Early 20's girls dating 30+ guys is BS

[pipeman84]

Speaking of dating coaches....he really isn't one anymore but this reminds me of Zan Perrion....the guy is born in 1963 and his wife in 1990. They've been together for 10 years, married for ~3. So a guy that walks the talk.

 

[user252009]

Those guys are pushing the strollers down the street because they fell for the epiphany phase. Every single one. Your making stuff up in your head OP

No, they're not. I mean yeah there's those guys as well, but a lot of social environments here are groupings of couples, and they're VERY often (more than not) paired up good looking guy with a good looking girl.

 

[user252009]

Yes dude. Even ugly people find love. There is no point in this mental drain. If you like a girl talk to her. Idgaf if she is 21or 35.
If the guy is 40 or 25.

The only rule in sex is there is no rules. Only laws. Thats it.
Our friend @DEEZEDBRAH tells us all the time. There are girls turning 18 everyday. The barriers are not age money hair skin looks or cars. Its the brain and its crazy thinking.

My girl is 12 years younger then me. Im on record saying every guy atleast 32 should have a -10 years target zone. Thats your hottest most fertile females to our male hind brains.
A 20 year old boy wanting the 40 yr old milf is a mommy fetish. He will someday want a young hot woman. Bank it

True, I have a potential plate in place, around 20 now, so definitely is possible; I'm just saying that it's not something you would see here all the time.

 

[Snag87]

have you seen what prices they charge ?

I was shocked

I had a friend enroll in a week-long bootcamp. I asked him what the cost was, expecting it to be between $1,500 to $2,000. You could have knocked me over with a feather when I heard "9,000."

 

[Bigpapa]

I had a friend enroll in a week-long bootcamp. I asked him what the cost was, expecting it to be between $1,500 to $2,000. You could have knocked me over with a feather when I heard "9,000."

like redpill guys , the pua guys just feast on the misery of guys

 

[SmoothSmooth]

drake trey songz etc are late 30s, it comes down to your own sex appeal. if she finds you sexy why would she care about your age. if youre ripped good looking and tall at 35 youll be sexy to 22 year old girls

 

[SmoothSmooth]

what alot of people fail to understand is women are very objective about smv.

if a guy is 37 with a 6 pack, large social circle, cool personality/flair, and good looking features (eyes, hair, teeth)...girls will always choose him than the 27 year old with a worse body, less interesting personality and small social circle. its every man vs every man, things like age race etc do not affect a womans limbic system or horniness. the person infront of them either makes them wet or dry, its an instant reaction not a cognitive decision. when girls are around you they either play with the hair and stroke their necks or look away in repulsion - this happens before they can figure out your age

calvin harris is 38 and has plenty 20 year old girls in his dm's, more so than any 25 year old male tiktok influencer

furthermore; attractive behaviour will either sustain her feelings of attraction or decrease them. if the 37 year old gets defensive about his age then she will dry up. if the 37 year old dominates socially by opening up a bar or throwing a party, her attraction increases.

its really that simple. work on your objective smv and act attractively (see mysterys attraction triggers).

if you are struggling with abundance of choice; your objective smv is either too low or you socially telegraph weird vibes
the whole 'act alpha/run game' thing is way overblown.

beyond aloof masculine body posture, speaking slowly/rhythmically, being willing to walk away and speaking/texting in a non needy way, there is nothing else you can learn and nothing else to game.
increase your smv by increasing your looks (skin care, gym body, hairstyle, designer clothes, teeth etc) , getting a good well paying job and some cool hobbies that give you a cool social network

 

[Bigpapa]

what alot of people fail to understand is women are very objective about smv.

if a guy is 37 with a 6 pack, large social circle, cool personality/flair, and good looking features (eyes, hair, teeth)...girls will always choose him than the 27 year old with a worse body, less interesting personality and small social circle. its every man vs every man, things like age race etc do not affect a womans limbic system or horniness. the person infront of them either makes them wet or dry, its an instant reaction not a cognitive decision. when girls are around you they either play with the hair and stroke their necks or look away in repulsion - this happens before they can figure out your age

calvin harris is 38 and has plenty 20 year old girls in his dm's, more so than any 25 year old male tiktok influencer

furthermore; attractive behaviour will either sustain her feelings of attraction or decrease them. if the 37 year old gets defensive about his age then she will dry up. if the 37 year old dominates socially by opening up a bar or throwing a party, her attraction increases.

its really that simple. work on your objective smv and act attractively.

