Female matchmaker's rant @ females about their unrealistic standards

[Dash Riprock]

I mean we see it around here too in the reverse to be fair.

Every dude here expects to pair off with a HB9 who has only slept with 5 men or less, is younger than 25, comes from a family without any divorce, and is sweet and compliant no matter how little in return the guy has to offer.

So yeah. People need to get a grip. Seriously.

The men here who are ACTUALLY dating the HB9s? They are not experiencing any issue with their standards at all. I don't experience issues with my standards either. People who have high standards who have lots to offer are not suffering from lack of choices. Quite the opposite.

Any true DJ knows HB9's make for the worst LTRs and wives, hands down. MANY reasons. The "men" (most SS posters and users) drool over HB9's and will do anything for their attention. The odds of finding a HB9 that does not have SUBSTANTIAL princess, brat, or N/BPD issues would be like finding Bigfoot and teaching him to waltz and mix a martini. Stick with HB7's for any sort of lasting relationship if that's what you want. If it's all about games and PUA and all that BS, go for the hot ones of which 99% are REALLY messed up and uber-entitled. I base this on decades of dating experience. Only it's even more amplified now.

 

[Fruitbat]

Any true DJ knows HB9's make for the worst LTRs and wives, hands down. MANY reasons. The "men" (most SS posters and users) drool over HB9's and will do anything for their attention. The odds of finding a HB9 that does not have SUBSTANTIAL princess, brat, or N/BPD issues would be like finding Bigfoot and teaching him to waltz and mix a martini. Stick with HB7's for any sort of lasting relationship if that's what you want. If it's all about games and PUA and all that BS, go for the hot ones of which 99% are REALLY messed up and uber-entitled. I base this on decades of dating experience. Only it's even more amplified now.

Strong agree. The difference between a 7 and a 9 is a lifelong obsession with her appearance.

Much of PUA is dealing with these girls, who truly respond to being treated like shyt.

The ideal woman is one who was a 5 in her teens, blossoming into a 7 in adulthood.

As mark from Peep Show said "She has that magical combo of beauty and low self-esteem"

 

[guru1000]

Any true DJ knows HB9's make for the worst LTRs and wives, hands down. MANY reasons. The "men" (most SS posters and users) drool over HB9's and will do anything for their attention. The odds of finding a HB9 that does not have SUBSTANTIAL princess, brat, or N/BPD issues would be like finding Bigfoot and teaching him to waltz and mix a martini. Stick with HB7's for any sort of lasting relationship if that's what you want. If it's all about games and PUA and all that BS, go for the hot ones of which 99% are REALLY messed up and uber-entitled. I base this on decades of dating experience. Only it's even more amplified now.

Seems like you're looking for the happily-ever-after Disney movie with the 7s. Lock them down and LTR down as they are safer. Need to wake up from that fantasy pal.

In the meantime, I'll stick with the overtly fvcked up, emotionally-sick, no-strings-attached, transient (until I kick them to the curb) 9s--whom are a lot more fun.

 

[Reykhel]

@deesade what would you say to a meet up at christmas? Strong possibility I'll be in blighty

 

[Fruitbat]

The difference is that game is a value add. Provisioning is a value add too.

So a guy who is a 6, with great game can get 8's with scant commitment, or thoughts to relationship compatibility. Can also get 8's with provisioning too (whilst having terrible game, ask me how I know).

Don't see this as any different than a male 4 trying to get a female 6. Suddenly that 6 is acting the same way you are accusing 8+'s, I reckon.

It's simply a question of value. And I know a recent theme is about just simply being higher value than a woman in order to not even have to game. But I would question the point of that (as well as the validity of game always being present, but I do that probably enough already)

Recent I was going out with an 8. Had to "treat her like sh*t" occasionally, as you might think of it. Used disqualification a few times early (which she responded great to, which I found disappointing), and would use one of her friends to make her jealous (whom she then took a disliking to, and now has fallen out with. Hilarious how women are with their friends sometimes).

