EX gf is back in the picture somewhat and I want her again

[Truman181]

The first time we went through months before getting together. It satrted off as her calling me during the weekeneds and we hang out all weekened. I would not vall her all week then I would get a call fri night or sat morning. Then we started fvcked. And started sleeping together almost everynight. This went on for like 2 She would always initiate. Then she would not call here and there. Called her rarely. We were just friends and some bs s came about. I walked away multiple times in the friend stage. She wouldb call to fix it. Basically when I didn't like something I walked away and she would come back or I would.

No offense man but it doesn't even sound like you even had a relationship. It sounds like all you ever were was friends with benefits.

Differnt situation now cause we know each other.

She knows she can have your c0ck whenever she calls for it. And she calls when she needs someone to fvck. But that's it. She likes you enough to fvck you but her Interest Level isn't high enough that she is willing to give up keeping her options open.

But I think the same principles apply attraction wise.

I think you've been watching too many David Deangelo videos and the reason I say that is because you keep talking about attraction, just as he does. Listen man, you think that she has a HIGH level of attraction with you just because she's fvcked you in the past and now wants to keep you as an option to fvck when she wants to.

However, her attraction level isn't SO high that she is chasing you, determined not to let you get away, afraid that you might hook up with someone else. You're an option to her, not a priority.

No way is this chick going to drop me considering I ilive up the street and comfortable up the street and fvk even broke her bed. Haha.

That's just it man, you're only a CONVENIENT option for her. She's just using you until someone comes along that really catches her interest and when that happens, that person will become the priority.

I don't know if you were ever emotionally invested with this girl....but now is NOT the time to become so.

It's an old saying but "don't make someone a priority when all you are is an option to them".

 

[aix237]

Dude friends with benefits don't live together and have a dog that they raise together. Its a whole different thing when u had a ltr with a girl and starting over. .personally im cool with how sh1t is right now. I know im going to have to be patient .She just told me she was wondering where I was and knew I was out somewhere having fun probably which was true. She made an inference that she was waiting for me to call. We are friends for now that fvck. Tonight we are going to dinner at her friends house, probably get fvcked up and fvck. Sure something is going to come out tonight.

I might just fvck her and act like im leaving. Shell say where r u going? Ill just say this is what u want right, we are jusr fvck buddies right? See where that goes.mifght turn ugly but well see.

 

[Truman181]

Dude friends with benefits don't live together and have a dog that they raise together.

Oh hey, I never saw the part where you lived together. That's different then.

Its a whole different thing when u had a ltr with a girl and starting over.

This is true.

personally im cool with how sh1t is right now. I know im going to have to be patient .She just told me she was wondering where I was and knew I was out somewhere having fun probably which was true. She made an inference that she was waiting for me to call. We are friends for now that fvck. Tonight we are going to dinner at her friends house, probably get fvcked up and fvck. Sure something is going to come out tonight.

Well as long as your happy with how things are going...keep it up. Just be cautious.

 

[decades]

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[aix237]

Well im at some gay dinner party with her. She has been introducing me as "hey this is my friend aix237" guess that's better than hey this is my ex boyfriend. Lol. Now me and her friend are going to go out downtown. I said u sure u want me to come. I honestly shouldn't go but I got friends I can chill with downtown. Might pull a little disapperaing act and see what happens.

 

[dissonance]

she introduced you as 'her friend?' i'd rather have a girl just introduce me by my name itself then with the words 'her friend' notice that she didn't use ''boy'' when she said 'friend' what are you doing, get the **** out of there.

 

[DJArlington]

dude what is going on with you and the girl? you guys back on yet ? if not what the heck is taking so long.

 

[broken dreams]

This post saddens me. why are you guys going afc?

Dude move on. average joes go back that easily to ex's guess who's in charge?

Only thing I can say and out of experience is that is not worth it, time efoort or emotional to play games and fool yourself.

I rather end it and change to a better person and see her a low value, caudse no matter what she will never see you as that guy she met turned AFC. so she will feel buyers remorse once catstring stops.
aka playing hard to get.

