Mike32ct said:
As everybody knows, I haven't been with a lot of women, like 8+. But every single one of them told me they didn't like receiving oral so I never got to try it. I always wanted to though.
However, I don't feel sorry for women who can't climax during intercourse. When men have a problem getting it up or climaxing, we try to fix it. Cut out porn or go no fap or something like that.
But you'll never hear a woman's forum telling females to go on a "no vibrator/dildo/50ShadesBook" challenge for 30 days to make themselves more sensitive to their partner's peen lol. They just blame the guy while they wear out their **** with battery powered toys that human male can compete with lol. Then blame their partner when can't give her the same results.
Ive had a couple women say they didnt want me to go down. But it turned out they were self conscious about a guy between their legs and they ended up enjoying it. Though I did have one girl who just wasnt into any kind of oral at all. However, from talking to her it seemed she didnt want a guy to go down in order to avoid him expecting her to give head. Oh wells...I dont mind banging if its a quick fling...but a girl cant be a FWB or girlfriend if she doesnt enjoy oral (giving and receiving). It just comes off as a lame hang up and a turn off. Honestly bro, if its something you want to try just get the girl comfortable and go for it. That is unless she is adamantly against it (though Ive never come across that)
And I do feel sorry for anyone not having a good sex life. Despite what you said, if you check out sex forums, the first thing most women ask a girl whos having no orgasms with her guy is "do you masturbate?...are you able to get yourself off?". If the girl doesnt know her own body well, shes instructed to start learning more about herself. And if she does already enjoy masturbation, Ive seen women instructed to lay off any vibrators so they wont be desensitized to real sex.
Trust me. Go lurk on a sex forum, or a womans forum. You will see that. And sometimes the girls blame themselves for not being able to orgasm. There are plenty of threads online where the chick has not yet orgasmed with her guy, and sometimes not even with herself. And some of these women are honest about it and have an understanding guy who tries with them. And then there are women who sit and lie to their guy about her enjoyment...which usually ends up hurting them both....because she doesnt end up enjoying the sex...and if shes ever comes clean about faking enjoyment, the guy cant trust her and enjoy sex anymore.
Now, are there women who are largely selfish negative azzholes about sex, and assume its all on the guy for them to get off? Sure there are b!tches who blame dudes, but they are largely immature cvnts and usually the other women dont want them in the thread as they arent helping the OP. Smart men and women realize that having good sex is about two peoples feelings and skill...not just what the guy does. And sometimes, at the end of the day people will tell an OP they just might not have chemistry or the right physical fit with their partner. Which does happen.
Sometimes things dont link up well.
JoeMarron said:
It doesn't revolve around anyone's d!ck. It revolves around what a man does to her mind. Hell a chick can even get off through hypnosis without even being touched. If you wanna get into sex ed, the cl!t isn't just the bulb on the outside, it extends throughout the area internally, that's why some chicks get aroused from a full bladder and that's why the deep spot feels good. Sure there might be women who legitimately can't have a vaginal orgasm but I bet many of them can't because they're carrying around limiting beliefs and are with men who can't turn them on properly.
I agree that the mind is powerful when it comes to sex. Hell, we've all heard of dudes who bust nuts without being touched (which sucks, unless you want that to happen). But despite the power of the mind, almost all people need physical touch to orgasm. The mind is a part of getting us all prepped for that, but my earlier point is that no man or woman should ignore important avenues towards orgasm.
Having some variety and a complete arsenal will keep your partner fully satisfied. Are some women happy without oral? Sure, just like some dudes can live without it. However, if one talks to enough people, and does enough research, youll see how important oral sex is for men and women to be completely happy with their sex lives. Oral has become a vanilla expectation in the bedroom.