Feeling Disgusted with Women

[Borknagar]

Damn dude you were right, that's ****ed up. Did you get along with her at work? If so she could have at least been chill

 

[Solomon]

Damn dude you were right, that's ****ed up. Did you get along with her at work? If so she could have at least been chill

Never talk to her @ work she just started and is on a different client then I am, I'm pretty sure I will run into her again (I already seen her in the break room)and when I do not a single fucc will be giving that day (nor ever)

 

[Borknagar]

Pretty much man, she's just another slore!

 

[perseverance]

Most women and men are sl*ts I don't know why society tries to cover it up. Fortunately for me I am not one of these people, but they are everywhere, it's like a cancer in many respects. It just spreads and keeps on spreading, everywhere. It isn't nice, but that's just where the Western World is at the moment.

 

[Strelok]

Went on a double date last night it was blind, girl shows up an hour late come to find out it was a co-worker of mine. The bytch then has the audacity to go pick up another guy, needless to say I left soon there after

my buddy who set this up wasn't happy with his girl and her for obvious reasons.

What has the world come to when women are now walking out on dates to grab their orbiters/FB to save them?

and those same hors (their not women) have the audacity to wonder why their single, when they pull stunts like that

****em!

Seriously this is beyond any tolerable limit, sometime my mouth remain open when I read posts from the american users of this board.

Girls are no angels everywhere but usually they lie or try to save face instead of doing this crap so openly.

 

[HalfAddict]

Strelok why do you think so many of us American men are disgusted by American women?

 

[btownbuck2012]

Went on a double date last night it was blind, girl shows up an hour late come to find out it was a co-worker of mine. The bytch then has the audacity to go pick up another guy, needless to say I left soon there after

my buddy who set this up wasn't happy with his girl and her for obvious reasons.

What has the world come to when women are now walking out on dates to grab their orbiters/FB to save them?

and those same hors (their not women) have the audacity to wonder why their single, when they pull stunts like that

****em!

Exactly.

I had a similar experience my freshman year of college. My friend and I had met two girls on campus over the weekend and followed up by inviting them to come play some pool with us at the student union.

Anyways we meet up with them and are walking towards the union when all of the sudden they see some guy they know sitting on a bench. They're like "MIKE!", or whatever the fvck his name was and proceeded to talk to him for 5-10 minutes, with their backs totally turned towards my friend and i like we weren't even there, until i finally had to move in awkwardly close as if to say OK LET'S GO NOW.

The lack of respect is un-motherfvcking-believable if you ask me. For the longest time I thought it was some flaw with me BUT I’ve come to realize it's not. I'm a good looking dude, i workout, eat right, and am above average with my social skills.

I'm not sure where this stuck up, snobby, entitlement bullsh!t started but I’m damn near sick of it.

 

[backbreaker]

here is my issue though

there is not one woman i know, rather it's a friend of mine, the chick at the gym, one of my wife's friends, whatever.. that if somehow i went on a blind date with hem,k they would up and leave. they might not necessarily want to screw me (i don't know i don't ask) but i'm not repulsive to the point they just up and leave. i can pretty much state this for a fact. i am enjoyable enough to be around for the very least them to wait the date off.


I';m sorry,, if a woman, up and leaves in the middle of a date... while it's not the kosher thing to do, you have to ask yourself what it is about me, that made her want to get up and leave in the first place.


even better, if this is a reasonable attractive coworker, why has this woman not shown any interest in the least bit up to now? she's obviously single so you can't go that route. so a single woman that is reasonable attractive, tat sees you every day, hasn't at the very least, inquired on your availability, hasn't talked to you, hasn't flirted with you, nada, and you get pissy because she gets up and leaves on a date.

maybe, you just suck. and i don't mean that in a harsh trying to bust your balls way. But i refuse to sit here and blame women for all of life's problems. sometimes women just don't find you attractive. who the fvck cares what date protocol she follows it's not like the difference between you getting laid or not was her staying on the date. she obviously wasn't feelin it.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I used to have this mentality back when I was a nice guy. I was the type that wouldn't even curse around women because I thought I would be corrupting them. It took me a long time to realize women are already corrupted by the time they are in high school. It took me a long time to realize they are not worth saving because they don't want to be saved, they want to be banged and have fun. The only woman i'll be protecting would be a future wife (or wives)

Alex does have a good point when he says ALL GIRLS ARE NOT COMPLETE *****S.

just most of the...8 out of 10 maybe??