Would have been an easier time for sure, if I was just a male 10. But then wouldn't I be slumming it with an 8 to begin with? Where's the challenge in that?

Isn't the female 8 outperforming the male 10? She's hunted him, and not the other way around.

What do you even need a forum for if punching below your weight is your thing? Not sure of the point.

I don't mean punching below weight looks wise. I punch well above my weight given I am flabby and not partularly attractive.

I mean I don't want a woman with equivilant life skills and career. That is what I trade for a young pretty girl.

In return I get actual devotion and respect whereas all the guys I know who pick "similars" ALWAYS lose in the end. Women are better at winning that long term battle.

I know some 8-9 guys with 8-9 women (including career etc) and all of the women have become bytchy, domineering feminists in their 30s. Wearing the trousers.

What I am saying is trading a higher value person for a woman without much more than a pvssy, can be a good thing IF she understands your value. I don't want a woman equal in career and life skills. She will always win in the end and will eventually have no use for me.

With a girl with less in her locker, I will always be useful and depended upon, so when children come, the decision to kick me out is a more difficult one. She won't be coping on her own.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Seems like you're looking for the happily-ever-after Disney movie with the 7s. Lock them down and LTR down as they are safer. Need to wake up from that fantasy pal.

In the meantime, I'll stick with the overtly fvcked up, emotionally-sick, no-strings-attached, transient (until I kick them to the curb) 9s--whom are a lot more fun.

Who the f*uck said anything about a Disney movie. Read my post again. I said IF you're actually looking for a LTR, HB9's are the WORST. Most on this site with any game will agree. Have fun in FantasyLand. I love how you make up all this sh*it about kicking them to the curb yet you're on SS criticizing other's posts because you have "so many" HB9's at your disposal <<big laugh>>. Small thinking--with both heads. You're a slave to the p*ussy, bud. Too bad. Whatever...

People who generally talk a big game have no game.

 

[guru1000]

Have fun in FantasyLand. People who generally talk a big game have no game.

Stop it champ. You're hurting my feelings

 

[Reykhel]

I'd give you my number, but how did that go last time, mischief maker?

hahahahahahah that's not entirely true soft lad. You gave out your number........

It's possible that I'll be in Birmingham which is not a million miles from you. I'll show you how an entitled scumbag games.....
...anyway, that will be Christmas, the open season........

Could be interesting.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

but the video is just a ploy for women to lower their standards so she can get more business

She's having trouble marketing her product and blaming the market instead of her product.

Hmm...that seems kind of familiar....

 

[guru1000]

I'd give you my number, but how did that go last time, mischief maker?

Come on, I gave your number to one of my plates at the time, who liked your tattoo, and wanted to Chad you up

 

[Reykhel]

Come on, I gave your number to one of my plates at the time, who liked your tattoo, and wanted to Chad you up

He still blames me for the crank calls he got on his phone.....

Ah the funny old days when @deesade accused @Reykhel for being a transvestite or something and calling him...

We all have our moments. @deesade is out there doing it and that's a fact. The lad knows his stuff. and can banter. for that alone I'd have a beer with him.

 

[Reykhel]

I'm up for it. Would be a laugh.

I'll know in november. I'll invite you. Prepare for banter though.

You don't want to know some of the daft stuff that I was getting.

Yes I do. Who instigated it. Prepare for banter.

Quite funny, really.

I know

 

[guru1000]

He still blames me for the crank calls he got on his phone.....

Ah the funny old days when @deesade accused @Reykhel for being a transvestite or something and calling him...

We all have our moments. @deesade is out there doing it and that's a fact. The lad knows his stuff. and can banter. for that alone I'd have a beer with him.

I remember Reykhel from back in the day with the "Tension" thread, Goodfellas movie:

"You think I'm funny. I'm here to amuse you like a clown. What the fvck is so funny about me"

 

[Reykhel]

I remember Reykhel from back in the day with the "Tension" thread, Goodfellas movie:

"You think I'm funny. I'm here to amuse you like a clown. What the fvck is so funny about me"

You think I'm a clown, biatch? I make you laugh fool?

