Sp1kez said:
hey doc, this is my advise to you from personal experience. DO NOT SHOW THAT U WANT TO BE WITH HER EVER, EVEN IF SHE CALLS AND TELLS YOU SHE MISSES YOU!
My gf broke up w/ me and a month later I had some1 new....hotter then my ex, when the ex found out about this she freaked out and came crawling back....i was STUPID to think this was the way she felt, it was just her ego that was bruised, but I thoguht it was out of love.......what a fool I was, when she saw that I would get bac with her she began ignoring me......
for yourself, do not ever let her know you want her back...please
if it werent for you people on this board i would be in a whole different situation. i will be attending this board for a long, long time, and hope to be able to give back to newbies down the road.
as for the advice - you bet i will follow all this to a frigging T. this girl's ego is already bruised pretty bad since she already heard through the vine that i am seeing someone else - her best friend saw me out with a dime piece 3 weeks ago and of course she told my ex!
on top of THAT! regarding my update a few days ago - my ex borrowed another huge amount of $$ from her pop and guess what - her dang bank is almost back negative again. this girl cannot keep up with her bills. she should have thought about it long and hard before bouncing on me like that. sheit.
whats happening here is she is trying to pick up the pieces and prove to herself and everyone she can survive without me and what would be a spectacular sight is if she finally CRACKED and started calling and saying she made a huge mistake.
i would have my way with the situation at that point utilizing all the advice you all have given me.
lets see how the next few weeks go.
thanks for listening.