Don't take online dating too seriously

[patb]

But isn't cold approaching just as bad if you are looking for a connection? You know even less about each other and it's more forced. I am not trying to argue, just curious. Would you say social circle is the only viable option when looking for a long term partner?

I would say so. That's why so many of us are just ****ed (not in a good way).

 

[MatureDJ]

Had an online date with a 43-year-old (I'm 45). She was tall (5'7") with long blond hair and resembled Cameron Diaz in the face.

However, there was something off about her (eyes darted around a lot) and a very airhead personality which is big turn off.

She also lived at home with her parents (at 43)

She also didn't drink on the date and said she had to be in early if I didn't mind. The whole date only lasted an hour and I thought she wasn't interested (which was fine by me) but then suggested we go for dinner next week?

Maybe she was doing this?

Multiple dates in a night: the dos and don’ts

Face it, your first meet-up with someone whom you met online will not last all night. Multiple meet-ups in one night are fine, but there are some basic rules one should follow in order to keep from hurting someone’s feelings.

www.thestar.com

 

[MatureDJ]

Wheat Waffles made an excellent video on how to play your cards in dating. In going through the Wheat Waffles flow chart, I got Daygame as my best option. I have been a mostly daygame guy for about a decade, so it served as confirmation that I have done the right thing.

I went through his flowchart (I presumed that my borderline-Chad face & < 5'6" still puts me in his sub-5 group), and it said I should GeoMax. I've been following his advice all this time!