Ex booty call's wedding... Why you should never get married!

[Luke Skywalker]

Truth has no emotions.

But this would be the ultimate on jerk-off material and that's the only emotion I'm feeling. There is no hate. And in the process, we are also ascertaining the truth or verity of the statements. Since I'm likely the only recovering porn addict on this site, others would be benefiting by seeing the truth, so in a sence, who cares what my motivations are, it's the truth that counts.

 

[Aaron B]

I agree with the premise of this thread as far as the groom weeping during the vows.

He honestly believes that she is a good, clean girl who has never done the things that the threadstarter has done to her.

The problem isn't her - its him (the groom). He isn't going to be able to please her so she will seek satisfaction outside the relationship and he is going to be hurt and it'll be all his fault for not being able to see the truth from the beginning because of the romanticized ideals he has grown up with.

Fact is, women want and enjoy sex as much or more than men (I believe moreso). Why do we expect them to control themselves and be virgins for us? Also, women SUBMIT sexually. It is in their nature to submit to being "sex puppets."

The key isn't finding a woman who hasn't had dirty things done to her - its finding a woman you are compatible with and rocking her world harder than its ever been rocked before.

Because I'm sure the threadstarter did a great job, but there is a man out there somewhere who can do it to her even better.

This is how I feel about my wife. We're both in our early thirties so I don't harbor any notions that she is "innocent" sexually. But I do know based on what she has said and what I can see that I rock her world far beyond what any other man has done, and I feel this is what will keep her from straying.

One problem I have encountered is its becoming more difficult to treat her like a "sex puppet" because now that we are married she expects more respect than she got in the past.

 

[vorbis]

CHRIST ALMIGHTY!!

This thread is making me depressed. Did the sexual revolution pass most of ye by???

Are ye all so insecure that you can't handle the idea of your girl having had sex with someone else? I fail to see how the groom is an afc. He's marrying a girl who presumably loves him and he presumable loves her. As long as she isn't cheating on him, how on earth can you call her a *****? There are some really, really, really bitter posters on this thread.

 

[BustedKnucks]

I think a better moral is don't invite your bride's ex-fvcks to your wedding.

 

[JPFromTally]

The Point Is...

I like guys like Aaron B and Leporello who may or may not disagree but can post a counterpoint with some intelligence behind it. Then you got deuschebag trolls who call you a name and don't provide anything worthwhile.. Oh well...

Anyway, the post is just a story of what happened to me. Take it for what it's worth. I didn't say you should marry a virgin. I said you shouldn't marry at all - because essentially you are devoting your life, money and resources to what's essentially used goods. Plus, if you're a don juan you should have many options for years to come so why just settle.

My other point is to not be that guy: the guy that puts the girl on the pedestal. The guy that spends tons of dough. The guy that puts himself out there emotionally and tries to be romantic and kisses the ground a girl walks on. Because chances are there was a guy in her past who didn't have to go through all that in order to get into her pants.

 

[jamescr73]

that was the greatest story ive read this month. Im in a very similar situation, except i was with the girl for 3 years (and there was some crazy shlt that went down during that time period) , now shes with a total afc, theyre supposedly in love after 1 month of being together, theyre talking about marriage, and in 1 sense it bothers me because i trained that bltch. She was damn good when we broke up. Now afc boy gets to take advantage of my training, but on the other hand, i dont think he has the balls to do the stuff i did to her. I do fell like a dodged a bullet though. Going to that wedding is going to be a fu(king blast!

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

So..after you, what kind of guy should she be with?

Others on this boards preach that she is damaged goods, hor, evil mutha-f. Maybe she is just sexually liberated by the original poster, moved on and found other things.

Some of you try to say that she should be banished like an outcast. She could be a good mother to his babies. Maybe he rocked her world better than the original poster and just cried because he couldnt hold it in. (too horny, drunk, stoned etc).

I know I've had deep issues with girls who had a crazy past before me. I've had the same issues with virgins either. Once a virgin loses her virginity it doesnt make her a hor. When that girl was with the original poster...Did he mention that she was a really hor? Cheated on him? Gave him hell? Redndered him back to AFC-land? I dont think so.

We've all had a colourful past too. We've done nasty a.ss things to women and they loved it. Does that mean we are not capable of being a good human being?

 

[Last Man Standing]

Anyway, the post is just a story of what happened to me. Take it for what it's worth. I didn't say you should marry a virgin. I said you shouldn't marry at all - because essentially you are devoting your life, money and resources to what's essentially used goods.

JP - this is the AFC generation - most dudes in here are going to marry "used" "damaged" goods err, bads

These young dudes haven't seen the havoc and downside of marrying these mentally unstable, physically deteriorating, and hopelessly desperate females who seek a lifetime mate after being physically and mentally ravaged by their many ex-pimps!

The ex-pimps had all the fun in her most glorious years - while the foolish husband takes all the responsibility to maintain her welfare and withstand her *****y attitude for the remainder of her years of decline!!

Why marry these kind of women? There is no benefit to the man to marry nowadays, (especially if he can get a crop of chicks) other than to raise children - and pray there isn't a divorce because he will be an even bigger loser, in all respects, after the divorce!!

Obviously, for those who do not have many options in your life and you don't want to be chasing women for the rest of your life then you will have no alternative but to settle with used goods and damaged bads! Just don't be the woman in the relationship!!

