Dont feel like dating anymore

[AttackFormation]

I agree with that to an extent with a qualifier. Getting sex is very difficult for most men because they have no game and don’t take care of themselves. If you take the time to understand women and take good care of yourself, you can get sex fairly easily. Maybe not from a HB8+ easily, but otherwise yes.

No, getting sex is very difficult and exasperating because we are male mammals and that's how it works for us. If everyone had "game" and took care of themselves, that would be the new square one, just like reading and writing 1000 years ago automatically made you at least middle class but is now something that even kids learn.

You can literally always tell a male of a tournament species like ours to "work harder", no matter how hard they have worked, which makes it a dubious and smug argument. It's similar to saying that if you just had no preferences whatsoever and would fvck literally anyone, taking viagra if necessary to get hard, then you could have sex. So what? And combine those arguments for the worst kind of argument.

 

[BadBoy89]

You do know at 48 years old, assuming you are in good shape, took good care of yourself, stylish .. You are perfectly capable of dating women in their early 30s. Maybe even late 20s.

I don’t know bro. I‘m early 40s, I got funds, look ok, got a personal trainer, got game, and sometimes can‘t get divorced women in their mid to late 30s to call me back.

I’m not 6’1 though. Don’t want to make another thread about height, but personally I think any woman over 30 won’t look too much at a guy who is not tall.

 

[cola]

I don’t know bro. I‘m early 40s, I got funds, look ok, got a personal trainer, got game, and sometimes can‘t get divorced women in their mid to late 30s to call me back.

I’m not 6’1 though. Don’t want to make another thread about height, but personally I think any woman over 30 won’t look too much at a guy who is not tall.

Yes, I’d be lying if I said height doesn’t limit your choices the same as being fat, race, acne .. we all have something that would disqualify us to a percentage of women. Where are you meeting your women?

 

[Robert28]

I don’t know bro. I‘m early 40s, I got funds, look ok, got a personal trainer, got game, and sometimes can‘t get divorced women in their mid to late 30s to call me back.

I’m not 6’1 though. Don’t want to make another thread about height, but personally I think any woman over 30 won’t look too much at a guy who is not tall.

And it’s weird they double down on the height thing at that age because most already have kids and don’t want anymore so it’s not for reproductive reasons.

 

[FruitLoops]

You've managed to do what, imo, the majority of men are incapable of achieving:

1. Be happy alone and content in your own company (you are totally independent. Many "relationships" of whatever form remain because of dependency and attachment issues. Even abandonment issues)

2. You are the absolute master of your desires. This is powerful. Men who are slaves to their desires will consistently a) lower their standards b) be victims of manipulation c) incapable of walking away from substandard interactions d) incapable of saying no

I see you in a state of sublime indifference, but you don't recognize it and instead of giving you supreme confidence you are doubting yourself. To be in a state of extreme indifference in today's current climate (covid, modern women) is not a bad state to be in at all.

Sit back and observe. You are young, take your time to decide what you want.

There is no obligation for men to be compulsive daters. If you observe it is an obsession for some men....another 1950's style date and another 1950's style date and another 1950's style date and another 1950's style date. To what end.

There is no obligation for men be sexually active all the time either. Sure everyone has their sexual strategy and all good to them. Choosing a period of celibacy for whatever reason can be very powerful for a man. You learn to be discerning when you return to the table.

Just sit back and enjoy your state without throwing labels at it.

Well that settles it for me..i am not going crazy.

 

[FruitLoops]

Yes, I’d be lying if I said height doesn’t limit your choices the same as being fat, race, acne .. we all have something that would disqualify us to a percentage of women. Where are you meeting your women?

I agree with you. Various factors disqualify us with certain women. I am a brown immigrant and i rarely get success with white women.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I dont miss either; dating or sex.Can this be 'low T' like someone here pointed out.

You had enough bull shyt and recognized the amount of distraction and energy and other costs of dating. The no sex is low tee or just temporarily fed up with women.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I agree with you. Various factors disqualify us with certain women. I am a brown immigrant and i rarely get success with white women.

Which types are liking you?

 

[corrector]

I have been in monk mode for almost 1 year now. During this time I completed my studies and got my dream job. But now after staying away from dating for so long, I am much happier and content with staying single that i dont feel like dating anymore. Is that normal? Or am i going crazy?

I have been monk mode for 7 years. You are ethnicel like I am so you are not just having problems with white women, other ethnic women idiolize white men so its a double disadvantage. Its probably easier to get a white woman than a woman of your own race right?

 

[Barrister]

You mean get sex easily from a girl with the exploding tree trunk legs in the other thread? No thanks.lol You can have all the game you want but if you aren’t a tall Chad that she fancies, you have no shot. Oh maybe in a few years when she’s overweight and desperate but who wants to be second place to a girl far from her prime?

No. That isn’t what I meant. I mean routinely bang HB 6-7s with regularity. It isn’t difficult despite what you say. I have what I would say is good SMV. Good job, good money. I’m 6 foot and in good shape and I would say most women think I am handsome. But I’m not 6’3 super model “Chad”. I’m also not filthy rich and I have a kid of my own. I can pickup women fairly easily. Not tree trunk ladies. Solid looking women. The HB8+ variety is harder to secure sure - but it happens.

