Gee wiz Wally, another woman who is smarter than all the men in the world. IF men are so stupid... how come you keep getting played by them?
As far as not able to get an erection... I've never had it with a hot woman,BUT I have had it when I've peeled all the layers off and saw the fat unrestrained by the full body spanx. I don't call them back either,not because of SHAME but because I'm REPULSED by their naked bodies. The worst are former fat girls with all the loose sagging skin.
Husband cheated? When I was happily married, I wouldn't dream of it. At the end, when she KNEW everything [except how to have sex] and was b1tching about all the little things that would mean nothing by next week... I would have done it in a minute with the right woman just so she would find out and end the marriage. [Just didn't find the right woman] Ring any bells?