I came across a thread in the Archives in which people discussed their biggest AFC move. After reading a few of those tales, I felt compelled to share in that thread what I still think is my biggest AFC move of all time, which took place when I was a high school senior way back in 1990.
The girl in that situation was a mere 14 years old at the time (I was then 17), and the more I recalled the events of that massive AFC disaster while detailing my post, the more I wondered whether females are mostly biologically hardwired to sense AFC behavior and also get turned off by it, or if their noticing and negatively responding to AFC behavior is a largely a result of social conditioning. After all, we've all read about how social conditioning has played a big role in AFC behavior in men. But in the case of the girl I discussed, just how much could a girl have learned about male AFC traits from others by such a young age?
Even though the question was inspired by a long-gone high school story from 21 years ago, I thought I'd present it to the Mature Man forum for some wise insight. Now that I'm in my late '30s and have been aware about AFCdom for a number of years, I sometimes tend to reflect (but not dwell) on past AFCdom, and wonder if this particular high school event was a "defining" moment for me as an AFC. Even though I am very happy with my wife and how my life is now, I sometimes wonder if my late teens and all of my 20s would've turned out different from how they actually turned out had i just done a few things differently in h.s.
The girl in that situation was a mere 14 years old at the time (I was then 17), and the more I recalled the events of that massive AFC disaster while detailing my post, the more I wondered whether females are mostly biologically hardwired to sense AFC behavior and also get turned off by it, or if their noticing and negatively responding to AFC behavior is a largely a result of social conditioning. After all, we've all read about how social conditioning has played a big role in AFC behavior in men. But in the case of the girl I discussed, just how much could a girl have learned about male AFC traits from others by such a young age?
Even though the question was inspired by a long-gone high school story from 21 years ago, I thought I'd present it to the Mature Man forum for some wise insight. Now that I'm in my late '30s and have been aware about AFCdom for a number of years, I sometimes tend to reflect (but not dwell) on past AFCdom, and wonder if this particular high school event was a "defining" moment for me as an AFC. Even though I am very happy with my wife and how my life is now, I sometimes wonder if my late teens and all of my 20s would've turned out different from how they actually turned out had i just done a few things differently in h.s.
