Wow, to think that some actually wan't women off these boards...
ShortyBrown, MysteryWoman, you guys are sweet, you make the best discussions! That iqqi is cool too.
This is kind of interesting: in-depth discussion without the sexual tension that sometimes happens in real life.
Here is something to think about:
Skinny is
not sexy in and of ITSELF. (You know, like when you can see the sinews on the chest, and somewhat of a 4-pack.)
If you notice, alot of these "skinny" girls are also TAN and have SMOOTH, SLEEK skin. Now THAT is sexy!
Most people overlook skin (tone, color, smoothness) but skin is one of the MAIN things if not THE main thing that makes a girl "hot".
Since the female body is one giant sex organ (lol) it also stands to reason that skin would be the main attractive quality.
Hell, if a girl has nice skin, she can even have a little bit on the tummy and still be hot! (Not overweight, but there are quite a few girls that got a little stuff on their stomachs, and you would never...ever know, cuz you be too busy staring at thier legs and ass!)
However, with all of that being said, each female carries her fat differently. Some, with a lot of estrogen, very feminine ones, will have some fat but will still be VERY HOT; whereas some others, less estrogen, may be skinnier, but less attractive.
Many girls obsess over weight, but there is only one thing that men see (provided she is at a REASONABLE weight, so put down that pint of ice cream ladies
) and that is the
estrogen/femininity. THIS is the 'hotness'. I have seen a few chicks who would be weird looking if you looked at them objectively, but me and others (even women) would consider them hot.
I never really noticed this earlier in my life, but there is a DEFINITE difference between sexyness and beauty. I have seen many a beautiful girl that I could say "yeah, she is pretty, but my d*ck don't get hard thinkin' of her..." So not all is lost if you are not a "natural beauty". (i.e. skin products, tan, excercise--I think 'growth hormone', released after excercise, improves skin tone drastically)
I guess either you have the estrogen naturally...or you don't. I feel bad for the ladies that are born more androgynous, because guys can always work out and eat meat to boost our testosterone, turning us into 'manly men', but I can't think of anything that boosts estrogen? (Maybe eating soy? lol!)
But hey, if you don't, here is some consolation: studies show that less attractive women NATURALLY think less attractive guys are hot. So you guys will still be happy!