sodbuster said:
Yep, she's spit out a bunch of feminist entitlement crap that defies imagination.
You guys believe you're getting under my skin. But I divorced a cheater. Had a long time to think about it. Got beyond the humiliation and realized there's a basic underlying psychology involved in the why men cheat. I played that game and been played. Asked myself if there's any winners? No, there are no winners. Let's face it guys, if a guy really loves a woman, he's not going to cheat. Now will he?
In my past life, I was the wife who was cheated on. Today, I am "the other woman," and in lieu of my exhusband who cheated, its very interesting to me.. educational to see what's on the other side. I like the attention. And I'm not telling him this, though he'll figure it out, I'm not that invested in it that if it came down to it, I don't believe we'd actually have sex. It's been phone sex, and last time we met I told him I was in a hurry so we never went to the intimate place he wished to.
But 
I'm positive of this, if he loved the girl he's with, he would not be texting me explicit pix of himself and talking about his sexual interests. Perhaps its the man's way of saying through actions, he's not in love with either one of us. He says things to me, to attempt making me feel emotionally dependent on him, but I'm not. He disappears, and I'm suppose to go off the deepend, but I don't. I know what he's doing. I still like him, because he's sweet.. he's polite... he's passionate. Its all he has going for him. At least he's being honest with me. That poor, poor girl, when she gets her rude awakening. He made the choice to cheat and she made the mistake of loving him.
Here's the brutal and unbridled truth:
Obviously, he's bored with her. He can not do any better to find a woman who holds all his interests.
*** Common sense ***
Isn't it boys. "
He can not do any better"... and neither can you. So you're bopping your hoes and got nothing to lose. Your words say you are some big bad macho man, but your actions say, you're consorting with low class "hoes". A real woman can figure this out.
Just a little intelligence goes miles boys!
All your blow hard hot air just went *swoosh* out the window.
Who's playing who? I know what he is. I'm the ever supportive, say what you want to hear, "friend". The perfect lover who is always there when he needs a friend.
Ha, went out with a fellow awhile back who's trying to be a big, bad player bragging about he'd dated a porn star and all the competition I have to fight off to be with him. He's pathetic. He tried to impress me with his trip to the sex shop. The idiot put on a penis ring and peed all over himself ... I was laughing at him the parking lot. Not exactly laughing at him as much as I felt sorry for him because he was just that pathetic. I know this guy, he has had a rep for being a prolific womanizer. He let down his guard and committed the ultimate faux pas, and that was slipping up and telling me he had sex with my best friend. But the killer, was when he wet himself.
He became silent and went from "player boy" to awkwardly changing his profile on facebook to being involved in a relationship. I feel sorry for any woman who has to put up with his crap. I still laugh about it to this day. His big macho act and pees on himself. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with that filth, get serious.
Met another player, and *lol* he couldn't get a decent erection. *FLOP*
He too became silent and couldn't face his inadequacies. What choice did he have? He disappeared. He made his excuses that it were his diabetes. *Whatever* loser.
You boys make fools of yourself more than you have a clue and women are noticing this.
Your observations, show you're not quite up to par on your knowledge of human psychology, namely, common sense.
I got me a player, and I
know what he is. :yawn: I'm not self-deluded as the inexperienced women you're talking about. You think women are that stupid? Oh, now men mysteriously change their stripes to spots and settle down and make devoted attentive husbands? I'm foolish to assume I'm going to grab a tiger by the tail and bag him? For how long? Two months? So in other words sweets, women can't win for losing when they're trying to have a "nice" relationship with a player who doesn't play nice with women... I'm holding on, play this thing out to the end and see where it goes. No expectations. I notice how every woman you speak of is a "hoe" or some other derogatory slur. That friend, is what we call projection. It tells nothing real of the women you're with, unless they're all "hoes" and if so, then they deserve a man like you!
He's a player, so he's going to change his spots for the "right woman". Yeah... riiiiiggght... and I don't want to settle down, you hearing me? I enjoy playing you players right back, I love telling you what you want to hear. And if you've got a bad attitude, I like to build you up to watch you crash. I'm not wasting my life getting married a third time just for me to get bored and fed up with man-crap, and divorcing one of you.
MY ATTITUDE, is exactly why the bad boys want me so bad. Because down deep, they know I don't want them. Men want what they can't have.
You don't show an ounce of respect for women, so what gives you any hope you'll find a woman who respects you? Women pay attention to subtle things, so when you find a truly nice girl, she's going to reject you and your derogatory views toward women, your lack of respect. I like playing players. I love it. Men like you, are why I do what I do.
I also love my life just like it is, my peace, my serenity, no man around here breaking beer bottles and raising hell. I also just turned down a nice little man who wanted me to go out places like restaurants, and church and well, that's boring ... Feminist entitlement crap? And what's your excuse, mysogynist entitlement crap?
What do you possibly mean by feminist entitlement crap? I live my life how I want to, calling my own shots instead of a man running my life. That's what makes me attractive to men.
Let's set the record straight boys.
I size men up for what they are inside. I don't play men who are "nice". I let them know up front, that I'm not interested and I'm gentle toward them. But then I run on you men with attitude, and needing brought down a few notches. How you do that to a man? You search for those subtle weaknesses and play on them. Building him up and making him feel like a big man. Sort of like you're trying to do on this forum, you spend your life preying on women to build yourself up. But its a false esteem, its built on a bad foundation, you can guarantee you're going to crash.. and it'll be a woman that knows your heart and soul that's going to take you down.
Feminist Entitlement Crap? Let's see, "Nice guys" are those polite souls who do change their spots after the "get to know you stage" and want to move in on your life, take over, and attempt to dictate your friends, schedule, your life, and becomes a demanding, overbearing tyrant and make a woman feel like pulling out her hair and soon the accusations of cheating, and manipulation and jealousy BS begins.
So its safer dealing with guys who keep their distance and aren't interested in settling, and not getting emotionally invested in them.. keeping a safe distance. Just enough to play them in their own game.
Who's going to get hurt boys?
The woman who knows what she's actually doing, sizing you up as a player, and telling you what you want to hear or the little macho boy with an overinflated ego built entirely on preying on women, who believes every word when a woman is pouring out her love and devotion? but there's just something that isn't quite right when she tells you she loves you. She reassures you that everything is great, and
everything you want to hear, but you get that feeling... her actions don't match the words. She's playing and she don't love you. Because she's cold and aloof, and you're so farking smart (of course you are and she's going to tell you that too), you don't feel threatened, but in fact, she despises you. She might even have sex with you, to lure you in emotionally deeper, and feeding your ego with words. Then, the bomb drops and its bye bye birdie. You're calling her up in the rain and blubbering... all for that girl who "couldn't get Brad Pitt". She ditched you with no warning. Burned the wind. Oh give me a break about that feminist entitlement BS! You players who disrespect and hate women, get what you deserve when you run into a woman that's a mirror image of what you are.
sodbuster said:
When I was 15, I realized my dreams of professional football weren't going to happen. Guys were bigger,stronger, and faster than I was...growing wasn't going to change that much. So, I picked new dreams and goals. As long as a woman can get a drunk and horny Brad Pitt to do her,she still thinks she deserves to land him. If I got lucky because Angelina was in the mood, I'd realize I was just lucky that night...not that I deserve to land a woman exactly like her
Are you actually talking about me sweets?
I don't drink alcohol and I am not your stereotypical barfly, but it does become apparent to all readers, the class of women you're commonly acquainting yourself with.
