Experience with women in church, lol

[Tilex]

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[corrector]

church seems like a tough way to meet since it's like a glorified movie. You are all just sitting, listening to someone, even if you're seated next to someone good you don't have chances to talk during the sermon.. and then everyone just rushes out after, so really you're playing a semi-long game and may end up going to 5-6 session before really establishing a rapport with someone..and then I'm sure "church social circle" politics are a lot, no?

just wondering

Exactly. Church social circle politics, like anywhere else, may mean there are social cliques where you feel like you are an outsider. Like anywhere else, church ladies bring their smartphones and could be texting to their SO or other guys, so they are there but not really there at the same time, etc.... I guess this is how most sub-8s would probably experience that.

In fact, if you look at general stats, churches, just like most other offline venues, have plummeted in terms of where people actually meet. Sometimes, I think you might have an easier time dealing with an unbeliever but is not anti-christ or anything like that and bring her into your church rather than meeting someone from inside the church. At least that would feel like you are doing something more constructive as a whole.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

Exactly. Church social circle politics, like anywhere else, may mean there are social cliques where you feel like you are an outsider. Like anywhere else, church ladies bring their smartphones and could be texting to their SO or other guys, so they are there but not really there at the same time, etc.... I guess this is how most sub-8s would probably experience that.

In fact, if you look at general stats, churches, just like most other offline venues, have plummeted in terms of where people actually meet. Sometimes, I think you might have an easier time dealing with an unbeliever but is not anti-christ or anything like that and bring her into your church rather than meeting someone from inside the church. At least that would feel like you are doing something more constructive as a whole.

I can't imagine given how strict religions are the type of dynamics there are in church social circle game lol. Also the judgement which is heightened.

If it was a more social environment (which I'm sure there is in places) it might be worthwhile, but seems like a poor time investment to me... but then again day game is normally not ideal time investing either..

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

and then everyone just rushes out after, so really you're playing a semi-long game and may end up going to 5-6 session before really establishing a rapport with someone.

My ex-wife is a Christian and I wouldn't go with her to church since I'm not a believer and I'm not going to sit in a pew on Sunday morning when I can sleep in. That said, most of the time I would come over at the end of the service and everybody would have coffee and cookies and I would stroll around the church talking with the churchgoers. Except for a few people, nobody 'rushed out' and most stayed after the service for half an hour or so to chat and some went around the corner to the lunch room and had more coffee and lunch there.
Many of them tried, of course, to encourage me to attend the services, but they were respectful when I told them I wasn't a Christian and wasn't interested in religion. After my divorce, two young women expressed interest and I dated them briefly, so I think that Church Game can work, especially if they consider you a reprobate worth saving.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

My ex-wife is a Christian and I wouldn't go with her to church since I'm not a believer and I'm not going to sit in a pew on Sunday morning when I can sleep in. That said, most of the time I would come over at the end of the service and everybody would have coffee and cookies and I would stroll around the church talking with the churchgoers. Except for a few people, nobody 'rushed out' and most stayed after the service for half an hour or so to chat and some went around the corner to the lunch room and had more coffee and lunch there.
Many of them tried, of course, to encourage me to attend the services, but they were respectful when I told them I wasn't a Christian and wasn't interested in religion. After my divorce, two young women expressed interest and I dated them briefly, so I think that Church Game can work, especially if they consider you a reprobate worth saving.

you probably had a lot of social value as a (taken) guy at church

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

you probably had a lot of social value as a (taken) guy at church

I had a lot of social value most of my life.