We'll see who's funny....

You cause me anxiety friend? I'LL CRUSH YOU...

 

[Reykhel]

fooking goodfella

 

[El Payaso]

Can someone post what she's talking about? I'm not in a good place to watch videos.

 

[sosousage]

I think female standards are double edged swords. They would spend their 20s looking for perfect partner that they wake up 10-20 years later without a exclusive man. men in the same time spend their 20s frustrated by women requirements, so they spend them on self-improvement.

now that 30-40yo woman tries to tame some guy but he became very successful/popular/smart and doesnt need to go exclusive. options are all around him.

he does just like woman did in 20s, but the thing is, the only woman power was her beauty that she got because she was lucky, while man power comes from the fact that he worked his ass hard. now woman beauty is gone because of age, and man will try to catch up the pleasure he missed when he seeked for self-improvement

basically man role is fulfilled - he can now sleep with as many females as he can (thats natural attitude for men)

While woman subconciously knows that she needs kids, and someone in good money-situation, to make sure kid will have stable financially life.

 

[Solomon]

Any true DJ knows HB9's make for the worst LTRs and wives, hands down. MANY reasons. The "men" (most SS posters and users) drool over HB9's and will do anything for their attention. The odds of finding a HB9 that does not have SUBSTANTIAL princess, brat, or N/BPD issues would be like finding Bigfoot and teaching him to waltz and mix a martini. Stick with HB7's for any sort of lasting relationship if that's what you want. If it's all about games and PUA and all that BS, go for the hot ones of which 99% are REALLY messed up and uber-entitled. I base this on decades of dating experience. Only it's even more amplified now.

Most guys here overrate women, HB9's are legit models/actress etc

No the "8" that is working at Hooters

 

[AJ84]

both men and women have unrealistic expectations, unless you're bisexual or a shapeshifter there's no real way to tell whether it's more common in men or in women but the fact of the matter is that there are a whole lot of idiot men who are fat losers that want supermodels, and a whole lot of idiot women that are annoying and ugly but wonder why they can't get a man

one thing that I'm pretty sure is unique to women though, is the women that want a man who likes them for more than XYZ (usually "my body" or "my looks" or "sex") despite not offering anything else. I've never seen a rich guy, who had nothing but money complain about that sort of thing (for example), most rich guys would either be happy to get girls using their strengths or screen out gold diggers by only getting girls who think they're good looking but poor

as far as I can tell it's only women who will be nothing but a pretty face and a warm hole but wonder why men don't like them for who they are

When the message is sent that that is all that is of value (pretty face, warm hole) what do you except?
Look at Instagram as an example: a year or so ago there was a teenage girl who won some major academics award and volunteered her time in a NICU in the US and had an Instagram account with less than 5k followers. Compare to some out of control teenager who threatened to beat up Dr. Phil's audience and posts half naked pics of herself on her Instagram account. Millions of followers and appears in music videos.

And it's not entirely men who place all the value in pretty faces, Kyle Jenner, who constantly posts butt shots and bJ lips has a lot of female followers, as do models and actresses who post bikini shots and sexually suggestive selfies.

Society encourages attractive women to be superficial and vain through social media.

As long as society rewards vapid vanity as a value, there will be a large number of pretty women who feel entitled and a smaller number of pretty women with nice personalities who have more to offer than their pretty faces.

 

[Solomon]

I am such a 1% man



Agreed but she likely will get more attention from guys.... like the comments on the Youtube video... Women are emotionals and don't want to be ''Accountable''.... Notice all the posts are guys agreeing and some women disagreeing.

So I bet, she will get ALOT OF GUYS client.

Sneaky....

Anyway... The Woman dating coach said she would never date a pastor, rural guy etc.... indeed she married him

Action over words

Great video, a lot of truth, I see it alot with professional urban women... who want to be the man and the princess at the same time

She married him once she got older

when she was younger she was riding the **** carouel