunate!
We have begun to see a bit more of each other and last week spent a great day having fun together. I took it upon myself to go for it and passionately kissed her goodbye as she left. After 3 years of sexual tension, it was a LOONG time coming!
We have had another night of fun at her friend's birthday just 3 days ago and spent much of it making out for long periods. Obviously we both really like each other! At the end of the night she has had a few drinks and I'm sober (driving). She says to me 'You know this can't lead anywhere right?' meaning that she's not committing to another relationship so soon.
Whilst I only just came out of a relationship myself and would enjoy being single and looking out for just me again, I cant help but feel that her and I would be a perfect couple. She's been not a oneitis but close to it for a long, long time and to nearly have it is really freaking me out.
I have to play it really cool I think, take it very slow but amp up the sexual tension so that I move fully from 'LJBF' zone into 'Suitor' mode.
Have any of you had experience finally getting your unattainable girl?
How did you play it out?
I've had a one night stand since my breakup and have gotten some numbers from other hot girls that I'm tempted to ask for some dates. I know she would be doing similar. Is this a wise decision? In my mind, she's the one I want the most.
Any help is welcome. :nervous:
The problem I have now is going to be HUGELY important to my future happiness I feel. Let me explain.
One of my best friends from university is an amazingly sexy girl and we hit it off when we met 3 years ago. I didn't ask her out for some crazy reason, probably because she was (is) a serial dater. She's looking for Mr Right and maybe at that time I didnt have the confidence to say 'Its Me'.
She eventually found a guy she loved and I too found girls to occupy myself. Until September I was in a 9 month relationship which ended suddenly. Her boyfriend broke up with her in July. We're both single again - How Fortunate!
We have begun to see a bit more of each other and last week spent a great day having fun together. I took it upon myself to go for it and passionately kissed her goodbye as she left. After 3 years of sexual tension, it was a LOONG time coming!
We have had another night of fun at her friend's birthday just 3 days ago and spent much of it making out for long periods. Obviously we both really like each other! At the end of the night she has had a few drinks and I'm sober (driving). She says to me 'You know this can't lead anywhere right?' meaning that she's not committing to another relationship so soon.
Whilst I only just came out of a relationship myself and would enjoy being single and looking out for just me again, I cant help but feel that her and I would be a perfect couple. She's been not a oneitis but close to it for a long, long time and to nearly have it is really freaking me out.
I have to play it really cool I think, take it very slow but amp up the sexual tension so that I move fully from 'LJBF' zone into 'Suitor' mode.
Have any of you had experience finally getting your unattainable girl?
How did you play it out?
I've had a one night stand since my breakup and have gotten some numbers from other hot girls that I'm tempted to ask for some dates. I know she would be doing similar. Is this a wise decision? In my mind, she's the one I want the most.
Any help is welcome. :nervous: