Ex booty call's wedding... Why you should never get married!

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I find flaw with this. Though indeed our natures are different as in Men pair widely and women pair wisely (which i think is the point you're driving at) that time has come and gone. That's the methodology of animals who live in large groups. The "alpa male" of these groups gets breeding rights and gets to nail the best females to better the chances of stronger children ensuring the continuation and empowerment of the species.

Unfortunately those days are over. In our complex societies, there's just as much responsibility in males to stick with a mate as a woman.

You're forgetting something. Yes, "those days are over". But evolution takes AT LEAST hundreds of THOUSANDS of years. Biology HAS NOT CAUGHT UP WITH SOCIETY. Understand that.

Men are supposed to be promiscuous by nature. Women are not. Hundreds of thousands of years of evolution has led to these differences in biology. The last hundred years of change in society is NOT EVEN A WRINKLE in evolution. It has no merit in speaking of biology. You cannot compare how society has changed recently versus how the two genders EVOLVED HUNDREDS of THOUSANDS of years ago.

Again, men are promiscuous. Women are not. The only morons who will disagree with these blatant facts of biology and evolution are people brainwashed with feminist propoganda with the sole agenda of fuvking men over for our PERCEIVED wrongs.

 

[Desdinova]

So what's the moral of the story? Marriage as an institution is dead.

I have to disagree with the moral. You mentioned it, but missed the flaw. Here it is:

she meets some dude who worships her - I mean buys her fancy gifts, takes her on cruises, skiing, blah, blah...

If YOU had been the one to marry her and you didn't change into an AFC, I could guarantee that she'd worship the ground that YOU walk on, and she wouldn't even think of cheating on you.

Marriage is only an institution for AFCs. A Don Juan wouldn't let it become an institution.

 

[azanon]

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Marriage just doesn't seem to get a fair shake here, lol. I guess naturally so. My comments:

>Some of you are extremely hung up on the virgin vs. a girl having a sexual past? WhyTF do you even care (provided she doesnt have an STD)??? You know, her twa** does go back to the original position a few hours later. Its a teenage myth that it doesn't. If the girl's STD free (by all means, make her get a test and show you paperwork), then maybe its a good thing she learned some tricks from her past! Ultimately, i'd just want to know that the woman is healthy, and is going to act mature.

>You know, the right woman will cook for you, do your laundry, bring home a second paycheck (or even the only one!), clean the house/apt, raise your kids, etc. etc. day in and day out? Single fellows, when you do your laundry, promise you'll think of ole azanon, because my wife does mine. Also, when I get an itching for some p****, just imagine how little effort it takes me as a married guy. Hell, i dont even have to dress up. I can hit it then go back about my business. Its no long-drawn out process, such as getting on the phone and hoping your FB is available (and not f****** some other chump). In short, eat your heart out.

Anyway, I'm not knocking the single life per se. It certainly has its upsides. But if you think being single is a slam dunk, then you just dont understand how the right woman can treat you like a king. Sex is great; i love sex. But sex isnt everything. I imagine you guys have laundry and get hungry just like i do. Say hi to Ronald McDonald for me when you get hungry, kk?

Azanon

 

[aftershock]

Last Man Standing = Puerto Rican Lover.

Same posting style, same age, same views.

 

[PRMoon]

You're forgetting something. Yes, "those days are over". But evolution takes AT LEAST hundreds of THOUSANDS of years. Biology HAS NOT CAUGHT UP WITH SOCIETY. Understand that.

Men are supposed to be promiscuous by nature. Women are not. Hundreds of thousands of years of evolution has led to these differences in biology. The last hundred years of change in society is NOT EVEN A WRINKLE in evolution. It has no merit in speaking of biology. You cannot compare how society has changed recently versus how the two genders EVOLVED HUNDREDS of THOUSANDS of years ago.

Again, men are promiscuous. Women are not. The only morons who will disagree with these blatant facts of biology and evolution are people brainwashed with feminist propoganda with the sole agenda of fuvking men over for our PERCEIVED wrongs.