Only a fool would marry a hor!!! America is filled with fools!!!!

 

[sparky0000]

Sorry, but once a virgin loses her virginity it makes her a "hor" if it wasn't with the guy she is married to or will marry. Simple as that. You guys need to quit showing so much reverence for "hors" and show more respect for girls who have some morals. Not many of those in America these days

Reason 121 Why I Don't Deal With Girls Who Have Stepped Foot In America: They always must tell you about their past sexual partners Almost like they expect you to dig the fact that you didn't cross the finish line first.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

I am not saying go marry one...but what Im saying is that just because she was really experimental and sexually liberated doesnt mean shes goin to be a total hor, damaged goods or b1tch to anybody.

Hell I am put off by this marriage facade

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

So with the Djs here who have pumped, rebored, trashed and pillaged 20+ girls are perfectly allowed to marry or be with virgins.

Isnt there a double standard?

 

[Last Man Standing]

So with the Djs here who have pumped, rebored, trashed and pillaged 20+ girls are perfectly allowed to marry or be with virgins.

Isnt there a double standard?

Not a double standard rather it is a different standard because our natures are different - the man's obligation is to pursue a woman that he is visually attracted to and the female is the receptor of this action and determines whether she accepts his advances to build a life together obviously for familial purposes!! She is not choosing him to open her legs to him -- only hors do this!! Why? Because a life in the form of a baby is created and both need to raise him!!

That is why today there is so much hell going on in America because of these uncared for children made from lust and not love!!

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

Ahhh nice...well put wise man.

But I hear so much of the same story from virgins who've married. Saying that I am sick of the same thing over and over again. Statistically she not a hor. Only been with one guy. But has these tendency. Has he failed to satisfy her or has she got hor tedencies?

 

[Last Man Standing]

Ahhh nice...well put wise man.

But I hear so much of the same story from virgins who've married. Saying that I am sick of the same thing over and over again. Statistically she not a hor. Only been with one guy. But has these tendency. Has he failed to satisfy her or has she got hor tedencies?

No, a married woman cannot be a hor unless she has sexual contact with another dude!!

Her virgin status prior to marriage doesn't matter regarding her boredom -- all marriages and relationships gets to the stage where the excitement wears off -- this has nothing to do with sex!!

Have you ever done something new and after a while that hobby doesn't seem to fulfill you as it once did when you first started it ?? We all have gone through this - this is a human trait and has nothing to do with sex!!

We become accoustomed to men and women once we spend a lot of time with each other and after a while seems like old hat - the same when you go to work and do the same job over and over - life becomes boring!!

A new penis in her won't solve her boredom - the cycle will repeat guaranteed!!!

 

[PRMoon]

Not a double standard rather it is a different standard because our natures are different - the man's obligation is to pursue a woman that he is visually attracted to and the female is the receptor of this action and determines whether she accepts his advances to build a life together obviously for familial purposes!! She is not choosing him to open her legs to him -- only hors do this!! Why? Because a life in the form of a baby is created and both need to raise him!!

That is why today there is so much hell going on in America because of these uncared for children made from lust and not love!!

I find flaw with this. Though indeed our natures are different as in Men pair widely and women pair wisely (which i think is the point you're driving at) that time has come and gone. That's the methodology of animals who live in large groups. The "alpa male" of these groups gets breeding rights and gets to nail the best females to better the chances of stronger children ensuring the continuation and empowerment of the species.

Unfortunately those days are over. In our complex societies, there's just as much responsibility in males to stick with a mate as a woman. Me beng seductive and having ONS is just as irresponsible as the girls who were doomed to fall in to my spider web the moment they stepped through the door. Be it alcohol or narcotics, I effectively take away whatever inhibitions they had about not having sex with me which they might have thought twice about if they were sober and in their normal state of mind. It's not their fault, they just got schooled in playerdom 101.

What's also incorrect is assuming this is the cause of all of these single children in america. We can thank the womans lib movment for that fine peice. They're the ones who've been saying women can do anything a man can and do it openly. So now instead of having their fun in a quite manner out of public view (as it's been since near the dawn of civilization) they can do it openly. Men would claim babies that weren't theres cause their wife cheated on them out of pure embarrassment that they didn't have a firm grip on their house hold. Still at the same time they'd be nailing their neighbors wife on the side secretly as well. Now days since women "don't need men for as much" and have been participating in the work force a great deal more, they've got no problem divorcing. And lets not even get started on the so called "men" who knock up girl after girl after girl then skip town like scared little b*tches.

Honestly the world of man is a pretty complex an sometimes f*cked up place. I love it because i've got no where else to go. Still, humans are what's wrong in the world not just women. Point your finger and there are three pointing back and all. Ultimately there really is no right or wrong. It's just life.

 

[PRMoon]

dbl pst

 

[dietzcoi]

LMS: "Why marry these kind of women? There is no benefit to the man to marry nowadays, (especially if he can get a crop of chicks) other than to raise children - and pray there isn't a divorce because he will be an even bigger loser, in all respects, after the divorce!!"

AMEN!

Dietzcoi

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

yea say no to marrying

 

[Last Man Standing]

Dietzcoi - change your mailbox settings so that you can accept private messages!!

 

[dietzcoi]

LMR

I am at work so I don't think that is a good idea.. I need to get internet connected at home...

Dietzcoi