Don't ever become this guy.

[ThunderMaverick]

I think we need a bl0wjob forum just for STR8UP and Kontroller. They're making this topic smell like penis. Apparently they also know more about strangers than we do. :crackup:

This is how discrimination comes about, kiddies.

 

[KontrollerX]

"you are both keyboard jockeys who read their own press releases. neither one of you knows sh!t. that goes for way too many other's on this forum."

LOL, such a drama queen.

"i hate to admit it but iqqi and Purple, two chicks, seem to be the most sensible ones around here these days."

Purple is damn cool. Iqqi is a troll piece of sh!t just like you.

"i'm done with this piece o' sh!t for a while."

Do us all a favor and stay gone until you are ready to contribute something worthwhile gramps.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Maybe you should sit on the bench too.

 

[frivolousz21]

I am dating a great women right now.

if I posted about it.

this is what Id get:

she will leave you
she is cheating on you
she is lying to you
no women can be that great
you see her to much
you are afc
she is using you
she has another man on the side
she cant possibly care for you in 2 months
you have one-i-tis


funny how so many posts here are observations about things that are threatening to them.

 

[KontrollerX]

Heh heh Thunder I let you have the last word a few pages back girlfriend.

Don't tell me your ass is still sore from the ownage I gave you?

Come on dawg you got the last jab in after all.

Least I could do.

 

[ketostix]

Walmart in Michigan where I live is a 24 hour store Humanist.

I think its the same everywhere else as well and with what keto said about 1 am it looks that way.

Yeah same here. Walmart has supercenters and all over the place and they are open 24 hrs.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Heh heh Thunder I let you have the last word a few pages back girlfriend.

Don't tell me your ass is still sore from the ownage I gave you?

Come on dawg you got the last jab in after all.

Least I could do.

Owned? You hardly addressed any points I made. TooCold inadvertently own you, STR8 and Keto too.

Seriously. Are you stupid?

Edit: Nevermind. Just let me have the last word. What you'd have to say couldn't possibly measure up anyways.

KTHX

 

[Latinoman]

Tonight I saw a disgusting example of AFCism. I was at Walmart (I try to avoid the place as much as possible) and went to checkout. There was a man that looked to be in his 60's and distinquished enough ahead of me with his stuff on the conveyor and there was this very ghetto black woman there but at first I didn't even think they were together or really cared to notice. I loaded my stuff on the conveyor and waited for the guy to pay, and that's when I looked and realized what was going on. The ghetto woman was loading the bags into her cart and there was another ghetto girl even more ghetto and nasty looking than other (Huge tramp stamp and all) with a cart full of stuff too-I'm talking like vacuum cleaners and I don't know what all.

After they left, I asked the cashier if the guy was payed for all the other people. and she said, "Yeah...poor guy. I feel sorry for him." So then I left and outside in the parking lot I saw him helping load this stuff into his Saab.

I don’t think we have enough information to reach any level of conclusion here.

In fact, we could argue the opposite of what you posted. For example:

1-Maybe they work for him. Maybe he owns a place of business in the inner city and they were picking cleaning materials so the women could proceed and do their job. Maybe he owns a cleaning company and those ladies work for him. That’s a possibility.

2-Maybe they are related. He could be their step father or grandfather or even father. I have cousins that are literally black skinned and I have siblings with blue eyes too.

3-Maybe they look and dress ghetto…but they are not ghetto. I used to live in an upper middle class neighborhood prior to my divorce. Some of the black kids there dressed “ghetto”. But their parents owned Mercedez and $450K homes and wore suits to work. Appearances could be deceiving.

Was the guy an AFC? Maybe. Maybe not. I guess the point I am trying to make is that we don’t have enough information to reach any conclusions.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Going off that, a girl who I use to work with (I banged a while back. Don't work with her anymore.) would go with the owner of the restaurant I worked at to Walmart to pick up liquor. He was 50 and she was 19. HE would go and get various types of alcohol and she would get sweet n sour, limes, etc. Walmart was right next to where we worked.

Now, what can we assume when we see this couple walk in? She's 19 and he's 50. They're getting liquor together. "Oh SHI-!! They must be banging!"

And for all those people who think they banged, no. His WIFE worked with him inside the restaurant and told them to get the supplies.

