Dating and Relationships
So after having a brutal week from school I decided I needed a mini vacation break. Me and my friends decided to do a mini roadtrip to Pennsylvania and Pittsburgh. We made our first stop at Grove City PA because they all wanted to do some shopping at the outlet mall. The mall had a decent amount of hot women there, but I didn't really do any approaches because I couldn't pull the girl or anything. So I said fcuk it. Afterwards we all headed to Pittsburgh since it was only an hrs drive away. At this point I started to getting really horny. We found a Inn on some street called mexican war street. It was some big ass mansion right on the street beside the YMCA. Anyways we greeted by a friendly gentlemen there who I assumed was the owner. Anyways he brought us to our room, and then we saw some freaky as old painting on the wall. Then we started hearing bell chimes from outside. We went outside to the hallwall and saw an old grandfather clock. We were like ah $hit this place is haunted lol. I was kind of worried at this point. Anyways we chilled at the Inn for a bit and I got kind of wasted from taking shots. I told my boys we need to go to a club or something.
So we hit up the clubbing district in Pittsburgh. I immediately try to open some chick with "excuse" which I was going to follow up with "I'm new in town, what's the happening place to be at?" but the ***** ignored me after 3 attempts lol. We ended up going to some club called Diesel. It had 3 floors. The best part of it was that cover was only $7. In Toronto, these muther****ers charge $15-20 on average for mediocre clubs. The place had a pretty good ratio of women to guys something like 40:60 or something. I also realized while I was here that there aren't many east asians. I think I maybe saw 2-3 at most while I was here. I was getting stares and looks from people while I was walking around the city earlier today as well at the club. I started to move my body and gave a guy a nodd when we made eye contact. I was starting to get into the rhyme there and saw some girls I wanted to approach but then my buddies wanted to go check out upstairs. So we made it all the way to the third which had a balcony and bar. Me and my best friend started talking for abit, then he approached two girls beside us. I quickly came in and helped winged him. There was 2 girls, a blonde slim attractive one, and some fat brunette. Since he was already talking to the blonde, I tried to help him and talk to the fatty. I had to alternate between the both of the them when he ran out of $hit to say.
Anyway, we eventually ran out of $hit to say, so my buddy asked them if they wanted something to drink but the girls declined him so me and him hit the bar. I immediately opened some attractive brunette who was by her self using I'm new in town, is this the happening place here". I didn't get too far with her though lol. Anyways my buddy grabs me a bud light and we start talking again. My other two beta friends then rejoin us and we start talking. Then my buddy is like, those two girls we were talking to earlier are checking us out again, then maybe like 1-2 min the two girls approach us and put on my beads on our heads and we pick up where our conversation left off. We found one the blonde one is getting hitched and its there bachelorette party. They tell us they have a table with bottle service and then tell us there friends are sitting there. Then my buddy throws me under the table by telling one of the girls I'm a stripper part-time. At that moment I didn't know how to react to it, the blonde chick tells me she wants to see some moves lol. I didn't know what to do so it got a little awkward thankfully we somehow managed to recover. I think in the future if that happens again, I'm gonna pick up the chick and spin her around or something. Anyways her two other friends join us, but unfortunately are also fat and taken lol. So after a while my buddy asks the blonde one to go dance and I'm stuck with the fatty lol. Then my buddy asks them again if they want a drink and this time they agree. So we all go grab a shot that my buddy pays for then the blonde chick asks us to go downstairs to dance with them. Initially I was stuck dancing with the fatty, but then somehow we started partners and I ended up dancing with the blonde chick, but then after a few minutes the fcuking fatty ****blocks me and switches partners again so I'm now stuck with the fatty again wtf.
So we dance again, and what do you know the fatty starts looking into my eyes and leaning in. I knew at this point what she wanted to do. In my head I was thinking ah $hit, I'm going to have to take one for the team. Luckily I was piss drunk at this point so my inhibitions were a lot lower and I just said fcuk it and just went in for the kiss. This was the first time I ever kissed a chick in a club. I wasn't sure if I was doing anything right or wrong. After the kiss I was like wtf, that was nothing. Here I had this crazy idea that a kiss was this and that but then when I actually did it it was fcuking nothing like a tuesday. Then throughout the night, this fat ***** kept trying to kiss me and I had to just fcuking take it. I even had to french kiss her and stick my tonge in her mouth, fcuking disgusting. Then after abit, this fat ***** somehow ends up talking to some white guy on the sidelines and they start making out. Thank god I got rid of her. My buddy was at this point getting into some hot and steamy dance moves with the bride to be and in my head I was thinking you better fcuking make out with her or fcuk this girl because I just kissed this fat girl. After abit, the fatty came back and started dancing with me again, at this point I didn't want to make out with her again because she just made out with some other guy. Then after maybe 10-15 she started leaning in again, ah fcuk. I didn't want to leave my best bud hanging so I just took the hit and gulped down my beer. About maybe 30-1hr later, the two girls other two friends grabbed them and they took off. Holy fcuk, I just made out with a fatty. This is going to fcuking traumatize me for life lol. I kept on spitting out profusely out in the streets and wanted to get home right away so that I could brush my teeth and throw up. I mean it was bad enough having to make out with her, but to do it after she swapped saliva with another dude that's ****ed up but if I didn't she would have pulled the bride to be away from my buddy. As soon as we got back, I went straight to the washroom and brushed my teeth and tongue profusely.
Anyways what's done is done. I finally got my first kiss in a club. It was a reference experience none the less and hopefully I can leverage it for future makeouts with more attractive girls. I had to make out with this fatty like 10-12 times gross. I did grind it out with both chicks so I guess it was a +. Overall I'd say a pretty good night. One thing I found about Pittsburgh was that the girls there were way more easier to talk to and open to meeting you. In Toronto, those fcuking *****es wouldn't even give me the time of the day. Coming here for the first time and getting a makeout is pretty good. I'd definitely come back here again. It makes me kind of curious now that if maybe I was living in the states somewhere like Pittsburgh perhaps my luck with women would have been a lot different compared to Toronto. Also there was an insane amount of traffic on the street when we left the club. Way more girls condensed in a smaller area compared to Toronto.
When we got back to Toronto and crossed the border, I immediately texted this chick from eHarmony who had given me her # on friday but because I was out of the country I didn't want to text her and get ditched for roaming charges. Anyways I text her and she responds immediately and then asks me a few questions. It took me 10 minutes to reply back bc I wanted to craft a good response. Anyways she didn't reply back to me after that, which was weird. I get back home and go look up eHarmony and I found that this ***** just blocked me wtf. Wow, what a high maintenance *****. I also have two other girls lined up on eHarmony as well. I'm not sure if I mentioned this or not, but I also met another chick from my boxing class last week, a blonde Italian girl. She isn't the best looking maybe a 6 at best but I really liked her personality and she was very playful which I like. Anyways when we were sparring, this ***** goes straight for my nutts. I was like wtf, you just punched me in the balls lol. If she does this again, next time I'm going to pick up her and spank her or punch her in the boobs. I'm going to try and get her # this week when I see her as well since its the last week of boxing so its now or never. I also tried to add that white chick from my salsa class who I chickened out of asking out. Since I don't see her anymore, I had to do it through facebook. She hasn't accepted my friend add yet, so we'll see what happens. I suspect that the indian chick who I went on a date, badmouthed me to her since they are kind of friends so I think now she doesn't like me but we'll see what happens.
School and Career
I have decided after much thought that I will be appealing the decision of my department. Now I just need to figure the hell out how to do it so that it gives me the best chance of success.
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