It all depends on the lifestyle of the girl and venue you would see her in. If you're going for girls in clubs and bars.. Yeah probably 8 or 9 out of 10 are wh0res just looking for someone to fvck for a week. If you're down to fvck random chicks, that's cool.

Personally, I think staying clean from diseases is much more appealing than getting laid. Maybe I'll use a chick like this for a *******, but that's about it.

I feel like most dudes on this site just assume a girl is a wh0re when they fail to demonstrate that they have other options in life, therefore they're willing to build their schedule around the girl (I myself have fallen victim to this practice many times). This doesn't really mean other girls chasing them (although that is good too), it can be a variety of things such as your work life, school life, artistry/musicianship, traveling, social circle, any particular hobby really.

And all this talk about girls going cold on you.. There's a bunch of reasons they might be this way. WHO FVCKING CARES. Don't next them, don't issue an ultimatum, don't get all whiny on them.. Just give them time. If they really give a sh1t, they'll come back to you. If you and another girl had the mutual respect to engage in more than 3 dates, chances are she's probably not out "fvcking five other dudes".. It's probably something else. I don't know why anyone would bother to date a typical bar/club BPD mess past the first date. If you want sex that bad, just masturbate so you don't have to waste money on the wh0re.

 

[youngswagger09]

Alex right on man I enjoyed what you just posted brother. You just help me out with my sitution thx

 

[Mike32ct]

Over 95% of the time, you will never know WHY she rejected you anyway. It is probably is true that most of it is due to lack of attraction. But why she isn't attracted could be due to many, many things. It could be your height, age, race, build, your face, your skin, your hair, your job, your personality, your vibe/aura, your social status, your clothes, your friends, your car, etc.

You will drive yourself absolutely crazy trying to figure out WHY she rejected you. Even if you confronted her about it, it's VERY doubtful that she'd give you an honest answer.

I used to replay entire dates in my head and even discuss it with male friends and even (gasp) female friends. I had to know WHY these chicks walked out on me, left with another guy, or just never could be reached again. After about six years of that sh*t, did I EVER reach an asnwer? No, not at all. I was just as confused as when I started. I stopped trying to figure it out.

These days, I often laugh about how quickly I can delete THEIR number once they flake. This is why I did the thread about the "I don't give a F what women think" frame to get some input. It's essential for the game today.

As always, do what you reasonably can to improve yourself, and F what these flakey broads think or do. Trying to figure out WHY she rejected you is mental masturbation and terrible waste of time. You could everything exactly the same and b*ng the next girl you go out with.

 

[Strelok]

Over 95% of the time, you will never know WHY she rejected you anyway. It is probably is true that most of it is due to lack of attraction. But why she isn't attracted could be due to many, many things. It could be your height, age, race, build, your face, your skin, your hair, your job, your personality, your vibe/aura, your social status, your clothes, your friends, your car, etc.

You will drive yourself absolutely crazy trying to figure out WHY she rejected you. Even if you confronted her about it, it's VERY doubtful that she'd give you an honest answer.

I used to replay entire dates in my head and even discuss it with male friends and even (gasp) female friends. I had to know WHY these chicks walked out on me, left with another guy, or just never could be reached again. After about six years of that sh*t, did I EVER reach an asnwer? No, not at all. I was just as confused as when I started. I stopped trying to figure it out.

These days, I often laugh about how quickly I can delete THEIR number once they flake. This is why I did the thread about the "I don't give a F what women think" frame to get some input. It's essential for the game today.