The smell of assumption reeks in this thread. I just might throw up all over you guys I feel so sick from it.

Another example of assuming like MORONS is when I went to court with my Father and sister. She has a white mother so she's lightskinned. My father is chocolate black. They were both dressed very nicely and going about their business. A couple of black girls were in a line behind us and I could hear them talking sh!t about both of them. These two racist idiots thought my father and sister were DATING! They knew nothing about my family. They just see an attractive, young light skinned girl and an older black man and they think "Oh that brotha soul out and got him a high yella chicken head!"

You can say "oh I'm a PSYCHOLOGY major" till you're blue in the face. However, with TooCold's experience AND my own, you can still be wrong.


It's gotten to a point in even the MATURE MEN'S forum that we make assumptions off people based on WHO they walk into a store with?? I am glad that there are a few Mature MEN here to snuff this crap out before it gets out of hand.

 

[KontrollerX]

"Owned? You hardly addressed any points I made. TooCold inadvertently own you, STR8 and Keto too."

I addressed enough of your blathering idiocy for one lifetime.

Normally you are a pretty good poster dude but in here...

Well lets just say the more I interact with you in here the more brain cells I lose.

As for that old man he's a non issue.

Fvckin loser probably tried to follow some advice Str8up and I gave him but failed miserably because he couldn't kill that inner AFC so he blames us for his own failure.

Also he says "we don't know sh!t" but never posted anything of ours that he disagreed with. He's just here to name call...ya know...which is what trolls do.

I only name call now as well to mirror his own miserable mindset back at him.

That old bastard can come criticize me when he helps as many guys as I do on a daily basis that PM me for help and advice because you AFC's on the forum would simply scream them down or say someother stupid sh!t that is not helpful at all.

 

[MacAvoy]

The smell of assumption reeks in this thread. I just might throw up all over you guys I feel so sick from it.

Did you know that life is a 2 way street. Sure Keto made an assumption. But every post on this site is based on assumptions. Your assuming Keto made the wrong assumption.

I think everyone is just jumping all over him because they want to make themselves feel better by jumping on their soapbox because Keto made an error in judgement and used the words ghetto.

Personally I don't see the point in arguing on the internet over something that is irrelevant as this. To quote oneeyedjack

I would like to remind everyone that fighting on the internet is like competing in the Special Olympics. Even if you win, you’re still retarded.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Did you know that life is a 2 way street. Sure Keto made an assumption. But every post on this site is based on assumptions. Your assuming Keto made the wrong assumption.

I think everyone is just jumping all over him because they want to make themselves feel better by jumping on their soapbox because Keto made an error in judgement and used the words ghetto.

Personally I don't see the point in arguing on the internet over something that is irrelevant as this. To quote oneeyedjack

Yes yes that's very true. Then another point that I would like to make is is that you shouldn't assume when you don't have enough evidence to prove your viewpoint.

Now what if I made a thread complaining about a lightskinned girl dating a black guy and how it's dangerous to society? My evidence was seeing these two in a line in a courthouse. How do I know they're dating? How do I know they're not family?

Those kinds of assumptions are ignorant and a little dangerous, IMO.

 

[ketostix]

Could it be that he is doing well, and gets to feel good to help out somebody who is struggling and really could use a hand? You don't know if he volunteers his time, donates money, mentors, etc. for one of those programs where they give a helping hand to those less fortunate. He probably has the qualities of a winner and a mature man who "gets it" and is just giving back. Good for him.

The problem with that argument is while it's possible it is highly unlikely that was his motivation. I've never seen a man that old with 2 younger ghetto girls filling up two shopping carts over merchandise at 1 am. Of all the people who need help why would he just happen to pick 2 young people like that and help them at such an odd hour. I could find plenty of people both male and female who could use his help who are old and can't really help themselves.

The point is the people who want to say it's just as likely there could've been some other reason because I didn't interogate the people and they admit that he was "A lonely old man paying for female company" is kind of a ridiculous argument. He's not going to admit that. If you're a person that can't read a situation and can only go by what people tell you and admit to, then I don't know what to tell you other than that's the definition of gullibility. I was there, and this comes down to some people want to insult and question my judgement. If you want to debate the likelihood he was just acting out the goodness of his heart well we can do that.

