Don't ever become this guy.

[iqqi]

Keto you are ridiculous. And this thread DOES make you look like an idiot.

You have NO IDEA what his relation is to them.

You have NO IDEA who those chicks are. It is 1am. What do you EXPECT them to dress like at 1am? I highly doubt they were even "ghetto". They were probably just guilty of being black and not dressed up to go to Walmart. Whatever the case it is still... NOT YOUR BUSINESS.

You also have NO IDEA who the man is. He could be their case worker, or their grandfather, or an in-law, or a kindly neighbor, or yes, their sugar daddy, or yes even lonely (and choosing ghetto black girls over fake breasted white prostitutes)... it is NOT YOUR BUSINESS.

What is most alarming is that you would just jump to such ignorant prejudgments, and figure the most negative take on the situation (which may I remind you is not your business), and actually start a thread here about it.

Noone here is in any dire danger of buying vacuum cleaners for two young "ghetto" girls.

Like I originally asked... how does this improve your life?

 

[ketostix]

I just don't see this as an example of "AFCism" necessarily.

Like I said, they could've been totally conning him. What's to say that he isn't suffering from some kind of dementia and they are taking advantage of it? What's to say that these girls aren't his step-daughters? How do you know that he doesn't owe them money and has settled the debt by purchasing x amount of goods for them?

My point is that you seem very keen on pointing the finger every which way in order to make your point: women suck. You may deny this, but your posts are riddled with a kind of passive hate (as I mentioned before) that is very obvious. Either that or you are so fixated on this whole "women are users, etc" sort of mentality that you can't seem to escape it.

I notice this in many of your posts, keto. I do not mean to attack you. I do not mean to be accusatory. I just wonder why it is that you remain static in your approach to all of this - surely this site and your life experiences (as a soon to be 30 year old man) have opened your eyes at least a little bit.

This thread is part of a larger motif that is your posting habit. You are angry with women. It is obvious. You will never grow as a person if you don't let go and allow some positive experiences to colour your views.

Again, I do not say this to attack or ridicule. Nor is this me being a know it all. These are MY observations based on my limited time here at SS. What you choose to do with what I've said is entirely up to you.

These women were using him and he was buying their company no matter how you slice it and that's AFC. I don't care if you think I criticise women too much, or you think I'm angry at women or any other belief you have. But you are attacking me and try to paint with a broad brush so don't try to deny it. You and most of the women that come on here have nothing good to say about men and are on a warpath to defend your gender so just stick a sock in it.

 

[Purple-Haze]

These women were using him and he was buying their company no matter how you slice it and that's AFC. I don't care if you think I criticise women too much, or you think I'm angry at women or any other belief you have. But you are attacking me and try to paint with a broad brush so don't try to deny it. You and most of the women that come on here have nothing good to say about men and are on a warpath to defend your gender so just stick a sock in it.

Your inability to even CONSIDER the possibility that there may be alternatives is telling, don't you think?

If you have very strong convictions, you WILL interpret things a certain way - this is how you validate and confirm your beliefs. It's a vicious circle. Unfortunately, you have yet to realize this.

I find it interesting that you say I have nothing good to say about men. I am on no warpath. For you to accuse me of this is silly. I have said time and time again precisely how I feel about men (and masculinity), so your statements cannot be substantiated. Unless of course you know something I don't.

Goodnight keto.

 

[ketostix]

Keto you are ridiculous. And this thread DOES make you look like an idiot.

No you are ridiculous.

You have NO IDEA what his relation is to them.

They weren't related to him but even if they were it wouldn't make any difference.

You have NO IDEA who those chicks are. It is 1am. What do you EXPECT them to dress like at 1am? I highly doubt they were even "ghetto".

They were ghetto because of all their huge tats, piercings and how they acted and a host of other reasons that makes someone ghetto-like someone else buying you things and driving you around.

They were probably just guilty of being black and not dressed up to go to Walmart.

See I knew you'd play the race card. They could've been young, ghetto and white or asian, it wouldn't make any difference.

Whatever the case it is still... NOT YOUR BUSINESS.

When did I say I was making it my business, how moronic? OK how about this then what post is none of your business so stay out of my threads.

You also have NO IDEA who the man is. He could be their case worker, or their grandfather, or an in-law, or a kindly neighbor, or yes, their sugar daddy, or yes even lonely (and choosing ghetto black girls over fake breasted white prostitutes)... it is NOT YOUR BUSINESS.

He wasn't related and it wouldn't matter if he was. You don't have a point you just want to stir up sh!t.

