Peña said:
.....I want to know why MGTOW who says they dropped out of society continues to complain about the society they dropped out of.
For one, there's four levels to MGTOW. Level 1 is a guy that understands the reality of the situation but decides to still get married and try to risk mitigate the situation. Level 2 is a guy that will still date women but will not do any legal relationships (marriage or children). Level 3 is a guy that won't date women at all, only deal with them professionally. Level 4 is the guy that has DROPPED out of society and tries to work very little to pay as little tax as possible.
Not every MGTOW has dropped out of society, I'm Level 2. There's no way I'm going to stop sleeping and dating women, that would be insane because I'm not gay. There's also no way I'm going to stop pursuing my financial and career goals because I don't want to pay taxes, tax reduction strategies serve me very well.
What I'm NOT doing is getting married or making children due to the LAWS that are in place, that's the SOLE reason why I'm not doing it. If me and my chick fall out of grace, I'm fvcked, and women are fickle as hell and can turn on you at any moment. That's why I had to opt out of that, or, I would be a MGTOW Level 1 and proceed with the legal relationships but just do a lot (and I mean A LOT) of risk mitigation.
jurry said:
....Lets try and make this a little more concrete, because what I'm hearing repeatedly from the defenders of MGTOW is basically this: "Im not going to get married or have kids because of the possible legal and financial consequences of divorce and child support".
So, are you not getting married or having kids because you just dont want to or would you like to but are holding back because of the reasons above? What would have to change to make marriage and kids make sense for you?
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I'm MGTOW because of the LAWS, period. I don't hate women or hate pvssy, I'm also not afraid to approach women, I don't post field reports but if anybody wants me to post whatever to prove I spin plates now (and have been doing so for years), I have no issues posting information. I have posted my pics all over this site.
But the laws would need to change, and specifically I'm referring to the following:
- The child custody laws need to be changed where child support is based on the needs/wants of the child using a CHART, not the parents' combined incomes. If I'm making $1 million a year there's no justification to send my child $200,000 a year in child support (excuse me, I mean send his MOTHER that money).
- I want an audit done and accounting done with invoices, receipts, etc. on every dollar of what the custodial parent is spending the child support money on to make sure it's going to the child.
- I want alimony eliminated...100% from law. Under no circumstances would alimony EVER (EVERRR) be awarded.
- I want the elimination of all of the red tape, long legal proceeding, etc. in relation to divorces and child custody cases. I want it simple, unless a parent is broke, has a mental or physical illness or has some other type of MAJOR issues (like a repeated felon or something), then the parents split the child time, custody and costs 50/50. So going back to that chart I talked about above, let's say the State says a child's cost is $20,000 a year. I pay $10,000 and she pays $10,000. I have the child 15 days of the month, she has him 15 days of the month. That's it. For divorces, what we shared together (house, bank account, car) is split 50/50 in value. So if we have $200,000 in house, bank account and car value, I take $100k worth and she take $100k worth, which might be divided up as I take the car and bank accounts while she takes the house. What we kept SEPARATE isn't touched.
That's it for the most part, straight forward and simple. So if I find my "THE ONE" and we get married, and fall out 7 years later, I can take my shyt...she take her shyt....we divide what we shared together....and we fvcking GO.
But that's NOT how the laws are right now and until the laws become fair and balanced, I will not sign up for a Marriage Contract that makes NO FVCKING SENSE in terms of legality.