I think that guys should remember that hot girls their age during high school or university always preferred older guys

mainly because they were way cooler than the guys their age

guys who complain about stuff like that , are always trying to shift the blame from them to someone else

the reality is that younger chicks do not find you attractive because you are a l00ser , not because you are older or whatever

This forums are all mega toxic

 

[SmoothSmooth]

I think that guys should remember that hot girls their age during high school or university always preferred older guys

mainly because they were way cooler than the guys their age

guys who complain about stuff like that , are always trying to shift the blame from them to someone else

the reality is that younger chicks do not find you attractive because you are a l00ser , not because you are older or whatever

This forums are all mega toxic

facts, have had university girls tell me the dudes in their university make them feel sick, before banging me.

these forums are toxic because the guys doing well with women are out living cool lives, throwing parties, making money and travelling...not discussing game

 

[SmoothSmooth]

also coming back to calvin harris, before people talk about fame. even if he wasnt a mega celebrity but just a local dj with some local clout (a local club dj at university parties and well known clubs) with an instagram following of 8,000 he would still clean up with prime women. they would idealise him as a local celebrity/rockstar and see his time as way more valuable than the guys at their university.
he is good looking, confident, has a cool lifestyle (dj/music artist), well dressed etc.
those are what count.

game is about sexualising your image and leading an enviable lifestyle before any 'techniques'

hot girls either see you as 'cool' or not. work on becoming cool. cool guys are few and far between in all age groups ... but 35 year old snoop dogg was cooler than 25 year old snoop dogg for example (look at him in drop it like its hot vs gin and juice) age isnt a limting factor (beyond extremes)

 

[Bigpapa]

also coming back to calvin harris, before people talk about fame. even if he wasnt a mega celebrity but just a local dj with some local clout (a local club dj at university parties and well known clubs) with an instagram following of 8,000 he would still clean up with prime women. they would idealise him as a local celebrity/rockstar and see his time as way more valuable than the guys at their university.
he is good looking, confident, has a cool lifestyle (dj/music artist), well dressed etc.
those are what count.

game is about sexualising your image and leading an enviable lifestyle before any 'techniques'

hot girls either see you as 'cool' or not. work on becoming cool. cool guys are few and far between in all age groups ... but 35 year old snoop dogg was cooler than 25 year old snoop dogg for example (look at him in drop it like its hot vs gin and juice) age isnt a limting factor (beyond extremes)

it is always about being cool , not about what age you have

And also besides being cool , you also have to be social and learn how to make friends easy and fast , even though they are not real friends

if you want the quality girls , it is mainly about social circle . But in social circles no one wants to be friends with the uncool person

you have to learn on how to bring value to the table

think about high school or university who were the cool dudes . They were the athletes , the guys who were organizing parties at their place , the guys who knew the dealers , the guys who were rich and used money to buy stuff for people ( alcohol , etc ) , the guys who knew a lot of people , etc

even in your 30s , the same guys are cool

 

[SmoothSmooth]

are you a 35 year old that faps every night and lives in a wack part of town and has less social boldness than her 20 year old friends?

or are you a 35 year old with a penthouse, travels on luxury trips, more confidence than 25 year olds and has cool hobbies?

news flash, the expectations change with age.

theres a MASSIVE difference between a 35 year old with a cool penthouse and cool hobby (eg interesting youtube channel) and a 35 year old incel/chump. they wouldnt see eye to eye, because the first guy wouldnt respect the second enough to have a convo. the first one has been working on himself for decades.
the ONLY thing they have in common in age, which means nothing. its like comparing a heart surgeon to a prisoner - just because they have the same age - and thinking theyll have the same dating options.

and a 38 year old, good looking heart surgeon that knows game would have a better shot with a 21 year old nursing student than 99% of the guys in her university. in fact; he could date 10 of those nurses whilst the university guys would feel lucky to get one

 

[Bigpapa]

are you a 35 year old that faps every night and lives in a wack part of town and has less social boldness than her 20 year old friends?

or are you a 35 year old with a penthouse, travels on luxury trips, more confidence than 25 year olds and has cool hobbies?

news flash, the expectations change with age.

theres a MASSIVE difference between a 35 year old with a cool penthouse and cool hobby (eg interesting youtube channel) and a 35 year old incel/chump. they wouldnt see eye to eye, because the first guy wouldnt respect the second enough to have a convo. the first one has been working on himself for decades.
the ONLY thing they have in common in age, which means nothing. its like comparing a heart surgeon to a prisoner - just because they have the same age - and thinking theyll have the same dating options.

guys should focus more on their lifestyle than to try to bang women

the better the lifestyle you have ( especially the social one ) , the more exponential ( not linear ) the growth is in terms of women

doing cold approaches I do not find it worthy . Yes it works , but I think that this should be more like an additional thing that you do as it is extremely time consuming and not that consistent in terms of quality

better put 60-70% of that time into building your social circle . Way better ROI on the medium and long term

 

