fellow djs I need some insight pls...

[katzorange]

I ddnt email hert **** after standing me up, she the one that emailed me first thing in the morniing the next day, pllus we work together, never did once I set her a mmsg on her cell, just thought it would be polite, but u guys said otherwise, so I won't emaiul her anymore

 

[slaog]

I ddnt email hert **** after standing me up, she the one that emailed me first thing in the morniing the next day, pllus we work together, never did once I set her a mmsg on her cell, just thought it would be polite, but u guys said otherwise, so I won't emaiul her anymore

It depends on the situation. Early in relationships its best not to appear too keen for obvious reasons. If women see that you're NOT contacting them regulary then it tell them you have other things on your mind and they're not the center of your world. This is attractive for women.

squirrels: i saw one of ur earlier post abt calling out her crap. how do u do that? by doing a no-contact?

sorry katzorange, pls let me borrow ur thread.

I presume you just tell her you're not interested in her anymore when you see her. Don't be angry about it because it shows that you're hurt by "loosing" her. If you're calm and friendly saying it it'll have bigger impact.

 

[katzorange]

thanks guys for the tips, some are harsh but its what i definitely need...

I think I have developed oneitis, oh my god...lol

 

[jophil28]

Best not to say anything at all. Trust me.....by your walking away she will know you are on to her or suspect there is someone else in your life now.

Do not EVER bother to tell a woman that you are "on to her" or anything of that level. What is the point? Do you really think she will change?

All it does is display your weakness......the weakness of caring more than she does.....DLV. It makes you even LESS attractive. Move on with your own life and improve yourself, that is what an alpha would do. You make her question her own worthiness when you walk away in such a manner. And this is EXACTLY what she needs to be doing, questioning herself.

Agreed..

The way to deliver the message with the most impact to a woman who has disrespected you is to coldly and SILENTLY withdraw what she values most - your affection and attention.
Make no mistake, this is the sharpest arrow that you could fire.