Slickster said:
PAY HER THE MONEY BACK ASAP!!!
I can't believe you let a debt with an ex linger like this. I would never borrow money from a girlfriend but if I did I would pay her back immediately!!!
What a lame position to be in.
Work your friggin' arse off to out from under her thumb.
As for her demeaning you I bet you'd be doing the same thing if she still owed you money too.
I'm kind of surprised by some of the comments about not having to pay her back because there is no contract. That's pretty low in my book.
okay. it might seem low. but let's put this in fiscal perspective here.
what if she was living with him? rent free? for 6 months or a year under the impression they were going to be married one day ,and she falls out of love? does she cut him a severance check for the past few months? fvck no she doesn't
what about all the little presents, the mini vacations they went on, the clothes he bought her, basically all the little **** in a relationship that ads up over time.
so I say, n o contract, she can burn in hell with gasoline draws on for all i care. that's just how I am. you might call it low, i call it being pragmatic. I mean, I would pay her back, assuming it's like 1-3k because i can afford to. the 3k to me, is not worth having to put up with her **** for however long. take it and GTFO. but if i am making pulling 2,500 a month or 3k a month and you want 500 dollars of that after taxes, after you have lived with me for this time, only to fall out of love, you can kiss my black ass.
Ironically, she will probably have more respect for you after you tolld her to burn in hell next time she called you about the rent. I decided not to pay you back? "why?" honestly I just don't feel like it. You took enough of my time and money/energy over the years, just charge that **** to the game babe.
This chick i miessed around with when I was 23 years old, a few months before I moved to california, i liked her, and she was going through some tought times. she gave me a hard luck story. and she was very sick and was having trouble paying bills or what not beucase she was in the hospital, so i let her "borrow" like 800 bucks, like look just pay me back 100 a month or whenever you can.
you think i saw 1 freaking dime of that money lol? not only did hte **** not pay me back, she talked **** to me like i was an *******, would ignore my calls, just treat me like ****. I learned a lesson that day. i did it trying to be "nice". fvck being nice. fvck being chaviorus. think she thought about the time i gave her 100 bucks to buy groceries after she spent 2 weeks in the hopstial? or the money i let her borrow to get her script filled (she really was sick, she was a diabetic and her **** got bad, and i kinda felt bad for the girl. i have a hard time watching people struggle. it's my soft spot. i've taken homeless people in the grocery store and bought them buy days worth of food before, i am a serious sucker for luck stories, plus it makes me feel good to help people less forunate). hell no. and i didn't so much want the money back, or even care that she paid ti back, but just thinking about how i was just brushed off as if "fvck it".
if we aren't in a serious, serious, LTR or married, or you aren't my momma, you can kiss my black ass. no one will ever call her on her bS becuse she has tits. but a man does the same thing and he's "low" or whatever. man fvck that. no contract no money.
lol the worst part is i really didn't even go AFC on her. I just wasn't really the party boy type she was into. she wanted to party 7 nights a week and not have any responsibilities. that's not me. so we kinda just fell out. a month later my calls are going straight to the answering machine.
and i'm sure you will say "she's a low quality person", and my response to that is, and my poiint being, at the end of the day, what does me or you thinking she is "low quality" have as far as an effect on ehr everyday life? does get a "low quality person": tax on her payroll check lol? hwo fvcking cares if a woman who fell out of love with you and started dating their co worker thinks you are a POS
another quick story, just thought bout this, the girl that borught me here.. god i tricked so much money on that girl i don't even want to think about it. computers, multiple computers, cash, clothes, you name it i tricked it at some point. i rmember one daty, think i was 21 at the time, she asked for 400 dollars.. didn't even give me a reason lol. just nigga give me 400 dollars. of course i did it. what that was may, in june her mom, who owns a newspaper needed 2 computers to donate for a raffle prize. guiess who ended up donating 2 company computers. Me of course. about 800 dollars worth of hardware/software. in august, I paid for her entire fvcking semister in college. i told you i should ahve went into the tricking hall of fame for the amount of **** i did for this girl, i wanted this motherfvcker lol. it was a juco/2 year school so it was like 1k but still that's money i could have spent on me.
come october, she asked for something, i think i t was money to get her car fixed. i said i would give it o her. at the time i was starting to take spin 1 plate, and i was kinda liking her, and i told her about it and she slapped some sense into me and told me she was just tricking me, and i said you know what, i can't do it, and she calle dme every name in the book, you POS, whatever. fvck every thing else i did for you, these *****es don't care man. they don't. so why do you.
what is she going to do , not fvck you lol? she isn't fvcking you anyway.