 

[Latinoman]

Before this thread gets locked up tighter than Fort Knox, let me just say that some people are more perceptive than others, and I believe this to be the case with Keto, as well as myself.

Keto, you can talk till you're blue in the face, but you saw what you saw and more than likely it was an accurate assumption, and anyone who wants at your throat is automatically gonna say "Well you don't know for sure it was probably this or that or the other!"

I have been studying sociology and psychology as a hobby for years, and part of this "studying" involves observing behavior in the real world.

I probably would have reached the same conclusion. but I wouldn't have posted about it, because no matter what the lynch mob would come out in droves and call me "bitter" and "cynical" and "racist" and whatever other terms these less perceptive folks can think of to sling around to inaccurately describe my closer inspection of human relations.

There are all sort of facets to my interactions with others recently that I wouldn't mind posting about to try to delve a little deeper and come up with some answers, but inevitably they all turn into 15 pages of people missing the whole point and ranting about just about anything BUT the topic at hand, so i don't even bother.

Do we need to start our own forum for the "deeper thinkers"?

So...if we were strangers and saw you with the type of women you are hanging out...then it would be acceptable to reach the conclusion you are some "AFC" that is BUYING "love" from strippers and drunks.

Correct?

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Kontroller, your insults suck. Sorry.

I want to ask you and Keto other questions, because you're both are drowning so badly. I want to put the nail in this coffin.

In the to examples I just gave you in my personal experience, what would you assume about the 50 year old man and the 19 year old girl getting liquor and sweet and sour from Walmart?

What would you think of the 50 year old black man dressed nicely with a 28 year old lightskinned girl in a courthouse?

What would you assume about two guys who eat at denny's together and one of them have a rainbow colored tag on his wallet?

What about TooCold's situation? What would you assume about him?

 

[Mr.Positive]

I am dating a great women right now.

if I posted about it.

this is what Id get:

she will leave you
she is cheating on you
she is lying to you
no women can be that great
you see her to much
you are afc
she is using you
she has another man on the side
she cant possibly care for you in 2 months
you have one-i-tis


funny how so many posts here are observations about things that are threatening to them.

Frivolous, it sounds like you are getting complacent. She's going to get bored and leave you.

:crackup:

Seriously, I'm seeing a great gal right now too. I see your point, however, it's important that by posting a situation here, there's an assumption that everything is not going well...hence, the reason to post in the first place.

So, the advise is to protect the poster first..and a lot of the advise is bang on too. There really is a lot of knowledge here on the mature man forum.

 

[Latinoman]

Regardless of the topic of this thread or if the guy was an AFC or a good Samaritan or family…that’s not important.

The message here should be:

Do NOT reach “conclusions” without gathering enough information. Reaching a “conclusion” about a person’s character based on a cursory 10-minute look (without even listening to him talk or without talking to him) is always mistake.

Why?
Because underestimating people can become a habit. And trust me…you don’t want to become a habit.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

So...if we were strangers and saw you with the type of women you are hanging out...then it would be acceptable to reach the conclusion you are some "AFC" that is BUYING "love" from strippers and drunks.

Correct?

Yes, Kontroller and Keto would.:crackup:

Which is really ironic, isn't it folks? STR8 always whines about people assuming what kind of person he is BASED off telling us about the kinds of people that he hangs out with.

 

[MacAvoy]

I think everyone in this thread is making a mountain out of a molehill. If I was a mod, I would have locked it long ago.

 

[ketostix]

Keto may be bitter in this thread but I think he's correct in this situation. I'm willing to be dollars to donuts that the old man in question was not doing so for noble reasons above like TooColdUrick was talking about.

You know how I know this is true



Because of the way the person would be carrying themself. I'm confident that if TCU was at Walmart and Keto seen him, he would have a totally different perception of TCU based on the way TCU carried himself. That my friends is the difference.

MacAvoy, you are right on the money. The vibe was very palpable that he was kind of trying to strut around like he was on a "date". I was just kind of just sauntering up to the register and the better looking one and the old guy were not near the register and were in my space and it was clear she sort of bossing him around, "I want a candy bar..well damn they don't have my candy bar." And he had an arrogant vibe to him. Things like this are too hard to explain here, but you know it when you see it.

Anyway MacAvoy you and KX are doing a better job of defnding me and making my point than I'm doing. You 2 guys usually do have a good understanding of situations.