All is vanity! We all believe what we want to believe!
I don't understand why you and everyone here is so against feminism. Actually, I do know, that is because people are afraid of everything they don't understand.
I have a question: What if I
do understand it?
First of all, how many of you here actually dated a feminist? I doubt you went out with even one feminist, Pook. May be you wouldn't write that post if you did.
I have dated several feminists. I do not like them because their personal happiness is dependent on what happens in Washingotn.
They believe themselves to be brilliant, to be progressive. yet they are the fools in life.
Another question for you: Why is it that more and more women are anti-feminists? If you think I am bad on feminism, you should look up Wyldfire's posts.
1) All feminists are different. You are stereotying Pook, big time. Not all feminists are ugly. Regardless of what you read on the Internet, until you go out with a bunch of feminists you will never know. Feminism is just a political movement. Saying all feminists are ugly is just like saying all Democrats are ugly. Makes little sense, doesn't it?
I have gone out with feminists. The reason why I did was because they were pretty and I was surprised to see this feminism in them. I've found that women who don't work through college usually tend to fall prey more to the political rhetoric.
I've found feminists to be ugly because they
refuse to embrace femininity. There is no such thing as a feminine feminist.
Feminism is a beautiful thing... as long as you walk
behind it!
2) Some feminists ask men out. I hear men complaining all the time that women never ask them out. Well some feminists do put their ego on the line and get rejected just like men do. Does anyone here have something against women asking men out? Notice I am saying "some" because all feminists are different.
You don't get it. Men who complain about female priveledge are complaining about
their duties to be a man. It has nothing to do with women actually asking you out.
And if they DO, it is often a sign of
disinterest. This was one of Anti-Dump's biggest teachings. A woman who just gives you her phone number, or asks you out, all without YOU doing anything is a sign of non-interest. The guy is likely to be abused in some way (example: she could be trying to get her ex jealous, etc.). (or she could be a feminist, which is reason enough not to date her)
In fact, one time I was asked out was a feminist asking me out. But as I put her under the spell of Pook, she reverted straight back to her girlish ways. She was feminist because she was single. Once she lost the singleness, she lost the feminism.
All feminists are not different. Feminists are in denial about human nature. They believe human dynamics can be transformed through the legislative palace. They are wrong BIG TIME.
3) Some feminists pay for themselves on dates. This is one of the important aspects of feminism - being independent. Isn't this what every man wants? I wish all women paid for themselves on dates, and I will support any movement that tells women to pay for themselves. If a feminist doesn't pay for herself on a date, she is a hypocrite. Call her on it.
Again, that one feminist I dated started paying her way but NATURE TAKES OVER. She started acting as she should, like a female. She paid for what she could, but she gladly let me 'date' her. Why?
Because she felt feminine in doing this.
Feminism and a woman being independent are completely different. Independent women existed since the dawn of time. Feminism is just bad use of free-time.
4) Some feminists buy porn. Yes, regular hardcore, man on woman porn. Has anyone here ever watched porn with a feminist? Quite an experience, I recommend it. Yes, some feminists are against porn. Porn is actually causing a big divide in the feminism movement.
Feminism has traditionally saw porn as men degrading women. But feminism forgets that men are activated by the eye. There is a lot of gay porn out there which contradicts feminists thinking that porn is 'out to degrade women'.
Usually, the women that watch porn enjoy doing so pretty much only with the guy sitting beside her. "Why is that, Pook?" For the same reason why girls will go to events with you that they don't even care about. They think it is cute seeing the reaction in you. When you are happy, they get happy. They enjoy that.
5) Some feminists love men. They are not all man-hating lesbians. Feminism is not anti-men movement, it is an independence movement. Some feminists are also against "nice guyism" and "The Rules". And so am I.
This is why you ought to READ my posts before posting on what you THINK is said.
I said: "Feminism is not declaring war on masculinity but on femininity! Feminism is a political Tower of Babylon to escape the truth of Human Nature." I even put that in bold yet you missed it.
The flaw of feminism is thinking that femininity and dependency are one of the same. They are not. A woman can be feminine and independent. My own mother was so fierce that she got the attention of congressmen. Yet, she had more power in her femininity of her grace and motherliness.
Femininity is not some female play-thing. Feminists think it is.
I used to have "Nice Guyius Patheticus" for a long time. But I have never blamed the feminists, media or my parents as so many here do, including you Pook. Do you know who I blamed? Myself.
Geez! I don't mind replying when people actually read what I wrote. But you aren't reading what I've written.
I blame feminism on nothing to do with men's problems. I blame feminism on warring on feminity.
I am sick and tired of fat chicks. It only seems to be in America and Britain. Go to Spain or Japan and the chicks are not fat. The living standards are the same. The only difference it seems is that those two countries are much more feminist oriented.
Practically everything I've written on this forum has always focusing on YOURSELF and dealing with YOURSELF. The blame for the lack of manhood I've always said is the issue of males not wearing the crown of masculinity their sex is heir to.
But I write one article on feminism and you blow up. You complain that I have 'feminism' wrong, then you misrepresent what I said.
BTW, you didn't write a book called, "Refusing to be Man" did you? Just wondering...
The reason why you agree with feminism is because it shares your politics. You live in a political bubble, looking at life in view of politics.
I was like that once. Then I grew up. Life does not revolve around Washington.
This is why I condemn feminism. I bet all your feminist pals will agree with Rousseau (which is why I quoted him). The idea that human nature can be changed through legislative fiat is the most destructive, murderous, and evil things ever to come into this world. I place the horrors of the twentieth century on this concept. I do not view Humans as Vausseven viewed his automaton. I do not view Humanity as some organic garden. Where a garderner has his knives, spikes, and clippers to reshape the garden, so too do these Rousseau followers (most politicians) have laws, taxations, and regulations to reshape Humanity.
The idea and its fruit are abhorrent. Feminism is not new or progressive, it is litereally ten centuries behind the times. It belongs in the Old World thought. Just as one thought Humanity would be remorphed by a King or grand dictator, so do these feminists believe it will be so by the legislative palace.
There is nothing new in feminism.
For all you politically charged individuals: Realize that the most important aspect of being free and happy is not to let anything let you feel unfree or unhappy.
Whenever you feel joy, you should add that to your victory list of accomplishments.
