Experience with women in church, lol

[greatsnake]

I went back to church several months just to check it out and met a chick (Nice girl, early 30s). I would talk to her here and there, not showing any commitment on my part. One day, her friend (mid 20s) showed up with her and I decided to try out a move, to see the first chick’s reaction. I started giving attention to her friend and all of a sudden the first chick starts getting jealous (getting pissy, rolling her eyes), so i left them both there. Several days later, I asked the first chick on a date and she said she only saw me as a friend, so I said ok. A couple weeks later her friend shows up, they were together, so I told both of them hi. The friend said hi first with an eager voice and the chick was getting jealous again.

so I asked myself what the **** is going on with the first chick, lol. Female nature doesn’t change. The first chick obviously felt that I was choosing the younger friend……

ahhhhhh so much when you have the abundance mentality.

 

[Dr.Suave]

So you gonna ask the younger girl out or what?

 

[greatsnake]

So you gonna ask the younger girl out or what?

that's coming up.

 

[RangerMIke]

Ah... so you learned that women are all the same. Welcome to red pill reality... you are out of the matrix.

On Church Ladies: They are so sexually repressed that when they end up with a man who is not going to judge her and can keep his mouth shut.... and they are sure it's NEVER going to get back to their church group.... they go absolutely nuts.

I had a friend that had a thing going with several church chicks. He would go to a church, make friends with a few, then suddenly declare church just isn't for him and he has doubts about the existence of God... one or more would approach him and try to convince him otherwise... he would make dates, and since he wasn't coming back to the church... BAM... you guessed it. Meanwhile he was doing this with other churches and church ladies and had a nice sex rotation going. The women are fine with this... they get non-judgmental sex, and they can pretend they are doing this 'for God" to save this man.

I would never do this since.... well I'm pretty sure I would burst into flames walking into a church... but some of you guys should try this.

 

[greatsnake]

You only burst into flames if you believe in Hell.

I’ve always thought that all women are the same, but I decided to try to take a different stance intentionally, because it’s “church”.

 

[RangerMIke]

You only burst into flames if you believe in Hell.

I said that tongue in cheek. The truth is you'll never see me in a church because I avoid organized religion. This isn't a knock on anyone with faith... whatever helps a person with existential thoughts... go for it. Pray to whatever version of God someone wants, pray to a tree, worship the stars, the Sun, whatever it doesn't matter to me. But I find it off putting when organized religion tries to cram their version of what they believe is reality, down my throat.

I wouldn't be able to pull of the 'church chick' scam because I'm too opinionated, and I really suck at lying...if I had to make a living off of conning people I would starve to death.

I would no more walk into a Church than to a "Purple hair Lesbians for Biden" fund raising event. If it's not me... it's not me and I would not feel comfortable.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Most women in church in my area are married. With 4 kids. Which is fine.

 

[RangerMIke]

My thing is to disorganise religions by perverting their womenfolk.

Truth is women are already perverted... It is religion that attempt to police and control their nature.

Last time I was in a Church... it was to attend the funeral of an Army buddy... he was my age and this happened 3 years ago. He died of brain cancer, he was an uber Christian and we could not have been more different... he wore his love of faith on his sleeve as much as I wore my indifference to 'God'. But we were still good friends and the best man in the world you would want next to you in a firefight.

Anyway, at his funeral it was one person after another that got up and praised him for what a 'good man' he was... that he was always giving... sacrificing himself for the betterment of the Church and others. He was apparently always willing to be used as slave labor at his church... and naturally he was loved for this. One after another... people got up, shared stories about how he helped them and how he will be missed.

Then after, at the reception, his widow hit on me. It was a miliary funeral, so I was in uniform, and I can still fit in the same dress blues I wore as a Second Lieutenant. All the pretty badges and ribbons on my uniform, collected during several sh1tshow conflicts my nation tossed me into, attracts women like a Lazor pointer attracts a cat.

Jim was a great guy, good soldier, great officer, but he was emotionally manipulated into a useful tool by his church and his family. So Jim was dead and the day he is buried, his Christian widow is blowing a guy who was his antithesis.

 

[corrector]

Nothing good ever came out of that.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I fingered a girl in a pew once.

The surprising part of that you were in a pew

 

[PlatoPacks23]

also sounds like a lot of projecting

 

[Masculinity]

So you gonna ask the younger girl out or what?

that's coming up.

