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I firmly believe most men feel this way. It's a severe drain on time, resources, and life, to be chasing something, or even focusing on something that's constantly fleeting. Chasing women like it's a hobby IS an addiction. Worse off...
Doing it as a sport, and only seeking to fvck women, will precipitate our demise and downward trend in relationships. As women "assume" men only want sex, women will become more cynical about men in general, further unraveling the threads of long-term relationships. If people don't change the ideal, we can't change the idea, and what is only a mental game, will become an epidemic.
On the flip side, I've taken the time to examine some of the materials out there. Personally, I wouldn't dump money on seminars. Why? Not because they don't work, but because I could invest that money in myself, myself businesses, and my life. That will MAKE you the person you need to be to ATTRACT all that you desire to be.
It seems a certain BACKWARDS mentality has come to pass, that the problems are outside of us, or that we're broken. People, the writing is on the wall. For millions of years, your ancestors procreated, how is this any different? You can cite different cases, but bottom line is, we're built to mate.
If you focus on becoming the person you want and doing the things you desire, those actions inturn will MAKE you the person you want to become. They will make you an attractive person.
-To become a businessman, you have to realize certain traits. If you're determined to succeed, you'll gain and exude these traits.
-To ride a motorcycle, you will have to realize certain traits, such as being more daring, carefree, and respomsible, yes responsible on the road.
-To live on your own, requires a level of independence, and responsibility.
You see, rather than CREATING these traits inside of you, DOING what life asks of you and following your dreams will make you into the person you want to become. Sitting at home will give you the ideas of what to do, but you can't integrate any of it into who you are because you don't know how or when to use it. Hence why, our forefathers had an easier time of getting ahead than us because all they could do in life WAS to JUST DO IT. They had no TV, no Internet, no video games, and mass communication was very little. Global connectivity was minimal. Now, even video games are sports and male testoserone levels plummet because you rarely use your God given talents.
I won't disagree, nor agree. I'm of the mindset that you get what you give, that, yes sex, is great, and wonderful, but following that path as your business will leave you little else in life. I'm of the belief that I'd rather be with and date girls totally crazy into sex, totally into being fun, into being a person, than meeting any girl at a club. That certainly leaves plenty of women for you guys who like girls at clubs, bars, and the like, but then again, like attracts like. And any girl who'd give it up once to a guy on a ONS, would do it again from a bar.
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