justiceseeker said:
This is precisely the crap I've vowed to fight against on this board. Morons like this telling young DJ's that nothing else matters besides your game. This will produce a bunch of delusional, sloppily dressed, terrible smelling guys, walking around with their head up high, thinking they're the shyt, and wondering why they aren't getting laid.
I rarely see any of these delusional guys you're talking about when I go out. I'd go so far to say they rarely exist. But I do see the counter example A LOT - guys who don't work on their game but assume if they get the looks, the money, the job, they're suddenly gonna be able to pull. Look at all the dudes on the wall in the club. They spent a ton of time picking out their clothes, puttign gel in their hair, spraying cologne on themselves, etc. They have it but still can't do sht in the clubs. Why? Because they don't have game
the notion that looks will fix everything is the basis of errant social conditioning. Which is why guys insist looks don't matter - to point out the errant social conditioning to dudes that don't know any better
by all means, improve yourself, but keep everything in context. like I said before, looks will get you attention and open doors. game is what allows you to CLOSE
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