I rather go out practice game and force yourself to meet new women and be bold about it.

dude why you want to invilve yourself to this? you realize you are in gambler's trap?

another guy who will demonstrate attractive masculine qualities will have her begging and she will leave you for him, cause all women want to be dominated.and you can never change that reality accept it and move on.

at least show her you have some self respect.

It is very difficlut near impossible to change her mind, you can change her mood but not her mind about you.

worst case get a hooker and **** her watch that you miss the ***** and not your ex.this is awful but necessary to get her out of your system.

start living the life you deserve dude.

get out of your comfort zone.

 

[aix237]

Well I didnt have for sure intentions on going back to her. I was calling her and fvcking her once a week. We would hang out one day or two. Then no contact for the week. She took that as if im using her which i wasnt i was proceeding with cautoin and waiting for her to bring up the talk which she did. She got all butt hurt I think and wanted her revenge on me for making her feel like a piece of meat. Yea shell go for a dude with masculine traits but that relationship wont last long cause she always has to be in charge. She has a power complex. When ever we walk she tries to walk in front all the time its ridiculous. I fvck with her and run ahead of her and say beat you cause she has some stupid thinking. Why do you think she cant handle me? She always tells me that I dont put up with sh1t and call her out. She wants the weaker men who she can get away with sh1t and the dudes that lack confidence. She knows me she was like wow you really know how to be a d1ck.

I am showing her self respect. I tested the waters she flaked the same day after I kissed her on the lips goodbye and the day after i fvcked her. She is a flip flopper on her emotions. I texted her and said "why are you acting flakey with me for the last two days? I think i need to chill out from you guess that is best." Left it at that.

So far I called out every situation before it happened almost to a T. I already know what is going to happen. One night in the near future she is going to be lonely which should happen often considering she lives by herself or the dude she was talking about is going to show her hes a pvssy which I can tell by the way she was talking and shes going to call or text on a weekened and try to work things out. She always talks about how my d1ck drives her crazy, shell crack. At this point Im going to say fvck you first for acting stupid. And only talking to you if you apologize and want to work sh1t out if not go fvck yourself. See the thing is i dont get jealous really cause I know im the best looking dude shes been with and the dude who has the most sh1t going. Im not saying this to boost myself its just the truth and i know I can get better. BUt i do care about her thats why im p1ssed.

In the mean time I know what I need to do and Im goin gto start tomorrow.

 

[broken dreams]

dude where are located? I have awesome advice to give you.
cause how i see it is different but all these guys are right but theres something you havent lookd at it.

telling a girl you were sitting at home thinking about her all day long and worrying about if she was going to call you is AFC!

she is spnning plates. she is enjoying the freedoms and joys of the single life. she has no intention of jumping back into a relationship with you.

Sounds like she needs an ego boost and a f*ck buddy, for now. I wouldn't read anything more into it than that for now.

Why would you want to go back to someone who has already demonstrated she doesn't want to be with you in the past? Find a new person to be with, it will be more fun. Continue banging this girl if you want, but I wouldn't put too much effort into it if I were you (including initiating contact). This situation just sounds like an opportunity for some ego-boosting sex for her til she finds a new guy.

VERY AFC!

dude face reality. she loves being single because shes getting all types of new d1ck ran up in her. she doesn't want a relationship with you. you are just her fukk buddy.

 

[aix237]

Where you at dude? I have some awesome advice to give you about losing your fat. Get your fat azz off the couch.
You think you know her better than me? Did you date her for 2 years and live with her? Stfu and go get liposuction. I didnt say I was worrying about whether or not she was goin to call me. I said I was constantly thinking about her to give her the impression I wasnt using her. I didnt meet this girl for the first time 3 weeks ago. I fvcked her the very first day we hung out in 2 years and then the next day, then the next weekened, then the weekend after that. She thought I was using her so I had to say that. What am I suppose to say? No I dont think about you, lets fvck? Go look at yourself then talk to me. This sh1t is more complicated than you know. You dont know how she is and I do. Her emotions flip flop on the drop of a dime. Good she can get railed all she wants it will all be empty to her. Cause she is highly sexually attracted to me and admits it constantly. She can barley hold herself back when we are sleeping together. I actually fvcked up by fvcking her in the first place. If I just hung out with her and didnt make a move (AFC) for a couple of times it wouldve drove her nuts. But i wanted to fvck so I let it happen. I act AFC to balance out my sh1t towards her. I act nice then im a d1ck. I call her azz out. SHe knows im a d1ck sometimes. I walk away and I tell her Im gong to leave her alone and I do. Shell call me within the next week or two 95 percent sure. Shes probably going to hang out with the REAL AFC this weekened realize how boring he is and then call me up to rail some lines get drunk and fvck just like weve done the last two weekeneds.