 

[Robert28]

No. That isn’t what I meant. I mean routinely bang HB 6-7s with regularity. It isn’t difficult despite what you say. I have what I would say is good SMV. Good job, good money. I’m 6 foot and in good shape and I would say most women think I am handsome. But I’m not 6’3 super model “Chad”. I’m also not filthy rich and I have a kid of my own. I can pickup women fairly easily. Not tree trunk ladies. Solid looking women. The HB8+ variety is harder to secure sure - but it happens.

Your good job and good money isn’t getting you women, trust me. Your height and your looks are opening those doors.

 

[FruitLoops]

Which types are liking you?

So getting brown girls (Indian) have been the easiest for me. Same country, same race. All it takes is to talk to them and i almost always land a date. But even with them there is a lot of same bullsh*t as other women. So now i dont really bother with brown girls either.

 

[Barrister]

No, getting sex is very difficult and exasperating because we are male mammals and that's how it works for us. If everyone had "game" and took care of themselves, that would be the new square one, just like reading and writing 1000 years ago automatically made you at least middle class but is now something that even kids learn.

You can literally always tell a male of a tournament species like ours to "work harder", no matter how hard they have worked, which makes it a dubious and smug argument. It's similar to saying that if you just had no preferences whatsoever and would fvck literally anyone, taking viagra if necessary to get hard, then you could have sex. So what? And combine those arguments for the worst kind of argument.

There’s nothing “smug” or “dubious” about suggesting that if you are in good shape as opposed to not and learn how women function you will have better success having sex with them. It’s not smug because it’s good advice and it’s not dubious because it’s just basic sense and is based upon female attraction.

I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make except to say you think getting sex is hard. On that we will disagree I guess.

 

[Barrister]

Your good job and good isn’t getting you women, trust me. Your height and your looks are opening those doors.

There’s no disagreement that it’s easier for me to get women than a 5’4 guy who looks like a weasel in the face. That doesn’t mean he can’t get women with the right attitude. I know because I’ve seen guys like that that can still pull women despite those limitations.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Why can't people on this board accept that this is how I feel?

Because 90% of the "men" on this board are consumed by chasing p*ussy to the detriment of every other facet of their life. Only when they realize how much time, money, and mostly SELF RESPECT they've p*issed away will they realize that focusing on YOU and your goals is the only way for MAN (not boy or simp) to live.

Word.

 

[AttackFormation]

There’s nothing “smug” or “dubious” about suggesting that if you are in good shape as opposed to not and learn how women function you will have better success having sex with them. It’s not smug because it’s good advice and it’s not dubious because it’s just basic sense and is based upon female attraction.

I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make except to say you think getting sex is hard. On that we will disagree I guess.

It's smug because you can tell anyone who is having any problem to "just do better", it demeans their experience and implies that they should never think theyre good enough unless some stranger arbitrarily says so. It's dubious because self improvement just raises the bar of competition, men as a whole will always have a hard time having sex. For example if everyone is ripped, it's not special anymore. Yea you have to do it to keep up, but the way you said it made it sound like only some kind of skinny fat reject could experience difficulty or frustration and if you just "self improve" it'll be easy.

If women who are attractive to you are making it easy for you to have condom-free sex with them that also doesnt bring stds or pregnancy scares, that's great. Keep on trucking. But dont come here and imply the only reason why women dont make it as easy for other men as they do for you, is because other men are autistic potatoes.

Anyway whatever... i dont give a shyt either man, let's stop this here. I shouldnt have said anything haha.

 

[Robert28]

There’s no disagreement that it’s easier for me to get women than a 5’4 guy who looks like a weasel in the face. That doesn’t mean he can’t get women with the right attitude. I know because I’ve seen guys like that that can still pull women despite those limitations.

You’d have more success than a guy who’s 5’8” and normal looking face. He doesn’t even have to look like a weasel.

 

[Barrister]

It's smug because you can tell anyone who is having any problem to "just do better", it demeans their experience and implies that they should never think theyre good enough unless some stranger arbitrarily says so. It's dubious because self improvement just raises the bar of competition, men as a whole will always have a hard time having sex.

If women who are attractive to you are making it easy for you to have condom-free sex with them that also doesnt bring stds or pregnancy scares, that's great. Keep on trucking. But dont come here and say the only reason why women dont make it as easy for other men as they do for you, is because other men are autistic potatoes.

I would agree with you if I had actually said anything you just stated. The problem is I didn’t.

What I stated was that getting sex is difficult for most men because they don’t take care of themselves and don’t understand women (game) and that getting sex is fairly easy if you take care of those two things. Again, you won’t have some super model after you unless you are lucky or have very high SMV - we can agree on that. But the original premise was that getting women is hard for guys in general. I agreed with that to an extent and qualified it. Since then you have then stated I have said a variety of hyperbolic things I never did.

 

[AttackFormation]

I would agree with you if I had actually said anything you just stated. The problem is I didn’t.

What I stated was that getting sex is difficult for most men because they don’t take care of themselves and don’t understand women (game) and that getting sex is fairly easy if you take care of those two things. Again, you won’t have some super model after you unless you are lucky or have very high SMV - we can agree on that. But the original premise was that getting women is hard for guys in general. I agreed with that to an extent and qualified it. Since then you have then stated I have said a variety of hyperbolic things I never did.

Yeah, obviously you are right in that taking care of yourself and learning to understand women better improves your odds. I dont want to sound like i am somehow refuting that haha. No worries mate. I exaggerated too much into what you said.

 

[bat soup]

I'd sooner punch myself in the bollocks than entertain a woman with a pu$$y like a ripped out fireplace and saggy
old sock t1ts. YMMV...

Or that hangs like a sleeve of wizard.