What is most alarming is that you would just jump to such ignorant prejudgments, and figure the most negative take on the situation (which may I remind you is not your business), and actually start a thread here about it.

No what's alarming is you're so hell bent to flame someone over posting about something they observed.

Noone here is in any dire danger of buying vacuum cleaners for two young "ghetto" girls.

Like I originally asked... how does this improve your life?

How does the BS your posting improving your life? I'm not trying to "improve" my life, I'm just posting a story and you are going crazy :crazy: .

 

[iqqi]

'Nuff said.


The funny thing is, I would say that this thread's title is quite accurate, when you look at it another way. Don't become this guy: the OP.


............

 

[ketostix]

Sorry to break the rule again, but I'm pretty sure no one will come in and make a similar argument as I am and I'm pretty sure I can predict where this will go. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm going ahead and post this.

Ok, calm down. The point of this thread is simply "the foolish man and don't be this man" story, well maybe some bashing on women and afc men who permiss such actions, but the good intention part is the "don't be this guy part."

Exactly.

The others simply wanted to state that "how can you be so sure?" A statement that don't be so judgemental and assumming that he is some chump.

No they wanted to show their a*s and attack personally anyone who they believe said someone of their gender did something "wrong".

Be reasonable, both are fair and reasonable points. Don't be a man who bascially trying to buy affection and is being used. Don't be a person who assumes what it looks. You don't have to start flaming so hard on that. For the sake of the argument, one can assume that Keto's assessment is correct and thus say that it is a reasonable example for others to avoid, but still keep in mind that the real story maybe not be correct, though it doesn't really matter in terms of the lesson to be learned.

OK but you are giving iqqi and Co way too much credit. They've called me about every insult in the book under the pretext that there's an outside chance this old guy is just being an philanthropist. Let's get real here. Iqqi flames every thread and post I make.

Also, I wanted to note, not really wanting to get in this argument or help either side, but need to note this from my experience. There is one scenario or possibility of why would a 70-ish year old at-least-semi-distinguish man would be have a presence with 20 year old-ish gettoish girls. The old man may be work with some charity organization or church and buying stuff with the girls for supplies (...and yes, I have seen ghetto looking girls volunteering at local charities, my former high school have a pretty insane mix of different types of people... though to be fair, many times I found those who act ghetto and look ghetto trend to be less reliable than the other volunteers).

Well I never seen a guy that old hauling them around at 1 am for church or charity. Most of what they were buying was household and personal items.

 

[3countriesPlan]

I think the broads on this board are annoying... but ketostix.. maybe he just needs to nut in some black azz instead of wasting his viagra on his brontosaur of a wife? Him trading them vacuum cleaners and toaster ovens is pretty bad though--- or maybe they are sex props?? HA

 

[ElChoclo]

He was probably their pimp. In return for going out all week raking in the cash for him he has allowed them to buy some vacuum cleaners as a reward for their faithful service.

Why I suppose should one always assume that something nice is going on, because it is far more likely that something bad is going on.

Alternative scenario, he is a paedophile, and he is paying them off with vacuum cleaners to gain access to their children.

 

[KontrollerX]

1am would be a good time for an AFC old man to go take these lowlifes out on a shopping spree to avoid even more shame of being around them which daylight would bring.

The time this took place at 1am just screams the old bastard was avoiding as much judgement as he could for partaking in this soul decaying madness.

Humanist's suggestion about church supplies and charity would definitely hold some merit...but not at 1am. Please. :crackup:

Oh yeah and appassionateapplesauce and that kingpin loser are trolls.

Iqqi is also merely trolling and sh!t stirring which for her is business as usual here.

The only genuine female posting from a place of seriousness in this thread is Purple Haze.

 

[Kingpin SkinnyPimp]

http://img148.imageshack.us/img148/8705/ilikewherethisthreadisgap6.jpg

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

dude WTF?

ok, assuming keto read the situation correctly (probably), an old guy is buying some pu$$y he couldn't get otherwise. so that makes him an AFC, again, i'll concede the point. so keto comes here, and feels the need to start a thread to say: HEY GUYS!! GUESS WHAT I SAW TONIGHT!! A GUY BUYING A WOMAN'S ATTENTION!!!! DON'T BE THAT GUY!!!

um, I think I've read that advice on this site, like (and i've only been here a few months) EIGHTEEEN FUKKING BUHZILLION TIMES!!!!!