Obviously you dont follow mystery. One of his main points is to give the girl the optoin to know that you will stick around after sex. That is why I say oh i thnk about you blah blah blah you got me. She thinks she has me and therefore wont be scared that im using her wam bam thank you mam sh1t.

Of course shes spinning plates thats fine cause I havent seen her with anyone speical. I can put my car on it (2008 Mercedes) that no dude will have what I have alltogether and I dont think you come close either so check yourself. BTW when was the last itm eyou got laid?

Give me your number so I can text a pic when im fvcking her again this week or next week.

 

[broken dreams]

OK,so you arent in nyc cause I beat the **** out of you.

You are a chump dude ,you arent ALPHA. stop acting like this dude you are making me laugh.

Guys here in this site know me and know my game INFIELD, So Im not posting about some chick 2 yrs ago blah blah blah chump chump.Basically you like to be 2nd place and not the prize.

You are just a fanboy of mystery dude.
I trained with guys masters in PUA's to name a few.

I know people who gamed with mystery personally,several dude ,several.

You are probably obsessed with game and mystery.Hahaha.


What you think of me I can care less.

I have enough credibility for some or any chump to try to phase me.

My Inner Game is too solid for you to come in try to neg me.

Last time was last night biach her name was Ericka from Venezuela.
she lick my nipples and my balls btw FYI or TMI IMO LoL

I give my numbers to girls,Im not into guys, sorry to disappoint you.

Smile and read my post on setting priorities in life with PU by BadBoy.

I live up to my name, so tough love is all you get.

 

[aix237]

I don't give a fvck who u game with. I get girls that approach me like everytime I go out. U think ur all bad cause ur from nyc? Please dude. That don't mean sh1t. Go lose some pounds and talk to me. The girl u boned was probably fat too or ugly cause no good looking girl is going to bone a fat dude let alone suck his balls. Yea I follow mystery with a passion and that sh1t works. I aint ashamed. I follow all his sh1t and learn new sh1t all the time. Yea such a bad thing. Tyring to be a smart azz with me in ur post please. Haha don't think ur inner game is that solid considering u feel uncomfortavle about ur weight.
Moderator please shut this post too im getting sick of talking about this sh1t

 

[broken dreams]

I didnt know my weight issues affected your manhood dude.hahaha.
Im in training you fag 6 more weeks of it.So Im working on it.
I m confident I know who I am.

Im not seeking acceptance like you are.
Especially from a woman ....like you do.

I know everything about you... just by the way you behave.

 

[J Roc]

I smell a Beta male in this thread.

 

[aix237]

Well the b1tch called me tonight and im hanging with her right now. Knew she would. Probably bone tonight. Keep u updated

 

[aix237]

Update. I think we are back on although we haven't spoke about it. Slept over her house 3 nights in a row. Fvcked like crazy. We go out hold hands kiss etc. She said to me yesterday she told her mom we are hanging out again. She tells me she loves me etc and I say it back. She aint going nowhere.showed her a sh1t load of social proof friday night. Sh1ts good atleast for now.

 

[J Roc]

welcome to the world of fukk buddies

 

[broken dreams]

welcome to the world of fukk buddies

LMAO.She doesnt count as a fukk buddy cause she was his GF this is after she rejected him dude.


Its more like ....

Welcome to World of Gamblers trap.

I smell a Beta male in this thread.

can you say one -itis or not calvin klein's obssesion


LoL.

 

[J Roc]

LMAO.She doesnt count as a fukk buddy cause she was his GF this is after she rejected him dude.

she still counts because she is no longer his GF..they are just fukk buddies/friends with benefits.

she is still fukking other guys and he is just 1 of her options