As always, do what you reasonably can to improve yourself, and F what these flakey broads think or do. Trying to figure out WHY she rejected you is mental masturbation and terrible waste of time. You could everything exactly the same and b*ng the next girl you go out with.

The bolded part is probably the mind frame that can makes the difference in your live and everybody should really think about adopting it.

For the rest, Mike what you say makes sense but the problem here is not being less than what it needs to get that girl, the point is that the once known shared concept of respect of others is going down the toilet with young women leading the crow.

Would you attend a double date and leave so openly with not even creating a fake reason to leave? would you hurt to heavily an other human in his self confidence and even reputation for guilts that are not his?
The average girl is a pro ball buster when it comes of human rights,women rights, animal rights and environment rights but when it comes of dont being a cvnt to an average men all those things disappear, this is the point.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Backbreaker,

Your posts always irritate me for some reason. This post was no different. I guess manners or basic courtesy don't mean much to you. You go on a blind date, the girl doesn't like you so she should just feel free to up and leave whenever she feels like it?

It's awful behaviour, all the more so because this girl was a colleague of his.

I've had a similar experience. We went out as a group at work one time. There were four guys and two girls in the group. I had arranged to have our names put on the guestlist at a London club, but the club has a rule that guys can only go in if they have girls with them. Anyway when we got near the club the girls just walked off without us and went into the club. Of course that meant we couldn't get in.

When I called out one of the girls (some cvnt I worked with) she acted outraged that I had dared to question her behaviour!

Sometimes, Backbreaker women are just cvnts. Sure they may have walked off because you failed to make their gina tingle, but that doesn't excuse or justify their behaviour. It only explains it.

 

[Mike32ct]

I know what you mean and fully agree with your post. I've never walked out on a date. I've done blind dates and online dates where the girl ended up being very fat and nasty looking. But I always treated them with respect and chatted with them for an hour or so. I may not have asked them out again, but I NEVER disrespected them on the date.

The bolded part is probably the mind frame that can makes the difference in your live and everybody should really think about adopting it.

For the rest, Mike what you say makes sense but the problem here is not being less than what it needs to get that girl, the point is that the once known shared concept of respect of others is going down the toilet with young women leading the crow.

Would you attend a double date and leave so openly with not even creating a fake reason to leave? would you hurt to heavily an other human in his self confidence and even reputation for guilts that are not his?
The average girl is a pro ball buster when it comes of human rights,women rights, animal rights and environment rights but when it comes of dont being a cvnt to an average men all those things disappear, this is the point.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Mike,

Exactly - it's just about behaving decently.

The being on time thing really bugs me too. So many dates I've been on recently (well not that recently I kind of stopped going on dates), the girl has been up to an hour late. It's unbelievable. You could say it's a sign of low interest on her part. Well fine, but in that case she just shouldn't agree to go on the date! Keeping someone waiting for an hour is bull****.

My new rule is I'll wait 15 minutes and then I'm leaving.

 

[perseverance]

Mike,

Exactly - it's just about behaving decently.

The being on time thing really bugs me too. So many dates I've been on recently (well not that recently I kind of stopped going on dates), the girl has been up to an hour late. It's unbelievable. You could say it's a sign of low interest on her part. Well fine, but in that case she just shouldn't agree to go on the date! Keeping someone waiting for an hour is bull****.

My new rule is I'll wait 15 minutes and then I'm leaving.

I went on a date a few months ago where the girl didn't turn up on time. I waited around ten minutes. I saw an old work mate passing through town, so we went for drinks and I ended up getting smashed and when I went home to sleep it off and when I woke up the next day I had a text saying "Thanks for standing me up". I couldn't care less about her moaning, she was late.

Out of interest why did you wait for an hour? You must have been bored?

 

[Yo'Mama]

Yeah really bored.

I agree, it's stupid waiting for an hour. That was a bit much but I would say generally when I've been on dates girls have been late from 10 mins upwards, with an hour being the worst.