I look forward to reading that field report.

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

I went back to church several months just to check it out and met a chick (Nice girl, early 30s). I would talk to her here and there, not showing any commitment on my part. One day, her friend (mid 20s) showed up with her and I decided to try out a move, to see the first chick’s reaction. I started giving attention to her friend and all of a sudden the first chick starts getting jealous (getting pissy, rolling her eyes), so i left them both there. Several days later, I asked the first chick on a date and she said she only saw me as a friend, so I said ok. A couple weeks later her friend shows up, they were together, so I told both of them hi. The friend said hi first with an eager voice and the chick was getting jealous again.

so I asked myself what the **** is going on with the first chick, lol. Female nature doesn’t change. The first chick obviously felt that I was choosing the younger friend……

ahhhhhh so much when you have the abundance mentality.

Male overperception bias refers to the tendency of some men to misinterpret friendly or neutral interactions with women as being sexually interested or flirtatious. This concept has been studied and discussed in the context of social and evolutionary psychology:

APA PsycNet

psycnet.apa.org

 

[PlatoPacks23]

church seems like a tough way to meet since it's like a glorified movie. You are all just sitting, listening to someone, even if you're seated next to someone good you don't have chances to talk during the sermon.. and then everyone just rushes out after, so really you're playing a semi-long game and may end up going to 5-6 session before really establishing a rapport with someone..and then I'm sure "church social circle" politics are a lot, no?

just wondering

 

[Tilex]

Fun Fact:
If you're looking for a religious chick, you can find tons of them on Craigslist.

If I had a dime for every ad I came across with this line in the description: "Looking for a God Fearing man," I'd be a billionaire by now.

 

[corrector]

church seems like a tough way to meet since it's like a glorified movie. You are all just sitting, listening to someone, even if you're seated next to someone good you don't have chances to talk during the sermon.. and then everyone just rushes out after, so really you're playing a semi-long game and may end up going to 5-6 session before really establishing a rapport with someone..and then I'm sure "church social circle" politics are a lot, no?

just wondering

Exactly. Church social circle politics, like anywhere else, may mean there are social cliques where you feel like you are an outsider. Like anywhere else, church ladies bring their smartphones and could be texting to their SO or other guys, so they are there but not really there at the same time, etc.... I guess this is how most sub-8s would probably experience that.

In fact, if you look at general stats, churches, just like most other offline venues, have plummeted in terms of where people actually meet. Sometimes, I think you might have an easier time dealing with an unbeliever but is not anti-christ or anything like that and bring her into your church rather than meeting someone from inside the church. At least that would feel like you are doing something more constructive as a whole.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

Exactly. Church social circle politics, like anywhere else, may mean there are social cliques where you feel like you are an outsider. Like anywhere else, church ladies bring their smartphones and could be texting to their SO or other guys, so they are there but not really there at the same time, etc.... I guess this is how most sub-8s would probably experience that.

In fact, if you look at general stats, churches, just like most other offline venues, have plummeted in terms of where people actually meet. Sometimes, I think you might have an easier time dealing with an unbeliever but is not anti-christ or anything like that and bring her into your church rather than meeting someone from inside the church. At least that would feel like you are doing something more constructive as a whole.

I can't imagine given how strict religions are the type of dynamics there are in church social circle game lol. Also the judgement which is heightened.

If it was a more social environment (which I'm sure there is in places) it might be worthwhile, but seems like a poor time investment to me... but then again day game is normally not ideal time investing either..

 

[PlatoPacks23]

My ex-wife is a Christian and I wouldn't go with her to church since I'm not a believer and I'm not going to sit in a pew on Sunday morning when I can sleep in. That said, most of the time I would come over at the end of the service and everybody would have coffee and cookies and I would stroll around the church talking with the churchgoers. Except for a few people, nobody 'rushed out' and most stayed after the service for half an hour or so to chat and some went around the corner to the lunch room and had more coffee and lunch there.
Many of them tried, of course, to encourage me to attend the services, but they were respectful when I told them I wasn't a Christian and wasn't interested in religion. After my divorce, two young women expressed interest and I dated them briefly, so I think that Church Game can work, especially if they consider you a reprobate worth saving.

you probably had a lot of social value as a (taken) guy at church