Basically, I'm in an LTR with a great girl and I don't want to lose her.
Now the thing is that my best friend is also a girl. I've known her for 15+ years and we're like kids together. Would you believe we're both in our 30s and we can spend hours together playing Lego!! We had so much fun building Star Wars battleships in lego and destroying them, etc. We also play the heck out of our Wii U at each other's houses and we binge watch anime and we can talk for hours and hours about Dragon Ball
Anyway a few years ago (before I met my gf), me and that female friend had sex. There had never really been anything sexual between us before then but it just sort of happened, we were playing a game and for fun we looked up cartoon porn of that game's characters and I guess it was late we just ended up feeling like it. We had sex 2 more times after this and then we just kept our friendship going as if nothing had happened and we went back to playing legos and (believe it or not) Gi-Joes and watching anime and Sci-Fi movies.
We never had any discussion about the few times we had sex, we basically just pretend it didn't happen and we never touched each other at all since then. That's fine by me, I just enjoy the friendship she's the only person with whom I can be a child again and I miss this she's the kind of friend I had when I was a kid and you just don't have friends like that in adulthood anymore sadly.
Anyway so since I've met my gf I've kept hanging out with my friend and my gf was fine with it but sometimes I felt she thought me and the friend were a bit too close for comfort - she didn't say it directly but I kind of felt it
Now that my gf has moved in with me, I'm wondering what I should do... I like that friend a lot, but I'm starting to wonder if it's realistic to keep both the friend and the girlfriend at this point but ideally they both represent something for me that I really enjoy
My friend doesn't have a boyfriend btw, she had a few over the past few years but nothing really serious.
Now the thing is that my best friend is also a girl. I've known her for 15+ years and we're like kids together. Would you believe we're both in our 30s and we can spend hours together playing Lego!! We had so much fun building Star Wars battleships in lego and destroying them, etc. We also play the heck out of our Wii U at each other's houses and we binge watch anime and we can talk for hours and hours about Dragon Ball
Anyway a few years ago (before I met my gf), me and that female friend had sex. There had never really been anything sexual between us before then but it just sort of happened, we were playing a game and for fun we looked up cartoon porn of that game's characters and I guess it was late we just ended up feeling like it. We had sex 2 more times after this and then we just kept our friendship going as if nothing had happened and we went back to playing legos and (believe it or not) Gi-Joes and watching anime and Sci-Fi movies.
We never had any discussion about the few times we had sex, we basically just pretend it didn't happen and we never touched each other at all since then. That's fine by me, I just enjoy the friendship she's the only person with whom I can be a child again and I miss this she's the kind of friend I had when I was a kid and you just don't have friends like that in adulthood anymore sadly.
Anyway so since I've met my gf I've kept hanging out with my friend and my gf was fine with it but sometimes I felt she thought me and the friend were a bit too close for comfort - she didn't say it directly but I kind of felt it
Now that my gf has moved in with me, I'm wondering what I should do... I like that friend a lot, but I'm starting to wonder if it's realistic to keep both the friend and the girlfriend at this point but ideally they both represent something for me that I really enjoy
My friend doesn't have a boyfriend btw, she had a few over the past few years but nothing really serious.