[SmoothSmooth]

guys should focus more on their lifestyle than to try to bang women

the better the lifestyle you have ( especially the social one ) , the more exponential ( not linear ) the growth is in terms of women

doing cold approaches I do not find it worthy . Yes it works , but I think that this should be more like an additional thing that you do as it is extremely time consuming and not that consistent in terms of quality

better put 60-70% of that time into building your social circle . Way better ROI on the medium and long term

true, cold approach will only give you consistent easy results if you already have the social circle and lifestyle (for example you cold approach girls then exchange instagrams and she can see it all). i have a very high ROI on cold approach ever since building up an instagram that shows my social value (pictures with attractive friends and women; professional action shots doing my hobbies, posting stories at the cool spots and restaurants, many followers, designer clothes etc). its like easy mode. instagram is the best thing to ever happen to cold approach game.

preselection is everything in game. women arent going to make a decision on a stranger based on a short random conversation, but if your instagram shows high preselection, they will flock

 

[Bigpapa]

true, cold approach will only give you consistent easy results if you already have the social circle and lifestyle (for example you cold approach girls then exchange instagrams and she can see it all). i have a very high ROI on cold approach ever since building up an instagram that shows my social value (pictures with attractive friends and women; professional action shots doing my hobbies, posting stories at the cool spots and restaurants, many followers, designer clothes etc). its like easy mode. instagram is the best thing to ever happen to cold approach game.

preselection is everything in game. women arent going to make a decision on a stranger based on a short random conversation, but if your instagram shows high preselection, they will flock

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[Pokerbaby]

It's not bull**** at all.

I am in my late 40's, look young enough to say I'm 45. When people ask I just say 45. But I can't say any younger with my receding hairline and my weight. I'm about 30-40 pounds overweight. Working on it but still remain overweight.

Poland - I lived in Poland when I was in my early 40's. At the time I was not overweight and yes it is Poland but I was routinely dating women in their 20's. In fact, women in their late 20's and 30's were generally much harder to pickup often because Polish women marry so young and stay faithful. It's a different reality. With all my approached, I never had one Polish woman say they wouldn't go out with me because I was too old. Usually when my age came up, the women there responded with "42 is not so old". The youngest I dated there was 20. I am certain though if I worked on some girls in their late teens this would have been possible.

I had to leave Poland for various personal reasons and moved back to ****hole known as Toronto.

But even in ****ty Toronto, I can still pull a hot 20-something once in a while. Despite my looks going south. Basically all I need is a situation where I can talk to women and express confidence and humor.

Here's a recap of my last successful interaction about a month ago:

I'm in a Poker room (one of my hobbies) which is male dominated except for some of the dealers, waitresses and masseuses. There's a masseuse who's absolutely beautiful ..solid 9.

I ask for a massage. She thinks "standard mid 40's beta male" I'm sure.

I tell her that her massage wasn't that good (I'm sure 90% of guys are complimenting oher on her massage skill trying to score points).

Then I say:

"Here's the thing. Something I noticed that is very creepy and strange about you. (She looks at me like what the ****? and starts to smile )I've been to this poker room many times and I have never seen you here. I have a theory about you. I don't think you are actually a masseuse here. I think you are actually one of the poker players. You saw a chance to rub the shoulders of a good looking older man and decided to impersonate one. Somewhere in the casino there's some poor girl tied up in a broom closet, just so that you could be here with me."

The entire table starts cracking up. A few guys there are dead silent, completely shocked that I could say something like that. One of the guys starts saying .."you need to shut up! There was one female at the table, though not very attractive and she starts cracking up. I'm in full game mode.

I chat a little while longer with massage girl and then I just say "I'm taking you out for dinner this weekend, what's your phone number?" I don't even ask (you never ask) I don't even say "lets go out". I just basically don't give her any choice. I got her name and phone number.
It's sad to read this thread and see guys insist that it's still all about age and looks. It isn't. Most older guys are even more beta like than their younger selves thinking nice guy approach will attract young girls because younger guys are jerks. Or they try to show off thier money.

Try a little game guys..it works.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yes dude. Even ugly people find love. There is no point in this mental drain. If you like a girl talk to her. Idgaf if she is 21or 35.
If the guy is 40 or 25.

The only rule in sex is there is no rules. Only laws. Thats it.
Our friend @DEEZEDBRAH tells us all the time. There are girls turning 18 everyday. The barriers are not age money hair skin looks or cars. Its the brain and its crazy thinking.

My girl is 12 years younger then me. Im on record saying every guy atleast 32 should have a -10 years target zone. Thats your hottest most fertile females to our male hind brains.
A 20 year old boy wanting the 40 yr old milf is a mommy fetish. He will someday want a young hot woman. Bank it

The gap widens as you get older. My criteria for pulling is the boner test 6+ and young. You got skanks skiing down cawk mountain and thinking the free ride is until infinite. I don't try to explain. I pull, I next &&& I troll.