DON'T BUY A WOMANS ATTENTION!!!

uh, yea, ok. i mean, i could understand if this was the HS forum, but jeez dude, WTF?

 

[KontrollerX]

Walmart in Michigan where I live is a 24 hour store Humanist.

I think its the same everywhere else as well and with what keto said about 1 am it looks that way.

 

[Kingpin SkinnyPimp]

Oh yeah and appassionateapplesauce and that kingpin loser are trolls.

http://img178.imageshack.us/my.php?image=juicesb6.png

 

[decades]

Tonight I saw a disgusting example of AFCism. I was at Walmart (I try to avoid the place as much as possible) and went to checkout. There was a man that looked to be in his 60's and distinquished enough ahead of me with his stuff on the conveyor and there was this very ghetto black woman there but at first I didn't even think they were together or really cared to notice. I loaded my stuff on the conveyor and waited for the guy to pay, and that's when I looked and realized what was going on. The ghetto woman was loading the bags into her cart and there was another ghetto girl even more ghetto and nasty looking than other (Huge tramp stamp and all) with a cart full of stuff too-I'm talking like vacuum cleaners and I don't know what all.

After they left, I asked the cashier if the guy was payed for all the other people. and she said, "Yeah...poor guy. I feel sorry for him." So then I left and outside in the parking lot I saw him helping load this stuff into his Saab.

So you know his entire life story after observing him for five minutes at Wal-Mart? Dude, grow up!

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Sorry, Keto, but in my opinion this thread really doesn't belong in the Mature Men's forum.

This arguing about what you could or couldn't have known is rediculous.

 

[KontrollerX]

Actually this topic is perfectly acceptable here if we could get back ontopic and away from iqqi's ridiculous trolling.

The point of keto's topic is that you can't buy love.

You can rent sex, you can rent companionship but its better to do none of the above and live with integrity instead.

Don't be the old man that has to flash a wad of cash to get what he should be able to get for free if only he had better game.

 

[Mr.Positive]

Also, I wanted to note, not really wanting to get in this argument or help either side, but need to note this from my experience. There is one scenario or possibility of why would a 70-ish year old at-least-semi-distinguish man would be have a presence with 20 year old-ish gettoish girls. The old man may be work with some charity organization or church and buying stuff with the girls for supplies (...and yes, I have seen ghetto looking girls volunteering at local charities, my former high school have a pretty insane mix of different types of people... though to be fair, many times I found those who act ghetto and look ghetto trend to be less reliable than the other volunteers).

What I find interesting about this thread, was I too, happened to find myself last weekend in the presence of "ghetto looking" girls. I was volunteering for a women's shelter for alcohol and drugs.

I'm sure people made some crazy assumptions about me.

It's really easy to judge people based upon what you see. But that's a big trap to fall into. Because the more you judge people based upon what you observe, the more you live life thinking people judge you the same way.

Instead of spending your life judging others, focus a little more on yourself and your life. It really doesn't matter what other people think anyway.

 

[Warrior74]

This reminds me of a story I heard from a coworker the other day. Apparently his homegirl always gets hit on by this well off older white gentlemen. Eventually the man offers her $500 for her 'company'. She turned him down but hooked him up with some of her ghetto ass girlfriends. All the old man asked was that they secure the hotel room in their name and he would pay for everything. He would pay them upfront (big mistake), and these broads would take the money and not show up. Or get the cheapest room they could get in bad part of town. After the deed was done they would call and bug him for money all the time and even threatened to come to his job or tell his wife if they didn't get more money out of him. He's caught up with these ghetto hoes now. Dealing with the drama and bull****. Don't be that guy!

To the OP and the rest. This sort of stuff happens. It doesn't matter if they are ghetto, or trailer trash or dirty mexicans or whatever. Low life scum pull crap like this. And AFC's get caught up in drama.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Actually this topic is perfectly acceptable here if we could get back ontopic and away from iqqi's ridiculous trolling.

The point of keto's topic is that you can't buy love.

You can rent sex, you can rent companionship but its better to do none of the above and live with integrity instead.

Don't be the old man that has to flash a wad of cash to get what he should be able to get for free if only he had better game.

Just. Stop.

Iqqi had a perfectly good point. Unless he actually KNEW the details he can't say sh!t. He can only assume.

 

[KontrollerX]

Just stop.

Keto's point was as equally valid as iqqi's.

Iqqi isn't posting in this topic to make valid points though.

Even if she has made valid points that is not the reason she is posting in here.

She is only posting in this topic to antagonize and troll keto.