Originally posted by Fatality
First of all why would you care about what some fat ugly chick thinks?
weren't you the one who wrote the thread: "I suck!!! Every Girl Rejects Me" :
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=78569
(due to your appearance, mainly)?
well, i don't want to come off being harsh, but inevitably i will, but i think it's best you think about this a bit. and i'm not trying to bring you down in anyway, i'm actually hoping you'll gain a better perspective in all of this.
thing is, you are placing too much importance on the way others perceive you.
who cares not only what some b!tch online thinks, but also who cares what the people on sosuave think? seriously.
you are the only one who can make this happen.
i wake up every morning and love the person i see in the mirror. i'm one sexy motherfvcker.
beauty is subjective.
next time you wake up, try this. and don't just try it, say it to yourself, and BELIEVE IT.
the bottom line is, you only have one life; you need to truly love and accept yourself. you'll never be happy if you don't learn this.
i also gotta say this:
i used to say girls are ugly and that sh!t a lot before, when i was insecure and unconfident...but now i just pay them no mind. i mean, just like a hot girl was born with good genes, it's not the girl's fault she was born with bad genes. don't judge people on their looks, and then come to us saying how girls make fun of your looks.
you have a lot more going for you than just your looks, right? well who knows if this "ugly b!tch" just doesn't have a PhD and is 10x smarter than you? i say that because she obviously took advantage of you with words/mind (not looks, obviously), otherwise you wouldn't be complaining.
looks don't matter when you're truly getting to know people for who they are.
however, if all you want is some ass. you must accept the truth that LOOKS DO MATTER. if anyone says otherwise, they are lying.
you know looks matter, otherwise you wouldn't say she's ugly. what the heck are you doing online talking to an ugly chick anyway...especially when you know she's ugly?
go outside and do some cold approaches. with your current attitude, using online as a crutch to meet women is not helping. you need to scare the sh!t out of yourself and grow some balls. it will help, trust me.
after you've grown some balls, then you can go back online if you want. but don't go online when you haven't got the right mindset yet.
Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
Is the world all upside down or what
no. i said it once, and i'll say it again because it's really key: you only have one life; you need to truly love and accept yourself. you'll never be happy if you don't learn this.