macalahllda's 2 teachings so far:
#1. Stop spinning plates. Emotionally connect to women. (neither has, nor gives any idea on emotional connection, runs away from an any worthwhile discussion)
#2. Don't escalate without explicit consent. (again, nothing practical. Again contrary to anything in set, by anyone that ever even had one girlfriend. More white-knight bleatings).
Safe to say you aren't helping anyone anytime soon, bubula.
Saying your little catchphrases like "platespinners are jerks", or "no means no" might get you a golfclap at the slutwalk, but it should get your arsed banned from here. Not op.