I'm not saying we've evolved beyond the genetic disposition of promiscuity but we have to realize the concequences of our acts as well. If I knock up tons of chicks and skip out on my kids, even though this is expected of me, I've created some very bad situations for children in our world. Human society has evolved faster then humans themselves so even though it's genetically possible and understandable, it's societally unsound to think this way. We live in society and have the ability to change our enviorment through our siences. We have different responsibilties then that of gorillas because we've shaped our world and are not as subject to the rules of nature as they. They have the rules of nature and we have rules of nature AND of our created world. Thus giving us more responsibility in several areas. That is the essance of social responsibility.

 

[Latinoman]

This is how I see things...

She was sleeping and doing things with her man. And she was doing it with only ONE man. The guy she felt was HER MAN.

We cannot critisize a woman for acting like a slvt in bed with ONE man. After all...there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, that's how we want our wives or future wives to behave in bed. This girl was sleeping in a frequent basis with only ONE man. She was not in a series of one-night-stands or sleeping with multiple partners or cheating. And assuming that is the correct assumption, then there is nothing wrong with her actions (one-partner and sexual liberated).

All that said...there are only two issues that I personally find disturbing and pathetic:

1- She inviting a former lover to the wedding. That was classless.

2- The groom crying like a woman that just won "Miss U.S.A." crown.

If any of you have issues keeping a woman (LTR or wife or etc.) satisfied to the point that she only has eyes on you for a VERY LONG TIME...then you are NOT a DJ or you lacked judgment picking your partner. As a true DJ can manage keeping a woman interested on him for YEARS. And it takes skills as you truly have to make her believe (and know) that there is no man out there like you.

 

[Aaron B]

I didn't say you should marry a virgin. I said you shouldn't marry at all - because essentially you are devoting your life, money and resources to what's essentially used goods. Plus, if you're a don juan you should have many options for years to come so why just settle.

Well, see its often more complicated that this. I got married for the second time in July, and I'm 31 as mentioned previously. After my first marriage ended, I was a hard-core "no marriage" guy.

I got married for a couple of reasons. Foremost is that my wife has an 11 year old son and after a year of dating I wanted us to live together. But I didn't want to have to take any flack from the father (her son lives with us one week and the dad the next) over her living with her "boyfriend."

The second reason is, she never developed the skills to hold down a job and pay her bills every month. I rescued her from a bad financial situation where she was about to lose her car and would soon have lost her apartment. She needed my leadership financially. She works as a waitress and gives me her earnings everyday. I make all financial decisions and if she needs money, she has to get it from me.

Technically I suppose we could have had this arrangement without being married, but I figured it would be the best thing so we got married. I didn't buy her a $10,000 rock. In fact, I didn't buy her a rock at all.

My other point is to not be that guy: the guy that puts the girl on the pedestal. The guy that spends tons of dough. The guy that puts himself out there emotionally and tries to be romantic and kisses the ground a girl walks on. Because chances are there was a guy in her past who didn't have to go through all that in order to get into her pants.

I totally agree. This was me in the past and I have finally learned to see every situation for what it truly is. Buying women things is buying her attention, plain and simple, and is not necessary to get what you want out of your relationship.

Any man can buy her things. Few men can truly touch her inside. Which one are you?

I believe in giving women gifts, on occasion, when she has EARNED it. If you start the relationship buying her gifts, you are trying to earn her attention with your money.

 

[Raikojo17]

I said you shouldn't marry at all - because essentially you are devoting your life, money and resources to what's essentially used goods. Plus, if you're a don juan you should have many options for years to come so why just settle.

wat about when u get older and slow down from ur partying days? no one will want u anymore, so then it would be best to have settled before this happens. nothin wrong with having just one girl, that's DJ. having billions of options is more PUA to me.

 

[dietzcoi]

Aaron B - You "rescued" a waitress financially??

Now you have to deal with the 11 year olds father?

Do you not see that these are two very large RED FLAGS and a certain disaster coming down the tracks right at you??

Good luck!

Dietzcoi