Unbelievably many times they haven't even been that apologetic. I'm always on time. I can't not be on time. I know that's seen as 'AFC' here and maybe it is but it's just the way I am. Not just with girls but with anything. I wouldn't keep a friend waiting more than a few minutes. I normally arrive early just so I'm not late.

But, yeah it makes me sick that these girls can act like this. One time a girl was 45 mins late. I didn't say anything when she turned up. But then later in the evening I went to the bathroom and was sending a text on the way back. She got really angry that I was texting, so I said to her 'Yeah but come on you were 45 mins late!'. Know what she said, 'That's ok. I'm a GIRL'. Lol, what can you do?

 

[perseverance]

Yeah really bored.

I agree, it's stupid waiting for an hour. That was a bit much but I would say generally when I've been on dates girls have been late from 10 mins upwards, with an hour being the worst.

Unbelievably many times they haven't even been that apologetic. I'm always on time. I can't not be on time. I know that's seen as 'AFC' here and maybe it is but it's just the way I am. Not just with girls but with anything. I wouldn't keep a friend waiting more than a few minutes. I normally arrive early just so I'm not late.

But, yeah it makes me sick that these girls can act like this. One time a girl was 45 mins late. I didn't say anything when she turned up. But then later in the evening I went to the bathroom and was sending a text on the way back. She got really angry that I was texting, so I said to her 'Yeah but come on you were 45 mins late!'. Know what she said, 'That's ok. I'm a GIRL'. Lol, what can you do?

I'm like you, I am always early. If I am due to meet someone at 12:30pm then I'll arrive about 12:20pm. I am like that with everything, being punctual is essential in life. I cannot stand people who are late. I am also impatient, so I am only prepared a maximum of 15-20 minutes for someone to turn up before I'll walk off and go window shopping or I'll grab a coffee and people watch.

I haven't had too many problems on dates with women. Most are only a few minutes late and some have even text me or called me and told me that they were running late and apologised for it.

Where I usually have problems is that a majority of people can't leave their mobiles alone for more than five minutes. If I am with a girl and she can't leave her phone alone that really winds me up. Atom Smasher had a brilliant tip to deal with it, but usually I take that as a sign of a lack of interest on her part and I probably won't bother arranging a second date with the girl.

Girls are allowed to get away with disrespectful behaviour because we men have allowed it for too long, it's time that we started behaving like men and not taking sh*t from a woman just because she has a vagina.

 

[Yo'Mama]

I couldn't agree more. I'm not going to start turning up really late myself because it just isn't me and I don't want to change that. But if they're more than 10-15 minutes late without a damn good excuse then I'm out of there.

 

[Solomon]

Exactly.

I had a similar experience my freshman year of college. My friend and I had met two girls on campus over the weekend and followed up by inviting them to come play some pool with us at the student union.

Anyways we meet up with them and are walking towards the union when all of the sudden they see some guy they know sitting on a bench. They're like "MIKE!", or whatever the fvck his name was and proceeded to talk to him for 5-10 minutes, with their backs totally turned towards my friend and i like we weren't even there, until i finally had to move in awkwardly close as if to say OK LET'S GO NOW.

The lack of respect is un-motherfvcking-believable if you ask me. For the longest time I thought it was some flaw with me BUT I’ve come to realize it's not. I'm a good looking dude, i workout, eat right, and am above average with my social skills.

I'm not sure where this stuck up, snobby, entitlement bullsh!t started but I’m damn near sick of it.

@Buck--the entitlement with american women is beyond horrid, its darn awful. It's very bad, I see 5's @ my work who think their 11's and their suckers who enable them!

of course guys like BB would want you to think something is wrong with you when the "quality" of american women has dwindled to the point that the only women I'm thinking of consorting with are women of faith (I'm dead serious)

answer in bold

here is my issue though

there is not one woman i know, rather it's a friend of mine, the chick at the gym, one of my wife's friends, whatever.. that if somehow i went on a blind date with hem,k they would up and leave. they might not necessarily want to screw me (i don't know i don't ask) but i'm not repulsive to the point they just up and leave. i can pretty much state this for a fact. i am enjoyable enough to be around for the very least them to wait the date off.
Blah, blah blah, thanks for qualifying yourself BB yeah we all know how great you look! :rockon:

I';m sorry,, if a woman, up and leaves in the middle of a date... while it's not the kosher thing to do, you have to ask yourself what it is about me, that made her want to get up and leave in the first place.
It could be cause she wasn't attracted(meh I am fatter now then i was when i signed up on this website 3 years ago by 35 pounds) probably or it could be cause I didn't whip out my credit card when she was looking around asking what we were "drinking" and looked at me like I was gonna "sponsor" her, But I think it may be both

even better, if this is a reasonable attractive coworker, why has this woman not shown any interest in the least bit up to now? she's obviously single so you can't go that route. so a single woman that is reasonable attractive, tat sees you every day, hasn't at the very least, inquired on your availability, hasn't talked to you, hasn't flirted with you, nada, and you get pissy because she gets up and leaves on a date.
*yawn* so if a chick leaves on a date its justified? are you serious? first of the chick lied about where she worked, stating she is "in-between" jobs. Of course she is new in my company, and its obvious she is not proud being at the entry level, why would she lie about were she works? that's a major red flag, and lets not forget this bytch did not ask me one question about me, Not a single one in the 5 minutes or so she was there(mostly talking on her cell trying to get another dude to come through, THEN GOING OUT OF HER WAY TO PICK HIM UP, WHAT A CLASS ACT!) not one frigging question about what I do for work, I don't even think she knows my name!
maybe, you just suck. and i don't mean that in a harsh trying to bust your balls way. But i refuse to sit here and blame women for all of life's problems. sometimes women just don't find you attractive. who the fvck cares what date protocol she follows it's not like the difference between you getting laid or not was her staying on the date. she obviously wasn't feelin it.

No one is blaming all women for life's problem BB I posted one story of one slore not all women just one. It's easy to talk tough about "protocol" online and shyt but when that shyt happens to you in the field would you be cool with it? I think not, let me just state for the record that as she walked out not a single fucc was given, I remained calm and indifferent. I value myself these days to much to get upset over a slore because each day my self respect is growing!

Usually 9 out of 10 times I would agree with you backbreaker, but this isn't one of those times(although you do have a lot of valid points that actually I do agree with)

HOW DO YOU JUSTIFY A WOMEN BEING AN HOUR LATE?

Not making an effort to get to know a man then leaving less then 10 minutes to pick up another guy?

But yet I'm the one that sucked? maybe I was nervous, I'll give you that, maybe I didn't smile enough, but I didn't have a reason too(would you after having to wait for an hour). Maybe I'm too fat, hold brb as I go to the gym and do 50 pushups and 45 minutes of Cardio.


The chick wasn't attracted to me, that's fine no biggie if this was any other date, i would not been waiting for an hour, maybe 20 minutes tops and dipped. However this was a double date so not only did she leave me waiting but 2 other people as well

This is not a good look, very disrespectful not only to me and even my buddy who was with us was furious and called her "cvnt" for walking out

Yo Mama is right maybe i didn't make her gina tingle we all been down, BB as a guy who always talks about your tribulations you would know though that when your at your lowest shyt ain't sweet right? Not making excuses, OR TRYING TO BE DEFENSIVE, IF THIS IS REAL LIFE I WOULD BE EXPLAINING TO YOU CALMLY WERE I'M COMING FROM but empathy doesn't seem one of your strong points BB, or maybe you've been here so long that you can't relate to guys anymore who are going through the fire that's why you always have to talk about "2005" while your 2005, is my 2011, capish? or maybe its tough love that you trying to pass on in the form of a shamming me....

But a cvnt is a cvnt and a dog is a man best friend, so I'll take the L for this one, but honestly I'm not even mad about it. I didn't go home and cry, nor was I fuming mad. I left with my dignity intact and not having spend a single dime on that slore. Any woman who is worth my time makes an effort to at least get to know me

That's fact